BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
andyburu
BDSM, Retreat & Workshop
Male, Queer, Stockholm SE
In person
in-between moments life unfolds in front of you pause, witness and be.
SultanaAisha
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Female, Sapiosexual, Zürich CH
In person & Online
Lifestyle Femdom Sultana Goddess Aisha Owner of THE HAREM in Zürich Cultivating 24/7 slaves to serve me and my Domme friends Dominatrix and Educatrix Host of FemDom Events with International well known Dommes Goddess of my own belief system THE AISHISM
MoonEnergy
BDSM, Companion & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Stockholm SE
In person & Online
Sassy, smart and charming femdom Curvy Good ass Bisexual Love foot and other types of worship Very into massages As an ex-horsegirl and dancer, I can move my body in ways that will captivate you I wear a suit for my corporate 9-5 Spicy on the downlow xoxo
soleilmerroir
BDSM, Erotic audio & Therapist
Gender fluid, Bisexual, Mexico City MX
Online
I offer you the journey to the deepest roots of your erotic self, the reasons why you crave the darkness and the heat.
intentionalkink
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, Bisexual, Austin TX US
In person & Online
Be the kink you want to see in the world.
TheMominatrix
BDSM, Content creator & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Seattle WA US
In person & Online
Mommy is ready, are you?
Vik13
BDSM, Educator & Workshop
Male, Straight, Barcelona ES
In person & Online
Vik is a rigger from Barcelona. His first contact with shibari was 8 years ago, when he saw some pictures of a friend who was involved with this art. But it wasn’t until the beggining of 2019 that he felt an interest in learning and practicing it. He started tying and being tied, training with several riggers and exploring various styles. In ropes, he found a tool to explore and discover. Little by little as a rigger, he has found his own path, which he still explores today. His curiosity and interest for Semenawa led him to study with international instructors. In kinbaku, he found both simplicity and intricacy, a style that enhances the beauty of the body and emotions, simple in appearance but with a great purpose, intention and complexity. Along with his partner Gala, they have had the opportunity of doing performances or, as they prefere to call them, live sessions in public, both nationally and internationally, at La Gabia Studi, Makabre’s fest and Erostreet Festival in Spain, at Yūgen Studio in Milan, Rope Spirit in Prague, and more.
EightBuddhas
BDSM & Content creator
Male, Bisexual, Louisville KY US
In person & Online
When choosing between two evils, I'll pick the one I haven't tried.
GoddessEros
BDSM, Coach & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Cabo San Lucas MX
In person & Online
I take you in a journey through the senses and the mind, using the art and world of Sensual Shibari.
SensiJane
BDSM, Massage & Sugar baby
Female, Pansexual, Antwerp BE
In person & Online
Wildly sexual. Open to a lot of experiences. I'd love to make your wildest fantasies become reality ✨ Do to see what we van arrange! For kinky content follow my f2f page https://f2f.com/jane_x/ 😘
MyloRyn
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, Bisexual, Boston MA US
In person & Online
BDSM: Bondage, impact, and degradation. Vanilla: Deep empathy, conversation, and intimacy.
IbizaRick
BDSM, Photographer & Massage
Male, Straight, Ibiza ES
In person
Hello, I'm Rick, living in Ibiza... Originally from UK
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
