BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
LokoSokol
BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby
Non Binary, Queer, Seattle WA US
In person & Online
Worship me and I may grant you a boon; shower me with riches and you will see Heaven on Earth 💋
QoV
BDSM, Companion & Erotic audio
Female, Straight, Richmond VA US
In person & Online
I enjoy dominating males, what else is there to say 👸🏻
SpookyDukeyy
BDSM, Content creator & Coach
Gender fluid, Queer, Seattle WA US
In person & Online
Ready to fulfill your dreams & nightmares?
Nightmarish
BDSM, Content creator & Artist
Non Binary, Queer, Detroit MI US
In person & Online
I am a play piercing expert with many years of experience. I can make images that express an incredible range of ideas and emotions with piercings and sadomasochism. I can create an environment that challenges you, or one that helps you go within. There's many intentions to do what I do, I think all of them are an incredible opportunity for me to show my skills and care for you while taking you deep into pain and personal sacrifice.
tsmistresspapi
BDSM, Content creator & Muse
Trans, Pansexual, New York NY US
Online
Spiritual mentor, kink provider, scholar of religion & Classical languages, mystic, & artist. My mind, body, & energy will leave you captivated. The experiences available are as expansive as my talents: Virtual dates for those of you craving companionship or feeling intellectually under-stimulated. Photos & worship sessions for the foot enthusiasts. Your personal muse if you know only I possess the inspiration you yearn for.
PleasureToyQueen
BDSM, Content creator & Coach
Female, Pansexual, Brisbane AU
Online
👑 Get ready to indulge in the ultimate pleasure experience! 💋
davidmarius
BDSM, Therapist & Workshop
Male, Bicurious, Ibiza ES
In person & Online
I am a Hypnotherapist, Coach and Pleasure Artist / Activist from France living in Ibiza. My occupation as a Hypnotist and Shibari artist is to create erotic experiences for my clients and allow them to fully surrender into pleasure. For the past few years, I've been travelling the world leading workshops and talks around the Neuroscience of orgasms and the psychology of arousal. As the founder of the Orgasmic Hypnosis method, I teach people how to give and receive pleasure through their mind alone, also training women for orgasmic birthing. I am also a performer, director and writer involved in various artistic projects from conscious porn, art films to fashion show choregraphie. With my partner Katarsis, we have created our own brand BoundxBeyond, through which we act as a duo, organizing workshops, parties and sensual events / experiences.
ServeQueenVee
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Queer, Santa Clara CA US
In person & Online
Mean Mommy. Toxic Girlfriend. Supreme Cult Leader.
_Domus_
BDSM
Male, Straight, Lisbon PT
In person
I specialize in helping couples find the right approach to BDSM that suits their needs.
galavanting
BDSM
Female, Queer, Sydney AU
In person
I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.
Roel
BDSM
Male, Straight, Antwerp BE
In person
Discover your boundries. Set your soul free. Reach core orgasms and let yourself go.
adinstone
BDSM
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person
Let’s see and find out together what direction were going
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
