The Sensuali magazine
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Interview
Introducing LA-based Shibari artist: Knotsnacks
Posted by Iso
Thursday 19 December 2024
'My favorite thing about my work is the privilege of sitting and watching the person I’m tying sink away into themselves.' Meet LA-based Shibari artist and photographer, Knotsnacks.
Meet Ibiza-based men’s sex & relationship coach: Alejandra
Co-authored by Iso & Alejandra Welsh Peña
Thursday 12 December 2024
Meet Ibiza-based sex and relationship coach for men, Alejandra, who is also founder of The 5th House, a sexual education platform for adults.
Meet LA-based kink educator: Vüdü Dähl
Co-authored by Iso & Vüdü Dähl
Thursday 5 December 2024
Stop everything you're doing and see how Vüdü works their voodoo. The celebrated LA kink educator and soon-to-be somatic sexologist, Vüdü Dähl shares their magic secrets with us. Read all about it.
Meet sex & intimacy coach: Haneen Khan
Co-authored by Iso & Haneen Khan
Wednesday 27 November 2024
'My story from Indian lawyer, to wild sex coach is a real head-turner at dinners.' Meet sex and intimacy coach, Haneen Khan, guiding you to turn your sex life around and watch the rest of your life follow suit.
Meet conscious kink facilitator & Dominatrix: Helina
Co-authored by Iso & Helina
Friday 22 November 2024
Must be the season of the witch? This is Helina, conscious kink facilitator, Dominatrix, Reiki Witch and more, who uses various spiritual and sensual practices to help others step into their wholeness.
An interview with queer erotic photographer: Anna Sampson
Co-authored by Iso & Anna Sampson
Monday 11 November 2024
We were truly thrilled to speak with the magnificent queer erotic photographer, Anna Sampson, whose gorgeously intimate photos have touched lovers of the erotic across the world.
Meet Lisbon-based Shibari artist: Pedro Cordas
Co-authored by Iso & Pedro Cordas
Tuesday 5 November 2024
With 21 years of experience, this is the legendary Lisbon-based Shibari artist, Pedro Cordas, who offers tuition, sessions, as well as public and private performances.
Meet NYC-based queer sex therapist: Goddess Nixx
Co-authored by Iso & Goddess Nixx
Monday 4 November 2024
'My multifaceted identity as a queer, poly, kinky Indian woman significantly influences my therapy practice.' This is our conversation with iconic NYC-based queer sex therapist: Goddess Nixx.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Co-authored by Iso & Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Co-authored by Iso & Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Podcast
So you want to try exploring your desires: featuring Leo
Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Leo
Thursday 19 December 2024
On the 8th episode of our podcast series 'So You Want To Try...' we speak with professional sex & relationship coach Leo about communication, fantasies and relationships.
So you want to try semen retention: featuring Nic Warner
Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Nic Warner
Monday 25 November 2024
On the 7th episode of our podcast series 'So You Want To Try...' we speak with transformative coach Nic Warner on the exploration of semen retention.
So you want to try Bisexuality: featuring Genevieve LeJeune
Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Genevieve LeJeune
Friday 18 October 2024
On the 6th episode of our podcast series 'So You Want To Try...' we speak with powerhouse Genevieve LeJeune, CEO and Founder of Skirt Club, the all-female community for empowerment and sexual discovery.
So you want to have better sex: featuring Chloe Macintosh
Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Chloe Macintosh
Friday 13 September 2024
Episode 5 of the Sensuali podcast features the extraordinary Chloe Macintosh, sex educator and founder of Kama, the platform helping people to revive their sex lives and understand their desires.
So you want to try Shibari: featuring Marie Sauvage
Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Marie Sauvage
Friday 16 August 2024
Episode 4 of the Sensuali podcast features celebrated Shibari artist Marie Sauvage talking with host Emma aka Emmcheeky all about the famous Japanese art form, Shibari.
So you want to try Polyamory: featuring Alice Lovegood
Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Alice Lovegood
Tuesday 23 July 2024
Episode 3 of the Sensuali podcast features the iconic sex educator, ethical kink practitioner and content creator, Alice Lovegood talking all about polyamory with host Emma aka Emmcheeky.
