‘I’m a passionate Domina and lifestyle fetishist who specialises in creating safe and satisfying experiences for submissives of any gender. I believe that fetishism has an innate beauty that should be celebrated. Whether you’re a newcomer or an experienced enthusiast, I’m here to guide you through the world of kink.’

Fucking Original aka Faux is a Birmingham-based Domina specialising in sensual domination with a side of seductive sadism. Her true passion for BDSM means an authentic experience where you can explore the depths of your submission in safe, sensual hands. Meet Fucking Original – aka Faux. 

How did you get into the kink world?

I have always been very much into butts and pegging and that lead me into the kink world.. But I didn’t properly get into the scene until 2019, when I went to my first ‘munch’ (BDSM meetup) and found a partner who was also kinky. Then I explored everything I could. And here I am now, providing domination sessions in Birmingham

 

What’s your domme style?

I’m a sensual domina/intimate sadist with a love for pegging. The sensual/intimate part is based on my affinity for physical closeness and body contact. I love things like biting and scratching.

 

Fucking Original, providing sensual domination sessions to birmingham and beyond.
Meet Fucking Original: providing sensual domination sessions in Birmingham. Photo by @PigeOnPhotos.

 

Why is sensual domination your thing?

BDSM has this image of being rough and aggressive, but I’ve found that I feel more myself and more fulfilled when I engage in play that has some type of romantic or sensual element to it. Saying this, I do also like rough play, CNC, CBT and the like.

 

What is a lifestyle fetishist?

A lifestyle fetishist is someone that sees BDSM as part of their overall lifestyle, rather than just in sex or in a job.

As a lifestyle fetishist, I like to have a personal sub. This looks like them coming to my house and cooking for me, doing chores, hanging out and of course getting kinky in my playroom. Usually for me and a sub, the dynamic is very fluid, so their submission is just part of the overall dynamic, as opposed to being defined by specific submissive acts.

 

Describe your ideal sub. 

Obedient above anything else. Masochistic. A bottom. A fun person to be around, and somebody who is quite supportive.

 

Meet Fucking Original: Birmingham Domina providing sensual domination sessions.
Fucking Original with a loyal sub. Photo by @PigeOnPhotos.

 

What sort of client do you attract?

I attract a range of people and ages. Newbies and butt virgins are also drawn to me  because I have an intimate/sensual side, so I’m viewed as someone who will ease them into the BDSM world. 

 

What are your favourite non-sexual parts of BDSM?

I love wax-play and massage. The sensual side of things. You can make gorgeous art with wax, so I also love the visual aspect of that. 

 

What does your life look like outside of BDSM?

I spend a lot of time hanging out with friends! I like board games and go to a lot of board game cafes. I go bouldering very often. I’m also learning Dutch!

Fucking Original, sensual domination sessions in birmingham. Photo by Nature Locs.
Fucking Original aka Faux. Photo by Nature Locs.

What’s the future for Fucking Original?

My plans are to grow authentically. To get out there, meet people, and immerse myself in the parts of the BDSM scene that I’m yet to explore. I’ll be updating my playroom and investing in new equipment as I go. The next item on my exploration list is e-stim. I plan to expand my outfit collection, upgrade my makeup knowledge and all the other little things that keep life interesting.

 

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Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.


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