Domination (Mistress & Masters) professionals
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
MentorChris
In person & Online/Virtual
Berlin DE
Sensual Hypnotist, and ImpactPlay Kinkster. Will give you a experience you will defenitely remember.
2 services
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GoddessPersephone
In person
Uvita CR
Shibari Artist creating rituals of trust, self expression & vulnerability
1 service, 1 event
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PleasureFWRD
In person & Online/Virtual
Chicago IL US
Somatic Intimacy and Relationship Coaching for couples and individuals.
2 services
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Roxu
In person & Online/Virtual
Berlin DE
From gentle to intense: tailored rope sessions that center you.
4 services
Artist BDSM Educator Kinkster Performer Rigger Shibari artist
Miss_Kirsch
In person & Online/Virtual
Berlin DE
If the Queen is happy, there is peace in the queendom .
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MissDanae710
In person & Online/Virtual
Los Banos CA US
Professional from femdom looking to work out all her tricks on a special sub.
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binataverna
In person & Online/Virtual
ZĂĽrich CH
Bina Taverna (she/her) With over 8 years of immersive experience in the realms of Shibari, Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, and Bodywork, Bina is an experienced guide in the journey of personal transformation. Bina internationally facilitates Tantra & Shibari retreats and workshops, offering profound experiences for seekers all around the globe. She offers private sessions in Shibari, Tantric Massage, conscious kink and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples. Her work is deeply rooted in empowerment, shadow work, and personal development, drawing inspiration from modalities such as sexological bodywork, trauma-sensitive tools and relationship coaching, and the yogic path. Bina encourages seekers to explore the depths of their being, navigating the shadow realms with courage and compassion. Each encounter with Bina becomes a sacred exploration, where the integration of polarities leads to profound pleasure and newfound wholeness. IG: @binataverna www.binataverna.com
6 events
Coach Shibari artist
A-BrandiKink
In person & Online/Virtual
El Paso TX US
Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.
1 service
Author BDSM Coach Educator Erotic creator Kinkster Photographer
JayHeart
In person & Online/Virtual
Dallas TX US
Sacred intimacy, body-based healing, and retreat facilitation for individuals & couples in Dallas
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What is domination?
Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.
What makes it hot?
To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.
No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.
Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.
No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.
DO
Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.
Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.
Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.
DON'T
Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.
Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.
Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.