So you want to try Butt Stuff: featuring Max Hovey
Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Max Hovey
Friday 14 June 2024
Episode 2 of the Sensuali podcast is hosted by sex educator Emma aka Emmcheeky, and features guest appearance from the fantastic Max Hovey, queer intimacy expert, author and content creator.
So you want to try BDSM: featuring Eva Oh
Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Eva Oh
Thursday 16 May 2024
Episode 1 of the Sensuali podcast is hosted by sex educator Emma aka Emmcheeky, and features guest appearance from Eva Oh, the world famous Dominatrix who knows the world of BDSM like no other.
Advice
The newly single’s guide to rediscovering your sensuality
Posted by Ruth Ramsay
Sunday 15 December 2024
Newly single? Don’t rush this solo stage, where you can be joyfully selfish – and learn a lot about yourself in the process.
Own your fantasies, own your confidence
Posted by Lisa Opel
Friday 13 December 2024
Unlock confidence by embracing your fantasies - in and out of the bedroom.
When Desires Don’t Align
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully will still staying true to yourself.
Understanding the Roots of Jealousy: A Self-Reflection Guide
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 4 December 2024
Jealousy often gets a bad rap, but it's a completely natural emotion that just needs a little more time to navigate. Here are three ways to start exploring it!
Long-term loving: A sex coach’s playbook for committed couples
Posted by Ruth Ramsay
Monday 2 December 2024
Sex coach and TEDx Talk speaker, Ruth Ramsay's starter pack for long-term couples looking to explore new sexual experiences together.
What do beauty standards, the orgasm gap and diet culture all have in common?
Posted by Tara Margulies
Tuesday 26 November 2024
What do beauty standards, the orgasm gap and diet culture all have in common? Tara Margulies explores taking back control.
Surprising Ways Polyamory Has Changed My Life
Posted by Nicole Gleeson
Saturday 23 November 2024
While polyamory is still often viewed as socially unacceptable, it has brought me unexpected growth. Here are the biggest way polyamory has changed my life.
Let’s talk about intimacy after top surgery
Posted by justsaySK
Wednesday 20 November 2024
Concerned with how getting top surgery might impact your intimacy and relationships? SK, trans non binary educator, shares their personal journey through the fears, doubts, and triumphs of the experience.
5 Ways to Enhance Sexual Confidence
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 20 November 2024
Sexual confidence is a journey rooted in self-acceptance, self-awareness, and personal empowerment and building this confidence begins within. Here are 5 steps our intimacy coach April Maria recommends to reconnect with yourself and boost your sexual confidence.
Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships and How to Break Free
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 6 November 2024
Relationships can be beautiful spaces for connection and intimacy but sometimes, we find ourselves in a partnership that harms rather than heals. Here is how to identify a toxic relationship and more importantly leave one.
Art
3 essential films about drag performance
Posted by Iso
Sunday 10 November 2024
These are 3 films that shed light of the real beauty of drag performance, from all the way back to the New York drag scene in 1968 to present day.
3 essential films about trans sex workers
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 29 October 2024
Out of the few existing films about transgender sex workers, here are three that are thoughtful, beautiful and authentic.
3 essential lesbian BDSM films
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 27 August 2024
It's hard to find nuanced representation of BDSM in film, and we could write a whole thesis on cinematic portrayals of lesbian relationships. So how are we fixed for films that explore lesbians & BDSM all in one? Here are our 3 favourites.
Shibari rope tying: when sensuality becomes an art form
Posted by Pauline Marie-Antoinette
Thursday 11 July 2024
Experience the art of Shibari, where ropes and knots transform into a journey of trust, and sensual exploration. Discover how the subtle interplay of pain and pleasure can elevate your understanding of connection and intimacy.
7 outstanding queer erotic artists on Sensuali
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 2 July 2024
Pride month might be over but our celebration of queer sensualists is absolutely not. Here are 7 of our favourite erotic artists on Sensuali whom you can book for custom made sexy art or photoshoots.
