BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
welcome2sarahdise
BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Bisexual, Boston MA US
In person & Online
Sweet Sadist 🍭
alexandraespino
BDSM, Content creator & Coach
Female, Bisexual, Detroit MI US
Online
My name is Alexandra and I am a certified trauma-informed somatic sex coach and orgasmic hypnotist. I do this powerful and transformative work via 1:1 client-coaching sessions. I specialize in sexual alchemy and healing sexual trauma and shame; advocating for somatic practices, shadow integration, and exploration of kink and BDSM as psycho-spiritual therapeutic and healing modalities. These practices have been instrumental in my own personal healing journey.
gia_g
BDSM, Companion & Workshop
Gender fluid, Queer, Amsterdam NL
In person & Online
Hello dear reader, I'm GiA G, I'm a qleasure creator based in Amsterdam. I am in endless discovery and exploration of qleasure, sensuality and connection. Even though I have been in this practice for almost 5 years, I feel this journey works best when we have beginners-mind, leaving all pre-conceived notions where they are and starting from where we are. I offer diverse practices and options. I am available for one-on-one pleasure explorations. - do you want to focus on what pleasure means to you? - do you want to feel what pleasure feels like in your body? - are you open to commit to a journey of meetings? I am available for compaignonship. - i offer a lot of different kink and fetish options: ask me, tell me your fantasy, so we can make it reality ;) - i offer vanilla gfe dates - i have a sliding scale for queer people and women (shyness is normal, but i promise i don't bite ;) unless you want me too...) I organize workshops called Pleasure Nights - this is a series of four nights, over the course of a month, in which we come together with a group of people to research, un-cover, and practice qleasure. For more information, email me or follow @pleasurenights on instagram (website is in the making) PORN - i LOVE making movies that depict hotness, sensuality and desire; you can find them on different platforms, email me to know where ;) - i always am down to do collabs!!! (only serious offers ;)) - want to make your own? let me know, for an added price we can make something nice out of our date ;) I hope you have a little idea of who I am and what I offer, i hope you write me Sending lots of love and qleasure GiA G
QueenBlackBee
BDSM & Muse
Female, Straight, Helsinki FI
Online
Where desire meets Power..
GoddessSira
BDSM, Content creator & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Lisbon PT
Online
Only the worthy earn my attention. Prove your devotion with tribute and maybe I'll share a glimpse of what's mine.
MissBecky
BDSM
Female, Bisexual, Kingston JM
In person
I'm Miss Becky, a dominatrix specializing in the art of bullying and tease. With a decade of experience, I masterfully blend psychological dominance with physical control, creating unforgettable sessions for those who crave intensity and authenticity. My approach is rooted in understanding the desires and limits of my submissives, pushing them to their boundaries while ensuring a safe, consensual environment. I revel in the power dynamics, expertly wielding my words and actions to evoke vulnerability, excitement, and a deep sense of submission. Each session with me is a unique journey, tailored to your specific fantasies and fears. Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a curious newcomer, I will guide you through an experience that will leave you yearning for more. My tools of the trade include a sharp tongue, a keen sense of intuition, and an array of instruments designed to tease, torment, and tantalize. Step into my world, where the line between pleasure and pain blurs.
jamiejoy
BDSM, Educator & Workshop
Trans, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Queer & Trans sex and kink educator spreading joy and pleasure through community orgynizing
ronhades
BDSM, Companion & Educator
Non Binary, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person
Sensual sadist, Bondage enthusiast
iohulten
BDSM, Artist & Workshop
Gender fluid, Pansexual, Copenhagen DK
In person & Online
I am a body-positive kink educator dedicated to fostering empowerment, self-acceptance, and open-minded exploration of sexuality. With years of experience and a deep understanding of taboo subjects, I create safe, inclusive spaces for individuals couples and small groups to learn, grow, and embrace their authentic selves. My work focuses on dismantling shame, celebrating diversity, and providing education that is both compassionate and boundary-pushing, helping others navigate the complexities of kink, identity, and desire with confidence and respect.
Chatouille
BDSM, Retreat & Workshop
Female, Demisexual, Asheville NC US
In person
Transformative FemDom disciplinarian. Headmistress & curator of Lair Derriere, a private FemDom society.
ericd
BDSM, Erotic audio & Massage
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Very (test) filler filler
goddesssage
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Gender fluid, Pansexual, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
I’m a bold spirit ready to guide you on an exhilarating journey of exploration and trust. I believe in the power of connection—every command comes from a place of care to ensure your experience is not only thrilling but also deeply fulfilling. As a companion, I’m down-to-earth. I connect easily with others and make every encounter feel natural. I’m dedicated to creating a space where you can truly be yourself. Whether we’re sharing a quiet dinner or enjoying a night out, I bring delightful conversation and an air of sophistication that ensures each moment is special. As a Dominatrix, I have a deep understanding of the mind-body connection. When I’m in charge, safety and consent come first. I thrive on creating spaces where you can fully surrender and connect with your true self. Together, we’ll navigate the delicious tension between discipline and affection, pain and pleasure, and control. We'll craft a unique dynamic that resonates with your deepest dreams and desires.
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
