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chloephemeral
Coach, BDSM & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Barcelona ES
In person & Online
Intamacy is powerful
nikitafernandes
Kinkster, Educator & Therapist
Female, Queer, New York NY US
Online
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I graduated with my Master’s in Counseling in Mental Health and Wellness and a dual degree in LGBT Health, Education, and Social Services from New York University. I also hold a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with a background in Women and Gender Studies from George Mason University. I identify as a queer South Asian immigrant woman. I’m also neurodivergent and non-monogamous. Aside from being a therapist, I have volunteered as a crisis counselor for the Trevor Project, worked as a graduate assistant for the New York University LGBTQ+ Center, and helped in the planning of social justice conferences. I approach therapy with the intention to understand and connect with my clients as fellow humans. My own journey as a queer South Asian neurodivergent woman, along with the experiences of those close to me, deeply shape my approach. Building a genuine relationship with my clients is my top priority, as I believe it is the biggest predictor of therapeutic success. As a person of color, I actively challenge oppressive structures that have long been dominated by Western white culture. Jiddu Krishnamurti said that it is no measure of health to be adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and I do not see therapy as a way to numb the pain that is caused by systemic oppression but rather a way to empower clients to have compassion for themselves.
destingerek
Artist, Coach & Workshop
Male, Demisexual, San Diego CA US
In person & Online
Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, & personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American Board of Sexology, he’s the author of the bestselling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, & The One She Craves”. His innovative lens is the result of more than 20yrs of academic rigor & direct study - including 7 formative years traveling the world living & teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. Destin is host of the podcast: Diving Deep w/Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution & director of the award winning short film "Seductive Devotion". Through his flagship program, Sexual Self-Mastery, he’s trained over 2000 men to master their sexual energy & become attuned, evolved lovers. Destin’s taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation & integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, & themselves
lilithfoxx
Content creator & Coach
Female, Bisexual, Houston TX US
In person & Online
Lilithfoxx (she/her) is a BIPOC, queer, neurodivergent, kinky and polyamorous marketing professional turned Board-certified sexologist, AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator, professional speaker, coach, and Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging (DEIB) consultant. She is a graduate of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University’s Human Sexuality Intensive program, and is certified by Johns Hopkins University in psychological first aid. Her work focuses on the intersectionality of marginalized identities, alternative sexuality, and social justice. Informed by her personal and professional experiences, she provides BDSM and nonmonogamy cultural competency consulting for clinical, academic, and research settings, and facilitates workshops on sexuality justice and inclusion. Her expertise has been featured in several publications including Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Kinkly, Men's Health, and in LiveJasmin's 'Life in Red' docu-series.
jeremyshub
Coach, Educator & Therapist
Trans, Queer, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Working as a sex therapist, sex educator, sexological bodyworker, and relationship coach, Jeremy brings a wealth of experience and knowledge to their practice. Currently based in Berlin, they identify as polyamorous, slutty, a sex worker, kinky, genderfluid, and queer. With a background in education, science, creative art, and sexual health, Jeremy holds multiple university degrees and has facilitated numerous workshops on sexuality, relationships, and pleasure. Jeremy is dedicated to supporting individuals, couples and relationship constellations of all orientations and gender identities, with a focus on respecting consent and boundaries. Jeremy brings a queer-positive, anti-racist, and intersectional feminist perspective to the work, informed and inspired by the principles of decolonization, anti-patriarchy, anti-capitalism, and pro-earth spirituality.
SirLifts
Content creator, BDSM & Workshop
Male, Pansexual, Sherwood Park AB CA
In person & Online
I work/play in and around health and wellness as a trainer, speaker, author, safe kink/sex educator, professional Dominant and content creator! Coffee? Cannabis? Gym? Walks? Mountains? Adventures? Music? Kink? I'm/we're phucking doooown! Side Note: if you and yours are looking for a safe place to learn, lab, practice and/or explore Kink and BDSM, PLEASE reach out and let's chat. I love educating and working with people as they find spicier more confident and playful versions of themselves. Will add more when I get a chance!
What is polyamory?