7 old school films about open relationships
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 5 June 2024
In light of the release of 'Challengers', the blockbuster film that has consolidated society's current obsession with open relationships, here are 7 fantastic old school films all about non-monogamy and three-way fun.
Sensuali Selects: 7 erotic literature must-reads
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 8 May 2024
The people have spoken! We asked our Sensuali Sexperts for their favourite erotic literature. Here are the 7 top picks.
6 superb erotic photography series by women
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 7 May 2024
Cool AF women taking carnal AF photos. It doesn't get much better than this. These are Sensuali's pick of 6 outstanding erotic photography series by women.
5 short films about sex work
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 27 March 2024
It's hard to find films that explore sex work without sensationalising or objectifying. Here are 5 modern-day short films intricately exploring the many nuances of sex work.
4 essential pioneers of kink art
Posted by Drew
Friday 22 March 2024
These are 4 essential kink artists who paved the way for all lovers of art and erotica today.
Culture
A very mindful Christmas: 9 alternative festive rituals
Posted by Iso
Friday 20 December 2024
With the wellness and alternative spirituality movements well underway, an appreciation for rituals is back. Here are 9 alternative ways to celebrate Christmas and yourself this year.
Techno Fever Dream: A Bi Femme’s Friday in Berlin
Posted by Alex da Costa Cox
Wednesday 18 December 2024
Ever wondered what a Friday night in Berlin feels like for a bi femme? This was my experience in a city that redefines desire.
Exploring NYC’s Kink Scene: Where to Start
Posted by Alexa André
Monday 9 December 2024
Alexa Andre is here to give you the low down on New York City’s fabulous kink scene. Whether you’re a seasoned player who knows their way around a flogger or you’re just starting to wonder if maybe, just maybe, you’d enjoy a little power exchange in the bedroom, NYC is the place to explore.
6 great sensual movement classes to try in NYC
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 4 December 2024
Want some space to shimmy and sway at your own pace within the bustle of New York City? These are 6 great sensual movement classes to try.
Berlin’s intimate guide for sensual explorers
Posted by Pauline Marie-Antoinette
Tuesday 12 November 2024
Erotic poet and performer, Pauline Marie Antoinette guides us through her top sensual recommendations in her home city of Berlin.
Storytime: My Hypno Shibari experience with Hands of Eros
Posted by Pauline Marie-Antoinette
Monday 28 October 2024
I recently had the chance to do a private session with the wonderful Hypno Shibari artist, Emmanuel aka Hands of Eros. Here's everything that happened.
The remote-controlled sex toys reviving long-distance relationships
Posted by April Maria
Monday 21 October 2024
Forget mile high, it's time to join the 'miles wide' club. These are our favourite remote-controlled toys for long-distance fun or solo pleasure time.
Why we need the sex-positive movement now more than ever
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 24 September 2024
In a word of play parties and polyamory, the sex-positive movement might seem to be flourishing. But between the rise of red pill ideology and a wave of prudish fear-based parenting, it’s crucial to unlearn the harmful notion that sex is 'dirty' now more than ever.
Pride is a Protest: honoring black, queer trailblazers
Posted by Autumn Thomas
Thursday 27 June 2024
In honor of June coming to a close, we celebrate and ardently salute 5 queer Black women who remind us the importance of sexual liberation.
The burlesque connoisseur’s guide to New York City: Pride edition
Posted by Autumn Thomas
Wednesday 19 June 2024
Looking to celebrate the art of the tease this month? Mark your calendars for the hottest Pride month burlesque in the city that never sleeps.
Educational
Debunking Monogamyths: Unlearning Traditional Relationship Norms
Posted by Hannah Honey
Wednesday 4 December 2024
The monogamyths have been busted. Now the question that remains is: how exactly do we make non-monogamy work?
Exploring Intimacy and Sexuality for Disabled People
Posted by Pauline Marie-Antoinette
Tuesday 3 December 2024
Marking the International Day of Persons with Disabilities.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
The Role of Sex Coaches in Sexual Wellness
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 13 November 2024
Working with a knowledgeable, supportive professional sex coach can be transformative for both individuals and couples. In this article, we'll explore what sex coaches do, how they differ from therapists and how to find the right coach for you.
