‘Your desires are your compass. Trust them. They’re not here to shame you; they’re here to guide you.’
Alejandra Welsh Peña is an Ibiza-based sex and relationship coach dedicated to helping men unlock their full potential in love, embrace vulnerability, and cultivate meaningful connections. She is also founder of The 5th House– a sex education platform for adults. Through 1-1 coaching, workshops, and retreats, Alejandra offers diverse pathways to help you embark on your journey as a confident and connected lover.
- Can you describe yourself in 3 words?
- Tell us more about yourself and what you do...🦹♀️
- What services do you provide on Sensuali?
- What turns you on?
- What was your journey into this world?
- What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?
- What should more people know about your work?
- What's your superpower?
- Who are your sensual inspirations?
- Closing thoughts?
Can you describe yourself in 3 words?
Sensual, feminine, WIP (Work in Progress). Emphasis on progress—I like to keep life deliciously unfinished.
Tell us more about yourself and what you do…🦹♀️
I guide men through the labyrinth of intimacy, love, desire and all the things that come in between.
What services do you provide on Sensuali?
I host Conscious sexuality workshops, offer intimacy coaching, and deep relationship mentoring for men ready to transform their love lives from disconnected to irresistible
What turns you on?
What was your journey into this world?
From the very beginning, I was destined to question the norms of love, sex, and intimacy. Growing up in a multicultural whirlwind, I absorbed the fiery sensuality of my Venezuelan roots while grappling with the ‘properness’ of my British side. This contrast made me endlessly curious about the dance between desire and decorum, the push and pull of connection, and the invisible rules we all play by when it comes to love.
In my late teens, I found myself captivated by feminist novelists from the 19th and 20th centuries—women who wrote about gender roles, power, and the longing for freedom. Their words made me question everything about how we relate to one another, how men and women navigate attraction, and how society cages us in certain roles.
I wanted to dig deeper, to understand what lies beneath the surface. But my true awakening came later—through heartbreaks that shattered me, spiritual practices that rebuilt me, and lovers who taught me to savour every moment, every sensation. Through it all, I discovered that my calling wasn’t just to heal my own wounds but to guide others toward their deepest truths, helping them unlock their potential for love, passion, and self-expression.
Now, as a woman guiding men through the language of love, sex, and relating, I see myself as more than a coach. I’m a translator. A bridge.
Because at the heart of it all, that’s what we’re longing for. To understand each other. To strip away the layers of confusion and mistranslation between men and women and come closer together—not just physically, but emotionally, spiritually, entirely.
What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?
Watching a client discover their edge, take a leap, or speak their truth for the first time. There’s something intoxicating about witnessing that shift—the moment someone reclaims their power.
What should more people know about your work?
My work is for men who want to play in the big leagues. It’s not for the faint-hearted. It’s for those ready to dive into the depths of themselves and emerge as their most magnetic, irresistible selves.
What’s your superpower?
Turning shame into sensuality.
Who are your sensual inspirations?
In my years I have modelled my sensuality on older women in the bloom of menopause—unapologetically sensual, with nothing to prove anymore and everything to savour.
And my partner who devours every part of me mercilessly.
Closing thoughts?
Your desires are your compass. Trust them. They’re not here to shame you; they’re here to guide you. Whether you want to love deeper, seduce with intention, or simply feel more alive.
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Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.
Alejandra Welsh Peña
Alejandra Welsh Peña is a men’s intimacy and relationship coach and educator, offering step-by-step guidance to help men transform their love lives. With a deep understanding of the feminine mind and how it works, Alejandra helps her clients unlock the secrets of connection, attraction, and emotional depth. Specialising in working with busy, high-achieving men, she streamlines the process of finding and building meaningful relationships, guiding them toward confidence, clarity, and the results they’re looking for—without the guesswork.
