Topic : Dating
The growth of paid sensualist experiences
Posted by Iso
Saturday 3 June 2023
Dating in modern times just ain't doing it for the majority of men. Is it time to wave goodbye to endless swiping and delve into the alluring world of paid pleasure? Let's find out.
The Cost of Loving: Cashing in on our Desires
Posted by Iso
Sunday 28 May 2023
In an increasingly sex-positive society where hookup culture is the norm, is there a new safe space forming for us to profit from our own sexual desires?
Dating with a Sex Work Past: 3 Green Flags to Look For
Posted by Jules
Thursday 2 March 2023
To most, having a sex work past is a red flag. But what if instead of focusing on the parts of ourselves that society tries to make us feel lesser for, we flip the script and actively seek out partners who check OUR boxes?
Dating Culture in the 1980s: A Mother-Daughter Interview
Posted by Jules
Thursday 15 December 2022
This week, I squeezed in some mother-daughter bonding by interviewing my mom about what it was like to date in the go-go 80s.
Inside the World of Pickup Artists
Posted by Jules
Thursday 1 December 2022
This week I did a deep dive into the world of pickup artists. Read on to learn more about the rise of this bizarre community of wannabe Casanovas.
Interview with a Gender-Nonconforming Couple
Posted by Jules
Thursday 24 November 2022
This week I sat down with one of my favorite couples, Bee and Graham, to talk about gender identity and what it's like being in a gender non-conforming relationship.
5 types of sugar first dates
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 23 August 2022
A slightly sarky take on the common first dates you'll go on as a sugar baby.
Psychology of a Cuck
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 9 August 2022
This week I sat down with a friend and ex-lover to discuss his unfilled cuckold fantasy. Digressions include virtual reality porn and how to not come across as a total douche on dating apps.
Q&A with a Vibrator Enthusiast
Posted by Jules
Thursday 28 July 2022
Vibrators: sex elevating magic wands or desensitizing machines that reduce intimacy? This week I sat down with people from both camps. This interview is with a man who believes vibrators level the orgasm playing field between genders.
Q&A with a vibrator abstainer
Posted by Jules
Saturday 23 July 2022
Vibrators: sex elevating magic wands or desensitizing machines that reduce intimacy? This week I sat down with people from both camps. This interview is with a woman who prefers sex without all the bells and whistles sex toys offer.
Q&A With a Woman Who Loves Hairy Men
Posted by Jules
Thursday 21 July 2022
I sat down with a friend who seems ambivalent when it comes to her own grooming routine and who has a thing for hairy men to get her two cents on body hair revolution.
Q&A With a Man Who Loves Hairless Women
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 19 July 2022
Body hair seems to be making a comeback. From bearded men to women with full bushes and armpit hair, inflation isn't the only throwback to the 70s we seem to be experiencing -- at least in Brooklyn. But not everyone is here for the bush. I sat down with a guy friend to get the low down on why he prefers hairless pussies. I promise, he's not as a much of a male chauvinist as he sounds.
Q&A with a Polyamorous Woman
Posted by Jules
Thursday 16 June 2022
I sat down with my bestie who recently began identifying as poly after years of trying to do the whole monogamous thing. Here's what she had to say.
Q&A with a Polyamorous Man
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 14 June 2022
Polyamory -- it's the latest trend taking over Brooklyn. People are shedding the societal norms of days past and embracing a world where it's acceptable to date and fall in love with multiple people at once. But what makes polyamory different from normal dating? And what's the reality of having to share a lover with multiple partners? I sat down with a friend who identifies as polyamorous to find out.
Why a 50 Something Dates 20 Somethings
Posted by Jules
Thursday 26 May 2022
Continuing my investigation into the age old trope of middle aged men dating women in their twenties. This time I interviewed a high achieving dom daddy who is in a sexless marriage and who is constantly telling me how the white picket fence life isn't all it's cracked up to be. The grass is always greener...
Why a 40 Something Dates 20 Somethings
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 24 May 2022
Investigating the age old trope of middle aged men dating women in their twenties. Meet Jacob, a 42 year old who seems to have accepted mid-life crisis as a way of life. From the vintage sports car to the women half his age, Jacob shows no signs of slowing down his attempts to feel young again.
Dating in Modern Times: A Bunch of Socially Awkward Commitment-Phobes
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 17 May 2022
Five ways dating has changed since the rise of dating apps and what it means for younger generations.