Why have 1 boyfriend when you can have 5?
Polyamory refers to the practice of engaging in consensual, ethical, and transparent romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners simultaneously. In polyamorous relationships, individuals may have emotional, romantic, or sexual connections with more than one person, and the dynamics can take various forms, such as hierarchical or non-hierarchical structures.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of polyamory lies in the opportunity for individuals to explore diverse emotional connections and intimate relationships within the bounds of consensual agreements. It challenges traditional notions of monogamy, offering a space for open communication, honesty, and the acknowledgment that love and connection are not limited resources. Polyamorous relationships celebrate autonomy, communication, and the freedom to build varied and meaningful connections.
While jealousy can occur, it's not inevitable. Open communication, transparency, and addressing insecurities can help manage and mitigate jealousy in polyamorous dynamics.
Yes, polyamorous relationships can involve individuals with different sexual orientations. The key is open communication and mutual understanding of each person's needs and desires.
Balancing time and attention requires effective time management, communication, and a commitment to meeting the needs of all involved parties. Regular check-ins help maintain a healthy balance.
Surprising Ways Polyamory Has Changed My Life
Saturday 23 November 2024
While polyamory is still often viewed as socially unacceptable, it has brought me unexpected growth. Here are the biggest way polyamory has changed my life.
Introducing polyamorous kink & intimacy coach: Lilithfoxx
Sunday 4 August 2024
Looking for coaching around sexuality, intimacy, kink or non-monogamy? Meet Lilithfoxx, the coach and certified sexologist with a focus on inclusivity and accessibility.
So you want to try Polyamory: featuring Alice Lovegood
Tuesday 23 July 2024
Episode 3 of the Sensuali podcast features the iconic sex educator, ethical kink practitioner and content creator, Alice Lovegood talking all about polyamory with host Emma aka Emmcheeky.
Polyamorous relationship coach: meet Open Relating
Friday 15 September 2023
Sensuali had a conversation with Open Relating, aka, Roy Graff, the polyamorous relationship coach. We spoke about his goal to help people relate to one another out of love rather than fear, the male struggle to ask for physical affection from a parter, and the socialisation that has made society terrified of polyamory.
Interview with a Monogamous Queen
Thursday 14 July 2022
For all the polyamorous interviews I've been doing, it seemed only fair to get the perspective of someone in a happy, monogamous marriage.
Interview with a Poly Goddess
Tuesday 12 July 2022
A few weeks ago, I interviewed some poly novices. This week, I sat down with a poly expert to learn more about navigating polyamorous relationships in the long-term.
4 Reasons Women Cheat
Tuesday 21 June 2022
After doing a post on why men cheat, it only seemed fair to do a follow-up blog about why women cheat.
Q&A with a Polyamorous Woman
Thursday 16 June 2022
I sat down with my bestie who recently began identifying as poly after years of trying to do the whole monogamous thing. Here's what she had to say.
Q&A with a Polyamorous Man
Tuesday 14 June 2022
Polyamory -- it's the latest trend taking over Brooklyn. People are shedding the societal norms of days past and embracing a world where it's acceptable to date and fall in love with multiple people at once. But what makes polyamory different from normal dating? And what's the reality of having to share a lover with multiple partners? I sat down with a friend who identifies as polyamorous to find out.
DO
Open communication: Foster transparent and honest communication with all partners involved to ensure everyone is on the same page regarding expectations, boundaries, and needs.
Establish boundaries: Clearly define and communicate personal and relationship boundaries to maintain a healthy and respectful dynamic.
Prioritise consent: Ensure that all parties involved are consensually aware and agreeable to the polyamorous structure. Regularly check in on consent and revisit agreements as relationships evolve.
DON'T
Neglect communication: Avoid assumptions and neglecting open communication. Regular check-ins help prevent misunderstandings and keep all parties informed.
Overlook boundaries: Respect the established boundaries of each partner and avoid pushing anyone beyond their comfort zones.
Neglect self-care: In the midst of multiple relationships, don't neglect self-care. Each individual should prioritise their well-being and ensure they have the emotional capacity for multiple connections.
