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Embracing Slow Pleasure Practices in 2025
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 26 February 2025
Slow pleasure, or the art of taking your time to fully experience sensations without rushing towards climax, is gaining recognition for its transformative potential.
Bro, Did She Friend Zone You?
Posted by Armando Cabba
Saturday 22 February 2025
...Or is she a multifaceted individual whose value and existence isn’t defined by your 2-dimensional view of intimacy which you hope to achieve through performative actions? Here's why the concept of the 'friend zone' is deeply flawed.
Opening Up a Relationship? 7 stages that might help.
Posted by April Maria
Thursday 20 February 2025
While opening up your relationship might seem simple, it requires many moving parts. From exploring your why, having honest and frequent communication, navigating wants, expectations, and hard no's to constantly fine-tuning what works.
How I started creating porn I’m proud of
Posted by Lissa
Tuesday 18 February 2025
Making and starring in your own porn is no easy feat. This short think-piece by artist and porn creator Lissalovessx explores her journey to making porn she’s truly proud of.
In a relationship? Here’s why solo pleasure still matters
Posted by Iso
Thursday 30 January 2025
Solo pleasure isn’t just a backup for when your partner isn’t available—here’s why harnessing your autonomous sexual identity is crucial in a relationship.
How to Create Intimacy in a Digital World: Tips for Meaningful Connections
Posted by April Maria
Thursday 30 January 2025
In a world where we swipe left and right with ease, building connections is becoming more and more challenging. The good news is that we have a few tips to help you cultivate real connections in a digital world—especially when you feel like you've hit a brick wall.
How to book yourself into your first pole class
Posted by Tara Margulies
Friday 24 January 2025
Hesitant to book your first pole class? Pole extraordinaire, Tara Margulies, aka @movewithtara, is here to help you on your way.
Exploring Your Sensual Identity: A Guide to Finding What Feels Good
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 22 January 2025
In this article, we'll explore ways to explore what feels good to you while addressing common barriers like shame and self-doubt. By engaging in mindful practices like body scans and journaling and using platforms like Sensuali to find expert support, you can start your journey toward a deeper connection with your body and desires.
New Year, New Pleasures & Embracing Sensual Exploration in 2025
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 8 January 2025
As we enter 2025, there's no better time to embrace the theme of new beginnings—not just in life goals or fitness regimes but in your sensual journey, which is just as important.
The newly single’s guide to rediscovering your sensuality
Posted by Ruth Ramsay
Sunday 15 December 2024
Newly single? Don’t rush this solo stage, where you can be joyfully selfish – and learn a lot about yourself in the process.
Own your fantasies, own your confidence
Posted by Lisa Opel
Friday 13 December 2024
Unlock confidence by embracing your fantasies - in and out of the bedroom.
When Desires Don’t Align
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Understanding the Roots of Jealousy: A Self-Reflection Guide
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 4 December 2024
Jealousy often gets a bad rap, but it's a completely natural emotion that just needs a little more time to navigate. Here are three ways to start exploring it!
Long-term loving: A sex coach’s playbook for committed couples
Posted by Ruth Ramsay
Monday 2 December 2024
Sex coach and TEDx Talk speaker, Ruth Ramsay's starter pack for long-term couples looking to explore new sexual experiences together.
What do beauty standards, the orgasm gap and diet culture all have in common?
Posted by Tara Margulies
Tuesday 26 November 2024
What do beauty standards, the orgasm gap and diet culture all have in common? Tara Margulies explores taking back control.
Surprising Ways Polyamory Has Changed My Life
Posted by Nicole Gleeson
Saturday 23 November 2024
While polyamory is still often viewed as socially unacceptable, it has brought me unexpected growth. Here are the biggest way polyamory has changed my life.
Let’s talk about intimacy after top surgery
Posted by justsaySK
Wednesday 20 November 2024
Concerned with how getting top surgery might impact your intimacy and relationships? SK, trans non binary educator, shares their personal journey through the fears, doubts, and triumphs of the experience.
