arika BDSM Berlin

arika

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CURRENTLY OFFERING SESSIONS ON IBIZA 15.2-07.3
Berlin-Based Tantrika & Sexuality Coach
Female, 32 Years Old

With years of experience in sexuality work, from starting out as a sex educator and researching sexual violence to embracing embodied practices through tantra, I am dedicated to helping individuals and couples connect deeply with themselves and each other. I am certified as a systemic sex counselor and couples coach with trauma expertise, I bring both a compassionate heart and extensive knowledge to every session.

Working Together

In our work together, expect a safe, open environment where you can explore both sensuality and sexuality. My approach integrates meditation, touch, and personalized coaching. Clients often describe my tantric sessions as gentle, profound, and nourishing – and many return to dive deeper into their journey of intimacy and self-discovery.
All Genders & Relationship Styles Welcome

Individual & Couples Counseling Topics:

Desire, Fetishes & Kinks: Understanding, expressing, and living with what excites you
Pain & Discomfort During Sex: Moving past discomfort and finding ease
Navigating Desire & Displeasure in relationships (marriage or partnership)
Sexual Dissatisfaction & Low Libido
Sexually Compulsive or Addictive Behavior
Consequences of Sexual Trauma: From verbal abuse to physical assaults
Chemsex and Related Challenges
Difficulty Reaching Orgasm
Managing Non-Consensual Affairs & Infidelity
Exploring Sexual Preferences & BDSM
Sexual Dysfunction such as:
Premature ejaculation
Erectile challenges
Orgasm inhibition
Vaginismus
Managing STIs: Information and guidance

Topics We Can Address in Couples Counseling

New Relationships: "We just got together and want to do things differently this time."
Communication Issues: "We have nothing more to say to each other." / "We always talk past each other."
Trust Issues: "An affair has affected our trust."
Sexual Challenges: "Our sexual tempos don’t match." / "I have a fetish I don’t know how to explain to my partner."
Conflict Resolution: "We argue too much." / "Everyday life brings challenges for us."
Future Planning: "We have different views on children, career, or where to live."
Separation Questions: "Do we need to separate?"
Control & Perception: "One of us feels controlled or undervalued."
Relationship Models: "We’re not sure what relationship model fits us – monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, or swinging."
Loss of Infatuation: "The spark has faded… Now what?"

****Open to Sugar Baby Arrangements

For those interested in exploring genuine sugar baby connections, I am open if there is a mutual, respectful bond.

On a personal note: Sexuality is a passion for me, and I am continually discovering new depths within BDSM and tantra , which enriches my practice and insights. And funn is such an important part to ittt

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Berlin, DE

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arika
Pansexual Female
32 years old
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