autumnlefay Companion Oakland

autumnlefay

Female , Pansexual
In person & Online

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About me

I want to know you. Your desires, wishes, and your body. Pleasure has infinite expressions: it can be hot, it can be deep, or just really fun.

My photos will tell you part of the story: not an inch over 5 feet, I am petite, whimsical, and like to dress up. The sexy side is inherently a part of me and is not a show. I am a performance art pole dancer and crave expressing my raw sensuality through movement and creativity. A mix of familiar sweetness and tantalizing edginess, I have a handful of elegant body piercings and tasteful tattoos though my long, honey-colored hair and love of all things feminine, soft, and lacy are just as much of my aesthetic.

There is another side to me, too: with a postgraduate degree from a Southern Ivy, my mind is as dynamic as my body. I am trained in holistic health and sacred intimacy and I see people for who they are as entire beings: the parts that are easy to love and the parts that like to stay in the shadows. I welcome explorations around all things body and soul and am delighted to be your guide in giving and receiving pleasure.

I am sweet, playful, and take pride in my unique attunement skills. The service that I offer is my genuine presence. When you are with me, you are getting the real me-my own desires, curiosities, and quirks. I want to get the real you, too. I show up as my full self and I reserve my time for other curious, kind souls who appreciate what an authentic connection feels like.

My innate curiosity has led me to have many adventures in the realm of self discovery and pleasure, blessing me with the ability to offer a variety of experiences that I truly enjoy sharing with you. Some energies and practices we can explore during our time together:
*Genuine, affectionate girlfriend experience
*FBSM and bodywork
*Tantra & sacred sexuality, including breathwork, eyegazing, and full body orgasm
*Role play
*Sensual domination
*Erotic dance and movement, including pole dance performance and sensual wrestling (Oakland incall only)
*Erotic skill building
And so much more...

Please note:
I largely abstain from substances, including alcohol. I kindly ask that you are mindful of your use during our time together so we can both be fully present with each other. Please disclose any usage.

Couples & moresomes: as a proud bisexual woman, I would love to help you explore new (or familiar!) facets of your relationship. I am honored to be your special guest, no matter how new or experienced you are with group dynamics.

Women & AFAB folks: if you are looking for a sensual femme to connect with, look no further! Queer curious? I am a safe and attuned companion to explore with at your own pace.

I am most attracted to intuitive chemistry-I connect with a wide range of body types, genders, and abilities.

I will only respond to messages with the following information:
-Which of my offerings you're interested in
-Your legal name, phone number, and email
-A link to your professional LinkedIn profile or company/academic website with a photo and bio

I interact

My Location

Oakland, CA, US

Experiences I offer

More about Autumn le Fay

autumnlefay
Pansexual Female (She/Her)
My experiences are for Everyone
33 years old
White/Caucasian
I speak English
Postgrad
5'0 ft
Athletic
No
No
No Party
A few Tattoos
A few Piercings

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