BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
ladyvelvetsteel
BDSM, Coach & Workshop
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
bespoke BDSM experiences
missveraviolette
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Queer, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Professional Dominatrix, Fetish Content Creator and Photographer. With a focus on latex, watersports and sensual domination.
olyv
BDSM, Content creator & Companion
Female, Straight, Washington DC US
In person & Online
a delight, a devil, a devotion. more to come.
Missjadesmoke
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Demisexual, Phoenix AZ US
In person & Online
Blending seduction with unwavering control. Come see me at DOIAZ or topless services available. Check out my website
MissMoon
BDSM
Female, Bicurious, Cape Town ZA
In person
Step into the Moons shadow & serve me
SirLifts
BDSM, Content creator & Workshop
Male, Pansexual, Sherwood Park AB CA
In person & Online
I work/play in and around health and wellness as a trainer, speaker, author, safe kink/sex educator, professional Dominant and content creator! Coffee? Cannabis? Gym? Walks? Mountains? Adventures? Music? Kink? I'm/we're phucking doooown! Side Note: if you and yours are looking for a safe place to learn, lab, practice and/or explore Kink and BDSM, PLEASE reach out and let's chat. I love educating and working with people as they find spicier more confident and playful versions of themselves. Will add more when I get a chance!
BallistaTheBoss
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Straight, Costa Mesa CA US
In person & Online
Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy
chrispennington
BDSM, Coach & Muse
Trans, Pansexual, San Marcos TX US
In person & Online
I’m a goddess and feminine focused body-worker who helps people heal from shame and disconnection from their bodies and get in touch with their connection to the divine.
BadCarob
BDSM
Male, Demisexual, Ontario CA US
In person
I am a kink educator,, pro and lifestyle dominant with 30+ years experience. I also blend and incorporate Tantra and energy with my play. I love creating unique and transformative experiences with others. I love understanding and connecting with people through play.
CherryLuxury
BDSM, Content creator & Muse
Female, Straight, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
All around angel with a pure heart and perverted mind
BlackPantherTO
BDSM, Content creator & Muse
Male, Straight, Toronto ON CA
In person & Online
6ft tall East African Athletic🏃♂️ & adventurous✈️🗺️ Airline professional👨✈️ Switch Kinky adventures😈 Hung 🍆 Toy bag filled with lots of fun possibilities ⛓️ 📍 Downtown TO
MissSophia
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Professional Dominatrix with a special love for blood and male tears
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