Celebrating Your Pansexual Identity with Confidence
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 30 October 2024
While Pansexuality is much more known today, there are still so many misconceptions. Here is everything I have learnt as a Pansexual woman.
6 kinds of sensual retreats
Posted by Iso
Monday 16 September 2024
Sensual retreats are a wonderful way to throw yourself into another world for a good few days and come out feeling like a whole new you. Here are some of our favourite types of retreats you can find on Sensuali.
Touch me how? 6 types of sensual massage
Posted by Iso
Monday 9 September 2024
Sensual massage is one of the best ways to intentionally explore your body and pleasure, but which massage is right for you? Here are 6 of the most popular types and their distinctive benefits.
Paying for your porn and why men should stop yelling
Posted by Armando Cabba
Tuesday 3 September 2024
Erotic artist Armando Cabba gives his thoughts on the manosphere, and how sex-negativity is harmful to sex workers and helpful to nobody.
A guide to self-lymph massage: the perfect solo pleasure pastime
Co-authored by Iso & Carli Wheatley
Friday 23 August 2024
Lymph massage is an increasingly popular phenomenon known to have significant health benefits as well as being an effective way to connect back to your body. Lymph massage extraordinaire, Carli Wheatley, shares her wisdom on why we should all be self-massaging whenever possible.
Why we should all be practicing self-pleasure
Posted by Emily
Wednesday 28 February 2024
Self Pleasure Club, a grassroots community for women, intersex, non-binary, trans and gender non-conforming humans, explain why we should all be practicing more self-pleasure.
Erotica
Satiating my hunger with sensual domination
Posted by Oli Lipski
Friday 15 November 2024
'Dressed in my brand new harness, I felt sexy and strong, but also tender and curious.' This is queer erotica by Oli Lipski, featuring a sensual domination moment in the play room of a kink party.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Posted by Vita Volition
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Co-authored by Iso & Pimenta Cítrica
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Posted by Pimenta Cítrica
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
I pegged someone for the first time
Posted by Alexa André
Monday 15 July 2024
'Giving someone that much pleasure is one of the most fulfilling sexual experiences of my life, even if I didn't physically get anything out of it.' Alexa André tells us the steamy true story of her first pegging experience.
A Bashful Cuckquean’s Anniversary Surprise
Posted by Ena Dahl
Friday 5 July 2024
'Please fuck my boyfriend in front of me, Goddess Iris...' Kicking off the Sensuali bite-sized erotica series is a short story about a woman with a cuckolding kink, written by erotic writer, Ena Dahl.
Playlist
Songs for soft sensualists
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 18 July 2023
An immersive playlist for all you soft sensualists out there. Including sensual songs for any time of day (or night), this playlist should reconnect you with your sensuality not only in the bedroom, but in your everyday living.
Songs to Psych up Your Inner Sugar Baby
Posted by Iso
Friday 25 November 2022
Got a sugar date but not feeling so sugary? Here's a playlist of bad girl bops by exclusively female artists to get you feeling frisky.
Sex & Spook: The Ultimate Thotoween Playlist
Posted by Iso
Friday 21 October 2022
Grouped-by-genre songs for all the serious Halloween Hoes out there. No 'Bump In The Night' bull here- only songs with truly dark and sensual vibes.
BDSM Bops: 15 Songs for Doms
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 10 August 2022
Need some tunes to really capture your devastating dom energy? Your prayers have been answered.
The Ultimate Girlfriend Experience Playlist
Posted by Iso
Friday 10 June 2022
For every escort who offers a girlfriend experience, this #sensual playlist will have every client feeling like they're your one and only (even if they know they're not).
Songs To Strip To: Alt-Girls Edition
Posted by Iso
Sunday 13 March 2022
Which alt-girl stripper archetype are you?
BDSM Bops: 15 Songs for Submissives
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 1 February 2022
From The Weeknd to Duran Duran, here's a playlist of atmospheric BDSM songs especially suited to subs.