5 Ways to Enhance Sexual Confidence
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 20 November 2024
Sexual confidence is a journey rooted in self-acceptance, self-awareness, and personal empowerment and building this confidence begins within. Here are 5 steps our intimacy coach April Maria recommends to reconnect with yourself and boost your sexual confidence.
Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships and How to Break Free
Posted by April Maria
Wednesday 6 November 2024
Relationships can be beautiful spaces for connection and intimacy but sometimes, we find ourselves in a partnership that harms rather than heals. Here is how to identify a toxic relationship and more importantly leave one.
Reclaiming your sexual narrative: 6 books to read
Posted by April Maria
Tuesday 8 October 2024
Ready to embark on a journey of sexual empowerment? This is our curated list of book recommendations to help you deepen your own understanding of your body, sexuality, and intimacy.
Sensual movement: how do I get over the fear of embarrassing myself?
Posted by Tara Margulies
Tuesday 1 October 2024
Sensual movement expert and pole extraordinaire, Tara Margulies tells all on how to get past the fear of embracing your sensuality in dance and movement.
A spiritual relationship coach’s guide to sexual energy
Posted by Joanna Scott
Saturday 10 August 2024
Curious about how astrology relates to your sexual energy and compatibility with others? Famed Spiritual relationship coach, Joanna Scott, guides us through the most important things to consider.
I booked a sensual photoshoot, here’s how it went
Posted by Tara Margulies
Wednesday 17 July 2024
Tara Margulies aka movewithtara tells us all about her recent sensual photoshoot that she booked on Sensuali with photographer Layla Kosima.
A 5 step guide to client booking etiquette
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 28 May 2024
Whether you're a seasoned client or a first-timer, knowing booking etiquette is crucial in securing a positive sensual experience. Here's our 5 step guide.
How to embrace vulnerable intimacy as a gay man
Posted by Drew
Wednesday 15 May 2024
Bisexual pleasure educator Drew, aka Wise and Manly explains how to embrace vulnerability and defy the internalised shame surrounding soft and sensual intimacy in the male gay community.
Erotic photography modelling: a love letter to yourself
Posted by Bethany Burgoyne
Wednesday 1 May 2024
From a sexy selfie to a professional photoshoot, capturing your sensuality on camera can be a confidence boosting experience. Expert erotic photographer and model, Sassy is here to tell you how.
A 3 minute guide to starting your kink journey
Posted by Drew
Thursday 18 April 2024
It's hard to explore your deepest desires if you're still having an internal struggle with accepting them yourself. Here's our quick-start guide to beginning your kink journey.
How to introduce erotic art into your relationships
Posted by Armando Cabba
Monday 8 April 2024
Artist Armando Cabba explains the many ways to use erotic art as an exploration of desire and excitement in your relationship.
A sex coach’s guide to navigating new sexual experiences
Posted by Ruth Ramsay
Wednesday 27 March 2024
Intending to try out a new sexual experience? Whether it's a threesome or a sex party, prepping yourself is essential. Qualified sex coach Ruth Ramsay gives her essential advice on how to ensure you get what you want, and have fun doing it.
5 things you should know before trying pegging
Posted by Drew
Monday 12 February 2024
Want to try pegging? Here’s what you need to know to ensure your peach play session is sensational.
The girls’ guide to seeking somatic sex coaching
Posted by Iso
Sunday 21 January 2024
A Sensuali comprehensive guide to somatic sex coaching for women seeking sexual empowerment.
Voices from Sensuali Shibari Practitioners
Posted by Sakura
Tuesday 9 January 2024
Embarking on a captivating exploration into the realm of Shibari, content creator & online adult worker, Sakura recently had the privilege of engaging in insightful conversations with three seasoned practitioners. They generously shared their experiences, perspectives, and wisdom which provides some valuable advice tailored for those eager to embark on their own Shibari odyssey
How to findom 101: setting financial foundations
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 20 December 2023
Want someone to surrender their savings to you? Welcome to the world of findom. These are the common aspects of a findom relationship that you might want to get to know.
