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Men: Sensual communication

“How do I feel more present and connected during sex?”

Steady controlled diaphragm breathing is a fantastic way to stay centered, present, and connected while having sex. I usually suggest a 4-second inhale, with a 6-8 second exhale. This helps to regulate the nervous system and focusing on

+7 4BiddenHands and 9 others
Pleasure & intimacy coach 11 (10 answers, 1 reply)

Something else

“How do I find a consistent kink partner to explore my kinks with while learning about their kinks?”

I have read your question carefully. If you wish to explore your fantasies with someone, I believe it is important to approach this as a mutual exchange, which means being open to exploring their fantasies as well. With this in mind

+4 Lady Saylie and 6 others
BDSM 9 (7 answers, 2 replies)

Women: Libido & desire

“Does anyone help men experience pain relief, pleasure, tantric touch, and exploration while also allowing mutual touch?”

In my practice, I never used to include mutual touch until very recently. Everyone's experience is different, and we are all at different stages when it comes to our boundaries and what we feel comfortable exploring. I believe there can be

+2 SpiralGoddess and 4 others
Massage therapist 5 (5 answers)