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Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
Sir_
BDSM
Male, 50, Straight
New York NY US (In person)
It’s better to be a pirate than join the navy. 🏴☠️ Let’s go to couples therapy and see how long it takes the therapist to figure out we’re on a first date. My gorgeous sexy linked partner may be down to join for FMF or FMFM 🤓 Whip smart professional with diverse cultural tastes. 🎯Sensual Dominant seeking submissive play partner - Ongoing preferred. Can we be one of those awesome couples on here? FMF, MFMF, MFM, stag and hotwife arrangements also welcome. 🥳 Top Floor, Life Itself, Chemistry among others. 📥 CMO by day; technology, art, architecture, design, spirituality, food, & music fan by night. 🩺Take care of yourself mentally and physically - I do :) 🚫 NOT a fuckboi fake ‘dom’ incel with poor conversational skills like your last feeld date. Also note: not the trump voting republican some take me to be based on looks. Can’t help it. But … decidedly non traditional on the inside. You’ve read this far. You get it. 🎭 I’m a former comedian. I promise to make you laugh. 🎧Former DJ & music industry exec. Open to an ENM primary relationship with a sex positive woman. ❤️ Happy to meet for a drink or coffee and see if we click. Not into texting - much prefer in real life, totally ok if you want a quick video confirmation that I am indeed for real :) 5’10 / 165lbs fit with high libido and stamina for days. 📍I live in Carroll Gardens Brooklyn or Hilton Head SC. 🍆 Size queens welcome.
Darklord_Thunder
BDSM
Male, 39, Straight
Liverpool UK (In person)
Here to make your dreams a reality, Not here to make money
matejkubesa
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 22, Bisexual
Olomouc CZ (In person & Online)
Young boy, with lots of passion, desire and experience. A am for everything kinky.
Cleo08
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 36, Queer
Jakarta ID (In person & Online)
A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤
patdonato
BDSM
Male, 50, Bicurious
Providence RI US (In person)
Love to explore psychological domination. Chastity and denial.
MistressGemmaLi
BDSM
Female, 33, Sapiosexual
Denver CO US (In person)
Femme Fatale Dominatrix | Lifestyle ↔ Pro
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Male, 45, Straight
London UK (In person)
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
veronicavervet
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 27, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Are you ready to worship?
LadyVogel
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 23, Sapiosexual
London UK (In person & Online)
GODDESS/FEMME FATALE, Lady Vogel
sapieha
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 30, Queer
Dresden DE (In person & Online)
Sensual Rope witch creating unique experiences that interweave through artistic pleasure.
WrestleTanya
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 36, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Friendly, feisty female wrestler
MissSkylaGold
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 32, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
As soon as I could speak, I could bend those around me to my will. I’m charismatic, charming and disarming - a dangerous combination, and one you will not forget. To me, Domination is an art, as well as my natural disposition. I’ve been practicing Domination for almost a decade, which has given me ample time to turn my innate way of being into a deadly weapon. A weapon I use to bring men to their knees. My words have authority, my touch has purpose and my gaze leaves you pliable for my needs. Building a connection with those I play with is integral, and each session I conduct differs. I curate and create sessions around the skills, experience and preferences of the submissive, this way I get the best out of you. For example, your time in my presence may be spent appreciating the scent of my dainty feet and ensuring that each and every toe is cleaned by your mouth. Or, your desires may lead you to spend hours consuming my waste. I will know what’s best for you, and how best you can please me, and in turn be proud of yourself. I relish in your weakness for me. I will create a space for you to safely explore the corners of your mind, a place where you can have ultimate freedom to be yourself, unapologetically with no judgement. Give yourself over, know yourself better. As well as being a Pro-Domme, I am a well-established fetish photographer, educator, creator of One Night Parties and pleasure professional. I’m a foodie, lover of high end lingerie and all-round indulgence. I enjoy social dates and shopping trips, I’m very good at both.
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
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DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
