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lilabiene
•BDSM, Companion & Massage
Female, Queer, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Kinky Educator and Experience Creator
nausilove
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Singapore SG
In person & Online
Tallest and happiest escort in the world :D
FrankieTantraNYC
Muse & Massage
Female, Straight, New York NY US
In person
Standing at 5’ 3” I make up for my height with my big ass… Heart. I’m a free spirit who thrives on adventure. With a heart that longs for travel, a mind that craves knowledge and a soul deeply connected to the Universe, I embrace every aspect of life's beautiful journey. From astrology to psychology, world history and psychedelics, I'm always up for a passionate discussion. I find solace in meditation, pilates and cuddling my pup. I revel in the sensuality of the human experience. To me, every individual is deserving of the sacred and healing power of human touch and intimacy. Sexual education is for all of us. When not deep in cosmic contemplation, you'll find me laughing in a comedy club, lost in a good book, salsa dancing and indulging my love for anime by bringing my favorite characters to life through cosplay. I am not your typical “love and light” tantric provider. I am not the girl next door. I am the bitch down the block. I enjoy talking shit and keeping it real. I will hold you accountable. If I sound like your type of renaissance woman, please don’t be shy. Let's celebrate the magic of every moment, embrace the extraordinary, and indulge in meaningful experiences that expand the mind. Until we meet, xo Frankie
punktantrika
Content creator, Companion & Massage
Female, Sapiosexual, Leiden NL
In person
Pleasure is a spiritual power
missangelafromhell
BDSM, Companion & Therapist
Female, Sapiosexual, Mexico City MX
In person & Online
Nothing youve ever imagine
nadirah_khalisa
BDSM
Female, Queer, Berlin DE
In person
Berlin-based & FMTY Pro Dominant | Ready to serve Me? >>> https://www.nadirahkhalisa.com
DaddyDrew4u
Content creator, Photographer & BDSM
Male, Straight, Dallas TX US
In person
Photographer of all things Fem Beauty. Confidential Creative Conscientious ————————————————————- Always on the hunt for open-minded people willing to explore Beauty through the Fine-Arts of Photography! ————————————————————- I am a 39/ Straight / Male / Single Soft Dom / Switch ————————————————————- Feel free to ask questions!
badkittycommittee
Kinkster, Coach & Massage
Couple, Sapiosexual, New York NY US
In person
Greetings from Brooklyn! Hope everyone’s enjoying their Lifestyle adventure! I’ve been hosting events since 2019 in/aroung the NYC/NJ area. I’ve had the pleasure of meeting and mentoring plenty newbies interested in tapping into their kinky side. Enthusiast consent is always encouraged at all times no matter what the theme is.
mistresssade
Muse, BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Pansexual, Auckland NZ
In person & Online
Have you ever met a Real Dominatrix?
Handsyalien
Dancer, Kinkster & Massage
Female, Queer, Oakland CA US
In person & Online
Let's get weird
mistressrozz
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
I am Mistress Rozz, and I tend the gateway of an amazing experience you are on the threshold of. If you're reading this you probably have submissive tenancies and fantasies. If you are a submissive; no matter your experience level, there are things that you need training in. There is no one-size-fits-all perfect sub. I will shape you thoughtfully, relentlessly and sadistically into what I prefer. When you come and serve me you turn yourself over to me, and throughout the course of our session I will test that. My interests include: Leather and Latex fetish, Bondage, Suspension, Predicament Bondage, Mummification, Corporal Punishment, Obedience Training, Objectification, Spitting, Human Ashtray, Sissification, Role Play, Humiliation, Chastity Training, Sensory Deprivation and Sensory Play, CBT, Ballbusting, Shoe, Stocking and Foot Worship, Trampling.
tantrasree
Coach, Massage & Workshop
Male, Straight, Tucson AZ US
In person
Love your body, love yourself! Offering tantric bodywork, chakra healing and meditation.
What is orgasm control?
Every control freak's dream kink.
Orgasm control refers to the intentional manipulation or restraint of an individual's sexual climax, often done by a partner. This can involve delaying the orgasm, denying it altogether, or intensifying the experience through various techniques and activities. The practice requires a high level of trust and communication between partners, as it involves a nuanced exploration of pleasure and arousal.
What makes it hot?
What makes orgasm control exciting is the heightened anticipation and intensity it adds to intimate moments. The deliberate delay or denial of orgasm builds a strong sense of desire and arousal, creating a more profound release when finally allowed. The power dynamics involved can also be exhilarating, with one partner surrendering control and the other taking on the role of orchestrating pleasure. The excitement lies in the emotional and physical intensity.
When practiced consensually and with open communication, orgasm control is generally safe. However, it's important to be aware of your partner's physical and emotional well-being throughout the experience.
Approach the conversation with sensitivity and communicate your desires openly. Emphasise the mutual exploration of pleasure and discuss any concerns or boundaries your partner may have.
Techniques vary and can include edging (delaying climax), denial, sensory play, or the use of certain devices. Experimenting with different methods can help discover what works best for both partners.
DO
Communication and consent: Openly discuss desires, boundaries, and comfort levels before exploring orgasm control. Obtain explicit consent and ensure ongoing communication throughout the experience.
Build trust: Establish a foundation of trust between partners. Trust is crucial in orgasm control, as it involves vulnerability and surrender. Always prioritise your partner's emotional well-being.
Variety and exploration: Experiment with different techniques and activities to find what works best for both partners. Explore a variety of sensations, and be receptive to feedback to enhance the overall experience.
DON'T
Assume readiness: Never assume that your partner is ready for orgasm control without explicit consent. Respect their boundaries and preferences, and be attentive to cues during intimate moments.
Ignore limits: Respect any established limits and boundaries set by your partner. Pushing too far or too fast can lead to discomfort or emotional distress, undermining the trust essential for orgasm control.
Neglect aftercare: After an orgasm control session, provide emotional support and aftercare. Discuss feelings, ensure your partner feels secure, and address any emotional or physical needs that may arise.
