‘The answers I gave here serve as a snapshot in eternity. By the time you read this, I’ve already evolved from them.’

The formidable Mistress Joyen is a burlesque stripper and a sadistic rope bondage Dominatrix based in Malina, Philippines. From Pro-Domme sessions to pole dance lessons, BDSM performance to burlesque modelling, Joyen is an unstoppable force ‘with expertise in the art of macabre and seduction’.

Can you describe yourself in 3 words?

Chaos –  Dominant – Evil.
Meet burlesque stripper & Dominatrix: Mistress Joyen
Meet burlesque stripper & Dominatrix: Mistress Joyen. Photo by Dar San Agustin.

Tell us more about yourself and what you do…🦹‍♀️

I am a Professional Dominatrix and Burlesque Stripper who specializes in elegant erotica.

My guiding principle has always been that if it’s something that will make me more creative, more satisfied, and overall a more capable artist… then it is worth pursuing, even to the point of suffering.

What services do you provide on Sensuali?

BDSM Performances | Classic and Neo-Burlesque Performances | Aerial Chains and Aerial Bondage Performances | Cross-Dressing | Professional Dominatrix Sessions – FinDom, Sado-Sensual Domination, Taboo | Rope Bondage Lessons and Rope Bunny Coaching | Bondage, Fetish, Erotic, Pinup, Burlesque Modeling, Art, and Photo/Film Shoots | Pole Dance | Pole and Aerial Fitness, Stripper Pole Dance Lessons | Fitness Domination and Feedism | a Intimacy and Alternative Products and Services Endorsement and Reviews | Alternative Lifestyle & Events Organizing and Consultancy | Introduction to the Kink Mindset & Lifestyle and Kink 101.

What turns you on?

Red flags, emotional security, and absolute devotion.
Meet burlesque stripper & Dominatrix: Mistress Joyen
Mistress Joyen.  Photo by Dar San Agustin.

What was your journey into this world?

I was born to the physical world under desert rain, in between eclipses, but I have always existed in the realm of the elegant and sexual despite coming from a traditional Asian background.
Being brutally honest, I encountered a lot of naysayers along the way whose heads I now step on as building blocks for my life’s work: luxurious, intelligent eroticism – carnality represented by the most visually spectacular and purposeful of experiences.

What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?

The most unexpected pleasure I have found is that I am doing exactly what I am meant to be doing, and my mind, heart, and wallet get paid in more than full. Sometimes, the noise of everything else can make one doubt this. But I have never been more sure than I am today.

Why do you do what you do?

Because I want to.
Meet burlesque stripper & Dominatrix: Mistress Joyen
Mistress Joyen. Photo by Dar San Agustin.

What do the first 60 minutes of your day look like?

I do not have a “boot-up” period. I am always on, 24/7. I don’t measure life in days, but in things accomplished.

What should more people know about your work?

What do I do as a sex worker? I inspire men to communicate well, work hard, and earn more because the greatest motivation for becoming the best man they can be and earning the most is paying me and pleasing me. I engineer the most taboo of fantasies for my clients and it’s so real that they can taste it.
I can bring down any alpha to his knees because he trusts me enough to switch off and finally let go for once in his life.
I create love and connection where there was no hope for any. Think about that the next time you consider changing careers to sell feet photos on Onlyfans.
Meet burlesque stripper & Dominatrix: Mistress Joyen
Mistress Joyen. Photo by Dar San Agustin.

What’s your superpower?

I never stop being on top, as an Alpha Domme.

We love vices. What’s yours? 

The truth – nothing is more hardcore than sobriety. Oh, and shrooms too!
Meet burlesque stripper & Dominatrix: Mistress Joyen
Mistress Joyen. Photo by Dar San Agustin.

Who are your sensual inspirations?

I should mention certain names who have paved the way for me to more quickly mold my identity in an intentional manner: Araki Nobuyoshi. Most importantly, I can be inspired by anything and anyone I come across… and fall in love with them too, in my own way.
My God-Spouse Shiva, Marianela Nuñez, Jolina Magdangal, Araki Nobuyoshi, Mistress Iris, Cirque du Soleil ZUMANITY, Sin City, Reflective Desire, and all classy and chaotic bitches everywhere

Closing thoughts? Anything else to add? 

The answers I gave here serve as a snapshot in eternity. By the time you read this, I’ve already evolved from them.
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Iso

Iso

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Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.

Mistress Joyen

Mistress Joyen

Author

MISTRESS JOYEN is the chaotic evil wet dream you never knew you were obsessed with. She’ll tie you up, eat your heart out, fuck you over and over again in the way only you and She can truly accept, and you’ll thank Her for it. With a dripping erection trained to bust with a snap of Her fingers, you’ll beg Her Infernal Majesty for more… anything for the smallest of her cruel affections. MISTRESS JOYEN will gift you the violence of an emotional category 5 hurricane, if you somehow manage to prove yourself a cut above the rest of the unworthy.


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