BDSM & Kink

BDSM, Domination

Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.

sunkissed615

BDSM & Sugar baby

Female, Bisexual, San Jose CA US

In person & Online

I’m the very wholesome looking neighbor or stranger you’ve been waiting to meet 🥰 come find out the opposite 🥵

Dinner Discretion Findom
RedSonia Content creator Berlin
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RedSonia

BDSM & Content creator

Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE

In person & Online

Mature and experienced English Dominatrix with a Lens

Bondage Domination Erotic Art
MissAria Erotic audio Stockholm
7 1

MissAria

BDSM, Erotic audio & Companion

Female, Pansexual, Stockholm SE

In person & Online

Sensual, sapiosexual (and horny), luxury dominatrix type. Travel for civi job so catch me in Stockholm, Munich, London

Dinner Fetish and Kink Travel
Chatouille BDSM Asheville
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Chatouille

BDSM, Retreat & Workshop

Female, Demisexual, Asheville NC US

In person

Transformative FemDom disciplinarian. Headmistress & curator of Lair Derriere, a private FemDom society.

CBT CFNM Chastity Domination
JanelleMarie BDSM Denver
15 1

JanelleMarie

BDSM, Companion & Educator

Female, Queer, Denver CO US

In person

Radiant Goddess, Tantra Companion, Pro-domme

4 hands Emotional Connection
soma_rose BDSM Providence
8 1

soma_rose

BDSM, Dancer & Massage

Female, Queer, Providence RI US

In person & Online

i am a priestess of deep, present and sensual embodiment. i am a sensual movement artist // performer with a focus on pole dance and contemporary movement. i am a midwifery student devoted to expanding sovereignty and freedom with pregnant folx in our community. i am a professional massage therapist with a focus on trauma-informed support in expanding pleasure and sensation. i am a practicing somatic astrologer and tarot reader as well. i am also a doctoral student writing a dissertation on mysticism and sexual ethics. i have been practicing and teaching around trauma-transforming BDSM practice as a submissive // gentle switch for many years now.

Bondage Lap dance Pole dance
MissA BDSM Philadelphia
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MissA

BDSM, Companion & Muse

Female, Bisexual, Philadelphia PA US

In person & Online

Travel the world that exists inside you 🖤 Sensualist, hedonist, earth mother domme. Specializing in newbies. Imagine sliding into a deep grotto of relaxation, only to adventure into the realms of deep human experience and expressive impact play ... or more. Magic hands. Also seeking submissives/service subs with hopes of finding at least one in-person intimate sub to be enmeshed in my life. Also seeking rope bunnies to help me progress my rigging skills. Will occasionally switch with friends, especially for leather and latex bondage.

Bondage Chastity Couples Cuckold
thefunnydom Content creator Melbourne
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thefunnydom

BDSM & Content creator

Male, Straight, Melbourne AU

In person & Online

A pro Daddy Dominant driven to share and explore both sadism and care, and to teach and train those in need or curious

Aftercare Bondage Book Coaching
venuscuffs BDSM New York
3 1 1

venuscuffs

BDSM, Coach & Therapist

Female, Pansexual, New York NY US

In person & Online

What is your dirty confession?

Domination Taboo
misslycoronel BDSM Palm Desert
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misslycoronel

BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby

Female, Bisexual, Palm Desert CA US

Online

I’m drawn to energy that’s authentic and a little mysterious—someone who knows how to laugh deeply and isn’t afraid of thoughtful silences, too. Let’s get to know each other through shared stories, unexpected conversations, and maybe a bit of playful banter.

Companionship Dinner Discretion
moirdiv Artist Berlin
14 3 1

moirdiv

BDSM, Artist & Muse

Gender fluid, Pansexual, Berlin DE

In person & