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What is domination?

Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.

What makes it hot?

To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.

No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.

Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.

No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.

DO

Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.

Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.

Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.

DON'T

Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.

Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.

Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.