alexandredande...

Hi, welcome to my bio

I'm Alex, a french touch artist and bodypleaser, massage enthusiast and cuddle monster. My main passions and talents are sensuanlity and sexuality.

I'm all about touch! It's my profession but most importantly, my passion. I just love to please a body, which makes me more of a "bodypleaser" than a bodyworker 😉 I have a certain ease and ability to make a woman feel safe in my embrace, and to hold space for her to fully surrender. Mostly because I'm not here to take anything from her (unless she wants me to), but to allow her to receive pleasure, and give herself with full trust. I am honored to feel this trust and always committed to make the best out of this blissful experience. Within that container I am very good at exploring different polarities and intensities, and help women who maybe never allowed themselves to explore, to go in this adventure. For me sex is like music, and like a musician playing on a beautiful instrument, I love to make a body sing with pleasure. I used to play the piano and I also play drums, maybe that's part of what made me very skilled and subtle/strong with my hands 😉 I'm empathetic and sensitive, raw and honest, calm and playful. I like to play wih blindfolding, tying, sensory props... And really, I'm all about touch:)

Safety first! I like to have it all clear beforehand regarding desires and boundaries, and am always attentive to how they might evolve in the moment. I want to create the conditions for healthy vulnerability. Regarding the session itself, I love to remind that you cannot force a flower to bloom, you can only water her with love and light, and she will bloom herself. Same with a woman and her sensuality. I love to give space for a woman's desire to emerge, be present and dedicated, but never pressing. Unless she wants to, of course, but that's a specific vibe 😉 I am very gifted with my touch and love to start slowly with a very progressive, gentle massage to arouse the senses and build up desire. There is nothing more sexy that a body lighting up, breath becoming deeper, until that moment when she is ready and asks for sex. Then I am really open and in an attitude of service and devotion. BFE, rough, vanilla, kink... I'm multifaceted with a pleasure dom flavour. Aftercare is important for me and I always offer time for cuddling at the end of the session, to disconnect softly.

MY OFFER TO YOU

A moment just for you, respecting your limits and abiding to your desires, where you can finally be seen and recognized in all your beauty, in all your vulnerability. Where you can reconcile yourself with this part of you that needs to be heard, respected, honored. Where you can be touched where you want (and only where you want), how you want (and only how you want). Where you can (re)connect to your sensuality in complete safety, overcome past apprehensions, to at last surrender to masculine energy and let yourself go into the firm, gentle and warm embrace you desire.

Loving tantra massage ❤🕉
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A massage based on an intense shared presence, a heart-to-heart connection as much as skin-to-skin. Enveloping your body with ample movements gliding over your reliefs, this oily massage takes you surfing on a spray of pleasure and sensual relaxation. In accordance with the signs of the body, adapt the rhythm and the intensity while keeping a particular in-tension to maintain a constant connection, playing on the pace even sometimes slowing down until marking a total pause, a moment of precious balance, before resuming with greater intensity. Very sensual without being necessarily erotic, this massage is practiced on both sides of the body (if you wish of course), integrating all its parts with care and tenderness. Recommended to reconcile with masculine touch or simply to experience intense and subtle vibrations.

Adoration 🙏
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This is YOUR “Signature massage”: “according to your desires and respecting your limits”, does that mean something to you?

Before the massage, take the time to give attention to your desires. The question to ask yourself: “How do I want to be touched now?” ". It's no limits for your desires... but it's also no negotiation on your limits. Thus a framework where both can be expressed and manifested, in complete safety.

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CODE OF CONDUCT
QUALITY COMMITMENT
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# Only desired touching

Consent (or permission for touch) is:

- Free = nothing is obligatory, in any of the proposals made: you always have the choice

- Enlightened = no massage in an altered state of consciousness: no alcohol or drugs before the session

- Informed = we call a spade a spade, body parts and practices are specifically named and defined

- Specific = you always agree to something specific, for example caresses on the lower back do not allow caresses on the buttocks

- Revocable = you can change your mind at any time and as many times as you want

- Enthusiastic! “Why not” is not “yes!” : there is no reason to consent to something that does not make you fully and completely happy and want... after all, it is YOUR session.

Safety first! A “safe word” is agreed at the start of the session to take a break and clarify if necessary. Of course at any time you can ask for more, less, something else, or stop.

And because it is not always easy to express your feelings during a massage (which is a vulnerable situation), I regularly inquire about your well-being during the session.

# No formal, mechanical massage...

Each session is unique, because YOU are unique, and each day is different: your desires can vary from one day and from one session to another, and even during the session.

# No “chrono” session

I will not rush you to undress when you arrive and will not “invite” you to leave quickly once the massage is finished: each session includes half an hour in addition to the massage time. Beforehand, time to drop off, let go of your concerns and relax with a hot drink – it's also time to talk about your desires. Afterwards, a time of integration and possibly a short hot debrief.

# No tendentious exchanges following the session

For your part, you can obviously contact me if you feel the need. Apart from that, no communication of a personal nature. It is not because you get literally naked during your session, that intimacy must be created outside. I respect and honor your vulnerability by making this space-time a sacred and preserved parenthesis.

Looking forward to serving your pleasure 🙏