BDSM & Kink
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Mae
•BDSM, Artist & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Amsterdam NL
Sensual BDSM or Medical Play?
Ixchel
•BDSM, Artist, Content creator, Dancer, Erotic audio, Writer, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Pāhoa HI US
Femme queer here to dominate! I love BDSM role play and am formally trained as a Somatica practitioner.
nausilove
•BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Tokyo JP
Tallest and happiest escort in the world :D
AKASH
BDSM, Content creator, Muse, Artist & Kinkster
Services are In person
Gender fluid - Sapiosexual
Berlin DE
Sensual Sadism - Professional BDSM - Fetishist AKASHDOM.COM
missveraviolette
BDSM & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Berlin DE
Professional Dominatrix, Fetish Content Creator and Photographer. With a focus on latex, watersports and sensual domination.
InaraVesper
BDSM, Content creator & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer, Pansexual
Berlin DE
Delightfully devious BDSM and kink provider.
Kitsune
BDSM, Artist, Content creator, Erotic audio, Photographer, Companion, Kinkster & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Male - Bicurious
Lyon FR
Tantra | BDSM The power of touch and care
ReflectorForHire
BDSM, Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, Companion, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
Otto
BDSM & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Male - Gay
New York NY US
God gave me an experience beyond limits. Your pain is my pleasure.
mistresslola
BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Paris FR
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
aBrandi_kink
BDSM, Content creator, Erotic audio, Photographer, Writer, Companion, Sugar baby, Kinkster, Coach, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
El Paso TX US
Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.
kurtmounds
BDSM & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Male - Queer
Seattle WA US
Offerings include: pup walks/ pup sitting (public), massage, bdsm, intimidation / security (walk you to your car at night, companion on nights out)
What is a BDSM practitioner?
Discover the liberation within control
A BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practitioner is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
