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tsmistresspapi
BDSM, Muse & Content creator
Trans, 29, Pansexual
New York NY US (Online)
Spiritual mentor, kink provider, scholar of religion & Classical languages, mystic, & artist. My mind, body, & energy will leave you captivated. The experiences available are as expansive as my talents: Virtual dates for those of you craving companionship or feeling intellectually under-stimulated. Photos & worship sessions for the foot enthusiasts. Your personal muse if you know only I possess the inspiration you yearn for.
mistressseren
BDSM
Female, 31, Sapiosexual
New York NY US (In person)
Prepare to be tantalized + tormented. I'm a mindful menace and a sadistic trickster. I'm the force to guide you on a journey of self-discovery through pain and pleasure. I will push you to your edges, but I do it from the heart. I chose to be a Domina after spending my career in the art world, tech, fashion, and finance. Now my unique ability to master new things is turned on you. My scenes are meticulously tailored experiences, based on the unique D/s connection I have with you. This is why my subs always come back, the authenticity, emotional depth, and artistry of my scenes are what make me a luxury Domina. If you’re seeking quick sexual gratification or a fleeting thrill, I am not the one for you. My scenes are built to create pleasure, catharsis, and expansion. My approach is inspired by Mother Nature and Carl Jung. Raised in the Rocky Mountains, I experienced nature as my Domme. I believe kink can bring you to individuation, Carl Jung’s theory of becoming oneself. BDSM is the perfect method to explore the hidden and neglected aspects of your psyche. Let’s make your subconscious conscious. There is nothing more beautiful or powerful than that. I will domme you emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Being in a scene with me is to experience a surreal nightmare. I am a high-protocol Domina. My standards are high, and I invite you to meet them. I adore humiliation, corporal punishment, foot worship, sissification, degradation, and impact play. I am a true sadist and nothing pleases me more than your groans and moans. When I am not in the dungeon, I am learning. I read books on philosophy, psychology, and BDSM. I spend my free time at museums, hot yoga, and the theatre. Curiosity is what drives me and I love to travel. Last year, I spent time in Italy, Bali, Vietnam, Mexico City, Berlin, Japan, and Morocco. I spend my free time daydreaming about new ways to make my submissives suffer for me.
evaoh
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 38, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Award-winning Dominatrix and Mentor
thefunnydom
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 44, Straight
Melbourne AU (In person & Online)
A pro Daddy Dominant driven to share and explore both sadism and care, and to teach and train those in need or curious
moirdiv
BDSM, Artist & Muse
Gender fluid, 26, Pansexual
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
My aim, your surrender
PleasureToyQueen
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Female, 36, Pansexual
Brisbane AU (Online)
👑 Get ready to indulge in the ultimate pleasure experience! 💋
AliceBlue
BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby
Female, 99, Queer
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
can call you Daddy but not afraid to hurt you
MistressSin
BDSM
Female, 48, Queer
London UK (In person)
I am a British Femdom based in London. Although I have been naturally dominant since coming of age, I decided to turn My lust for overpowering men into a profession at the age of 25. I have been a professional Dominatrix for 23yrs and find new excitement and love for BDSM with every year that goes by. For Me, there is nothing quite like the feeling of a man, at My feet, relinquishing all control to Me. I have an insatiable lust for the erotic constraints of latex and leather and the sensuality of stockings and heels. I adore every level of kink, but I particularly thrive with the unusual and extreme. Your embarrassment and shame give Me amusement and excitement. The space that I will give to you is completely safe, so you can truly submit, give in, and become the sub that you have always yearned for but hidden... until now.
HouseOfVF
BDSM
Female, 21, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
Please note all applications are to be made through my website. I am Mistress Vera V.F. - a strict, yet caring, dominatrix. Classic, yes, but with something of a contemporary twist. I adore protocol and discipline, which I bring a uniquely personal approach to. I will remain strict and poised looking down at you, but I will also put you at ease. You are in safe hands with me. I will dominate you with a smile on my face. Passionate about kink and BDSM, I truly adore exploring and facilitating fantasies - I strive to learn what makes you tick, and use it to bring you pleasure, pain and ultimate subspace. I offer real-time dungeon sessions, social dates, shopping trips and cashpoint meets in London. You can apply via my website. Occasionally, I might consider online sessions. Note you should be deposit ready at the time of your application. I have seen people of all types, from devoted submissives to those with specific fetishes. Whether you're an obedient and experienced sub or a complete beginner, if you are lucky together we will explore your deepest, darkest desires. I have a wide range of interests, but some of my favourites are: Protocol Corporal punishment Bondage CBT Key holding Slave training I am a BDSM chameleon, and love exploring many types of play. Feel free to still fill out my form if what you are looking for isn't mentioned above and we can discuss. I am not interested in the following kinks at this time. Requests for any of these will be ignored. -Hardsports -Wrestling -Needles -Electrics
davidmarius
BDSM, Therapist & Workshop
Male, 33, Bicurious
Ibiza ES (In person & Online)
I am a Hypnotherapist, Coach and Pleasure Artist / Activist from France living in Ibiza. My occupation as a Hypnotist and Shibari artist is to create erotic experiences for my clients and allow them to fully surrender into pleasure. For the past few years, I've been travelling the world leading workshops and talks around the Neuroscience of orgasms and the psychology of arousal. As the founder of the Orgasmic Hypnosis method, I teach people how to give and receive pleasure through their mind alone, also training women for orgasmic birthing. I am also a performer, director and writer involved in various artistic projects from conscious porn, art films to fashion show choregraphie. With my partner Katarsis, we have created our own brand BoundxBeyond, through which we act as a duo, organizing workshops, parties and sensual events / experiences.
ServeQueenVee
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 26, Queer
Santa Clara CA US (In person & Online)
Mean Mommy. Toxic Girlfriend. Supreme Cult Leader.
belste
BDSM
Male, 49, Straight
Hemel Hempstead UK (In person)
Crop-wielding rigger Dom. Consent and communication important.
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
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DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.