How to introduce a Dildo into sex with your partner
Posted by Drew
Tuesday 5 December 2023
Bringing sex toys into the bedroom outside of solo play doesn’t have to be taboo. Here’s how to approach the subject with your partner and make dildos fun for everyone.
A guide to buying a strap on in 2023
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 11 October 2023
Who knew the world of strap ons was so fabulously intricate? As they've never been more relevant than they are today, here's a guide to buying a strap on in 2023.
10 things it takes to be a stripper
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 6 September 2023
Does the stripper life appeal to you? If you possess at least 5/10 of these qualities, then you might just have what it takes.
Nurturing sexual well-being and empowering minds
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 27 June 2023
This article explores how sexual experiences influence self-esteem, body image, and relationship satisfaction, and how nurturing our sexual well-being can positively impact our overall mental well-being.
An organic approach to sensual roleplay
Posted by Iso
Sunday 11 June 2023
I know it's hard to believe, but role-play in the bedroom doesn't have to be excruciatingly cringe. Done right, it can open doors to new sexual understandings between you and your lover(s). Here's the lowdown.
5 Things to know before giving a prostate massage
Posted by Jules
Saturday 3 June 2023
I finally found a willing participant to indulge my fantasy of milking a prostate. This blog delves into the insights I gained from my foray into prostate massage.
The art of seduction: the mystery of human attraction
Posted by Jules
Saturday 27 May 2023
The art of seduction is at the core of sugar dating. This how-to-guide delves into the psychology of seduction, while offering tangible solutions for bolstering your seduction game.
Make sugar dating great again
Posted by Iso
Sunday 21 May 2023
Sugar dating is known in the press nowadays as 'candy-coated prostitution'. Does that mean sugar dating should be blacklisted? Or can it be a positive form of sex work in its own right?
The O-Method: manifestation through orgasm
Posted by Jules
Friday 19 May 2023
Learn how to conjure up your dream life through orgasms with this how-to guide.
Goodbye Slutty Baby: Shedding my Sex Work Persona
Posted by Jules
Sunday 26 March 2023
In reflecting on myself and the person I want to become, I've realized that my sugar persona aka "Slutty Baby" has stunted my personal development. So I've written a goodbye letter, as a means of letting go and evolving.
Dating with a Sex Work Past: 3 Green Flags to Look For
Posted by Jules
Thursday 2 March 2023
To most, having a sex work past is a red flag. But what if instead of focusing on the parts of ourselves that society tries to make us feel lesser for, we flip the script and actively seek out partners who check OUR boxes?
Reframing the way we think about periods
Posted by Jules
Thursday 9 February 2023
It's time to rethink the archaic and deeply self-loathing sentiment we as a society hold towards menstruation. This three-step guide shows you how.
Stripping Away the People Pleasing Mask
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 7 February 2023
Being able to kiss ass and turn on the charm no matter what served me well in my sugar days, but at what cost to my emotional growth?
Moving Past the Victim Narrative: A Guide to True Empowerment
Posted by Jules
Thursday 19 January 2023
A 4-step guide for how to move past the victim mindset. Plot twist: the world is not out to get you!
A Sugar Baby’s Guide to Staying Safe
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 20 December 2022
It's all fun and games -- until you get blackmailed or assaulted that is. This how-to guide isn't to preach about the dangers of sex work, it's to empower you to use your best judgment and trust your intuition.
A sex worker’s guide to the festive season
Posted by Iso
Thursday 15 December 2022
Our tops tips on surviving the festive season as a sex worker. Hoe, hoe, hoe !
Setting boundaries as a sensual masseuse
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 23 November 2022
I spoke to Tilly, a Manchester based sensual masseuse about the importance of setting boundaries in the massage profession.
How To Seduce A Sugar Baby
Posted by Iso
Friday 11 November 2022
Hey daddies, want to up your sugar game? Here’s the scoop from an ex-sugar baby on how to seduce your date from the first meet.