BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
ztella
BDSM, Artist & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person
Shibari and natural-highs obsessed artist and teacher.
JordanDax
BDSM & Erotic audio
Trans, Bisexual, New York NY US
Online
Black trans Domme. Available for online Domination, humiliation, cuckholding, chastity/cbt play and more.
Onlygrowls
BDSM & Content creator
Male, Straight, Melbourne AU
In person & Online
Primal growls and so many other things
Sonatalicious
BDSM, Coach & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Riga LV
In person & Online
Natalja Sorokina, sex and kink coach, sexeducator, event organizer, safe space facilitator, sex toys connoisseur, holistic BDSM practitioner. Natalja studies sexuality, looking at it not only from the physical, but also from the psychological side. Having graduated from the Moscow Institute of Sexology, she accumulates additional knowledge from various courses and sources, as well as regularly shares it by conducting lectures and master classes, in private consultations for individuals and couples. Natalja is giving lectures at SexyStyle sexual wellness store for 4 years now, in cultural center Lastadija, took part in two Erasmus+ sexeducation projects, was a lecturer in Latvian health ministry organized sexeducation program for schools, speaks at festivals, PRIDE and private events. Have been co-running a BDSM dungeon in Riga for 4 years, organizing workshops, kinky play parties, and conducting individual and couples sessions. Favorite topics: consent culture, communication, kink, BDSM, ENM, developing sensitivity, intimacy and sensuality in relationship with yourself and partners.
GoddessVamp
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Bisexual, Zürich CH
In person & Online
GODDESS VAMP 🥀 Visionary and Co-founder of O A S I S XPERIENCE First of all, I’m a L I F E S T Y L E Mistress. Born to be a Domme
MysteriousMaster
BDSM, Sugar baby & Writer
Male, Straight, Summerlin South NV US
In person & Online
I am a single Vegas local looking for someone to chill with. And maybe someone I can hang with consistently. If you are nice maybe you’ll get lucky, maybe. Known for being dominant. I am Dom/ Brat Tamer. I have the ability to adapt to almost any situation, and I am pretty open minded. I’ve been told I am funny, and I’m always looking for my next adventure. Looking to get to know people, preferably locals, open to getting to know anyone though; as long as you are cool and interesting. Also if I’m in your area on here but it shows Vegas, it’s because I have a trip booked
pixiedream
BDSM, Massage & Sugar baby
Female, Queer, Berlin DE
In person & Online
I can be your manic pixie dream girl <3
Missmia
BDSM, Content creator & Companion
Female, Pansexual, Vienna AT
In person & Online
Darling just let me know - your knees or mine? Both options (are bent over) on the table. I'm an ice queen (russian) raised under the Bel Paese sun (studied in Italy). Mind (and not only) blowing mix of ice and fire, dominant sadistic goddess or the sweetest cuddly alternative tattoed and pierced girlfriend with a secret pornstar career? Treat yourself with a detour from the daily reality and get lost in my embrace, because you will feel at ease from the moment we meet, till craving for me to never leave. I'm a skillful creator of immersive scenarios and a great partner in crime to get you experiencing what you have on your mind by too long. I'm caring but will be pushing you to please me better than you thought is possible, just to laugh satisfied afterwards. Being a kinky escort makes me particularly apt for newbies as mixing in traditional erotism means an comfortable exoloring of new kinky tastes. Time waits for no man, so make every moment count. You’ve come this far: I want our first contact to be as magical as the last. Normally, my offering is one that is best savoured over longer meetings and the suggestions below reflect this. I’m not adverse to an afternoon quickie but true seduction happens in & out of the sheets.
SarahKirschBitte
BDSM, Content creator & Artist
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
If the Queen is happy, there is peace in the queendom .
MistressElleQui
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Bisexual, Seattle WA US
In person & Online
I am Mistress Elle, a sensual sadist and meticulous Professional Dominatrix. I meld your fantasies with reality and craft an experience that will stay with you for a lifetime. When I'm not using my canes, whips, and ropes to turn submissives into art, you can find me in the ballet studio or out in the wilderness with my 2 dogs. My long-term goals include opening a commercial dungeon and possessing a personal library akin to the one from Beauty and the Beast. Well equipped. I am not a FS provider, be sure you read the rules on my website before sending an inquiry. Kinks I love: Rope Bondage (technical, contortion, and predicament) Impact Play / Pain Training / Bastinado Whipping CBT Foot / Heel / Boot Worship Leather Worship MedFet Pet Play Feminization / Maid Training Spitting Bird Feeding Chastity /Keyholding Pegging Needle Play Sounding Electric Play Vacuum Beds/Mummification Wax Play
supernovabunny
BDSM, Content creator & Companion
Female, Bisexual, New York NY US
In person & Online
Serve me and watch yourself transform.
LadyVyra
BDSM, Massage & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Surrender To My Touch
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
