'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
Miss May is a Dominatrix and fetishist based in London with her studio in E1, as well as working in Berlin too. Offering Domming services in-person and online, some of her kinks include hardsports, pegging, facesitting, bondage and feminisation. Here’s the full story.
Hello! My name is MissMay. I am a professional Dominatrix and dungeon owner based in London and Berlin.
Meet London Dominatrix: Miss May.
What are the specific services you provide on Sensuali?
I am a professional Dominatrix as well as fetishist and offer services in those areas. I also am a content creator and offer webcam/online sessions.
What was your journey into this world?
My journey into the BDSM world started 6 years ago when I started attending kink and fetish events. I was into kink personally, before making my passion into a profession. I have now offered in-person sessions and online services for four years.
How would you describe your approach to being a Dominatrix in a nutshell?
My approach is hard and heavy. It might sounds intimidating , however I also welcome beginners and newcomers to my sessions.
Miss May.
I am interested in all heavy play, bondage, rubber as well as other practices like CBT, watersports and anal play.
I am an advanced and professional Dominatrix and I like to get deep into peoples minds to explore what they’re looking for and more. I like to push people’s limits whilst always respecting boundaries!
Who is your typical client?
People seek me out as they are interested in the things that I do. Usually rubber fetishists and advanced players. I don’t have a typical client per se. My subs ages range from 21 to older and come from all walks of life. I also see people of all genders.
What is your favourite thing about your work and what are the biggest challenges?
I love the freedom of time that my job gives me. I love to travel, so I like that this work allows me to travel around the world. Apart from that it’s the intimacy of being in session.
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Some of the people I session with won’t tell their significant other about their deepest fantasies so it’s always an honour being able to explore their deepest fantasies with them.
The biggest challenges are probably the laws around sex work and banks not wanting us. The societal stigma as well.
What should more people know about BDSM?
People should know that BDSM is so much more that they think. The connections you need to build and trust you have is like no other. BDSM is so deep that it needs to be studied to be understood and it’s not something that should be practiced lightly.
How do you prepare for a session?
I usually go through my subs request and make a list of their kinks, limits and any other things I need to keep in mind for the session.
I prepare the studio and lay out all of the toys. I usually have a tea or coffee before a session for energy, then get dressed and get my sub!
How has your relationship with what you do evolved over time?
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I remember how nervous and stressed I was the first time I went in for a session. I was always nervous and overthinking each scene. Now, all scenes come to me naturally with the flow of the session, more spontaneous and yet very creative!
My approach has changed completely to the play that I do. I don’t do sessions that I don’t feel and I am not scared of saying no to applications that don’t excite me.
What are your hopes for the future in the sensual world?
I really hope I can continue to explore fun and exciting experiences within sessions.
Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.
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Miss May is a professional dominatrix. Based in London, in her fully equipped dungeon in E1, she will take you where you want to be, pushing your limits but respecting your boundaries. She is open to experienced subs and fetishists.
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