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mistrixcleokali
Artist, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Sydney AU
Kink Witch, Ritualist and Eco-Eroticist.
Queen_Bea
Content creator & BDSM
Services are Online
Female - Queer
New York NY US
Offering online domination to pets of all genders, come and be good for me.
HentaiMistressKoto
BDSM, Photographer & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Berlin DE
I could never get bored of playing Hentai, Shibari, and BDSM. It's my life.
princeroro
Artist, Photographer & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Kink + Queer photographer
joyenjoyen
Dancer, Muse & BDSM
Services are Online
Female - Pansexual
Manila PH
JOYEN (Pronouns: Perceived) is a Sadistic Rope Bondage Dominatrix and Burlesque Stripper, with expertise in the art of macabre and seduction. Her favorite style is aesthetically-pleasing and acrobatic tormenting rope, and Her interest lies in the realm of elegant fetish and erotica. Nothing delights Her Infernal Majesty more than those willing to completely surrender their darkest and most vulnerable selves (and wallets) in the dangerous embrace of Her rope.
carlyjorve
Erotic audio, Muse & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Amsterdam NL
Hot philosophers should be paid. Your greatest purpose is serving your goddess.
olivia
Content creator, Muse & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bicurious
Vancouver BC CA
Sensualist with a hunger for devotion
Dabih
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Services are Online
Male - Demisexual
Portimão PT
Hello, I'm Luis, here to have fun and a good time 😊
vitavolition
Content creator, BDSM & Writer
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Amsterdam NL
Your pain is my pleasure 😈⛓️🖤
soleilmerroir
Erotic audio, BDSM & Therapist
Services are Online
Gender fluid - Bisexual
Mexico City MX
I offer you the journey to the deepest roots of your erotic self, the reasons why you crave the darkness and the heat.
What is JOI?
Tell me how to touch myself.
JOI, or Jerk Off Instruction, is a form of sexual content or play where one person provides explicit instructions or encouragement to another person for the purpose of self-pleasure or masturbation. This can be presented in various formats, including written instructions, audio recordings, or video content. A content creator might be someone who is well-versed in JOI.
What makes it hot?
The excitement and arousal associated with JOI come from the explicit and often personalised guidance provided to individuals seeking solo sexual pleasure. The appeal lies in the combination of verbal encouragement, explicit instructions, and the fantasy of being guided by someone else's voice or words during the act of self-pleasure.
While JOI can be enjoyed in long-distance scenarios, it's not exclusive to them. Couples or individuals in close proximity can also engage in JOI as a form of erotic play and communication.
JOI can take various forms, ranging from explicit and intense to more sensual and teasing. It depends on the preferences of those involved.
Initiate a conversation about desires and interests. If both parties are comfortable, share fantasies and explore the possibility of incorporating JOI into the sexual repertoire.
DO
Communication and consent: Ensure clear communication and obtain consent before engaging in JOI. Establish comfort levels, boundaries, and preferences.
Customisation: If providing JOI content, consider the preferences and limits of the recipient. Customising instructions based on their desires can enhance the experience.
Create a comfortable environment: Set the mood by creating a comfortable environment, whether through lighting, music, or other elements, to enhance the overall experience.
DON'T
Assume preferences: Avoid making assumptions about the preferences or comfort levels of the individual receiving JOI. Always communicate and respect boundaries.
Disregard consent: Respectful and consensual engagement is essential. Do not proceed without explicit consent, and be attentive to any cues indicating discomfort.
Ignore aftercare: If applicable, consider aftercare. Some individuals may benefit from a debriefing or comforting interaction after the JOI experience, especially if it involves intense fantasies.