BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
Otto
•BDSM & Sugar baby
Male, Gay, New York NY US
In person & Online
God gave me an experience beyond limits. Your pain is my pleasure.
nadirah_khalisa
BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person
Sultry Siren | Berlin based & FMTY Pro Dominant | Nadirah_Khalisa on all socials
nausilove
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Amsterdam NL
In person & Online
Tallest and happiest escort in the world :D
missangelafromhell
BDSM, Companion & Therapist
Female, Demisexual, Mexico City MX
In person & Online
Nothing youve ever imagine
HentaiMistressKoto
BDSM, Photographer & Sugar baby
Female, Sapiosexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
I could never get bored of playing Hentai, Shibari, and BDSM. It's my life.
saararei
BDSM, Artist & Educator
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Saara Rei is a workshop facilitator and performance artist with a background in music, dance, education, and public speaking. Saara's work generally centers around the exploration of suffering, both physical and emotional. Through their kink practice, Saara has come to understand that suffering comes from the comparison of what has been or could be to the present moment. And with that, Saara enjoys teaching about how to use suffering as a path to presence and enjoyment in life. Having a Ph.D. in mathematics, Saara’s academic experience adds an intellectual flair to complement their performative approach to bodywork. Playfulness and humor make up a big chunk of Saara's personality and approach to life, giving their workshops a very exploitative and light atmosphere, even while approaching some of the heaviest of topics.
arika
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
CURRENTLY OFFERING SESSIONS ON IBIZA 15.2-07.3 Berlin-Based Tantrika & Sexuality Coach Female, 32 Years Old With years of experience in sexuality work, from starting out as a sex educator and researching sexual violence to embracing embodied practices through tantra, I am dedicated to helping individuals and couples connect deeply with themselves and each other. I am certified as a systemic sex counselor and couples coach with trauma expertise, I bring both a compassionate heart and extensive knowledge to every session. Working Together In our work together, expect a safe, open environment where you can explore both sensuality and sexuality. My approach integrates meditation, touch, and personalized coaching. Clients often describe my tantric sessions as gentle, profound, and nourishing – and many return to dive deeper into their journey of intimacy and self-discovery. All Genders & Relationship Styles Welcome Individual & Couples Counseling Topics: Desire, Fetishes & Kinks: Understanding, expressing, and living with what excites you Pain & Discomfort During Sex: Moving past discomfort and finding ease Navigating Desire & Displeasure in relationships (marriage or partnership) Sexual Dissatisfaction & Low Libido Sexually Compulsive or Addictive Behavior Consequences of Sexual Trauma: From verbal abuse to physical assaults Chemsex and Related Challenges Difficulty Reaching Orgasm Managing Non-Consensual Affairs & Infidelity Exploring Sexual Preferences & BDSM Sexual Dysfunction such as: Premature ejaculation Erectile challenges Orgasm inhibition Vaginismus Managing STIs: Information and guidance Topics We Can Address in Couples Counseling New Relationships: "We just got together and want to do things differently this time." Communication Issues: "We have nothing more to say to each other." / "We always talk past each other." Trust Issues: "An affair has affected our trust." Sexual Challenges: "Our sexual tempos don’t match." / "I have a fetish I don’t know how to explain to my partner." Conflict Resolution: "We argue too much." / "Everyday life brings challenges for us." Future Planning: "We have different views on children, career, or where to live." Separation Questions: "Do we need to separate?" Control & Perception: "One of us feels controlled or undervalued." Relationship Models: "We’re not sure what relationship model fits us – monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, or swinging." Loss of Infatuation: "The spark has faded… Now what?" ****Open to Sugar Baby Arrangements For those interested in exploring genuine sugar baby connections, I am open if there is a mutual, respectful bond. On a personal note: Sexuality is a passion for me, and I am continually discovering new depths within BDSM and tantra , which enriches my practice and insights. And funn is such an important part to ittt
mistresslola
BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist
Female, Pansexual, Paris FR
In person & Online
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
mistresssade
BDSM, Muse & Kinkster
Female, Pansexual, Auckland NZ
In person & Online
Have you ever met a Real Dominatrix?
lola20001
BDSM, Massage & Sugar baby
Female, Straight, New York NY US
In person & Online
Professional sensual massage services in NYC Manhattan, also professional companion services with deep connection
dawnchorus
BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, New Orleans LA US
In person & Online
⛓️ Chew up your love then swallow ⛓️
mistressseren
BDSM, Coach & Educator
Female, Sapiosexual, New York NY US
In person
For the Discerning and Depraved
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
