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Marklust
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Male, Bicurious, Paris FR
In person & Online
Sensual guy from Eastern Europe.. Almost always in London and Paris. Message me 😘
papipistacchio
BDSM
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person
Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
chloephemeral
Coach, BDSM & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Barcelona ES
In person & Online
Intamacy is powerful
knotsnacks
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Non Binary, Queer, Los Angeles CA US
In person
Experience the beauty in suffering
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Male, Straight, Barcelona ES
In person
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
mistresslola
BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist
Female, Pansexual, Paris FR
In person & Online
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
sandrakinkr
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Female, Straight, Dallas TX US
In person & Online
Let me take you deep into the darkest part of the lifestyle
MissBecky
BDSM
Female, Bisexual, New York NY US
In person
I'm Miss Becky, a dominatrix specializing in the art of bullying and tease. With a decade of experience, I masterfully blend psychological dominance with physical control, creating unforgettable sessions for those who crave intensity and authenticity. My approach is rooted in understanding the desires and limits of my submissives, pushing them to their boundaries while ensuring a safe, consensual environment. I revel in the power dynamics, expertly wielding my words and actions to evoke vulnerability, excitement, and a deep sense of submission. Each session with me is a unique journey, tailored to your specific fantasies and fears. Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a curious newcomer, I will guide you through an experience that will leave you yearning for more. My tools of the trade include a sharp tongue, a keen sense of intuition, and an array of instruments designed to tease, torment, and tantalize. Step into my world, where the line between pleasure and pain blurs.
naughtynymph89
Content creator, BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Los Angeles CA US
Online
Like all Geminis I’m versatile 💕 See my bio for more 😈
Helina
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Female, Queer, Paris FR
In person & Online
I am a conscious kink facilitator and Dominatrix, passionate about creating transformative, empowering spaces for you to explore power dynamics, consent, and authentic self-expression. In our work together, you'll uncover your deepest desires, define clear boundaries, and tap into the liberating power of kink. With a focus on clear communication and mutual respect, I guide you through a journey of self-discovery, where vulnerability becomes strength and personal empowerment is key. Whether you're looking to release old limitations or step into your fullest self, my sessions offer the perfect blend of playfulness, intensity, pleasure, adventure and self-growth, helping you connect more deeply with your desires, your power, and the freedom within surrender. I offer personalized 1-2-1 sessions, group workshops, and interactive/educative talks, centered around exploring power dynamics, consent, and self-expression through conscious kink, sensuality, and energy work.
Ende_J
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Male, Bisexual, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
Welcome^_^. I hold sex and sexuality as brushes and view the people who submit to my care as canvas. By making use of a D/S dynamic, I aim to turn my subs into art objects and refelct and amplifiiy the beauty they show me. Through a sereis of sessions, my subs and I build a relationship founded on trust and comfort, allowing for a release of repressive anxieties. My approach combines conversation with artistic expression. Using photography, mirrors and rope as my primary media, I capture your essence in a way that reveals an unfiltered you: its gorgeous. Additionally, I find rope work can evoke sensations of being held and supported, further enhancing your experience of safety and relaxation. When you work with me, you are not just a sub—you become a living masterpiece.
yannickpoulain
BDSM, Massage & Workshop
Male, Pansexual, Paris FR
In person
💎 Live an Orgasmic Life, by Developing your Sensual Energetic Self.
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta CÃtrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
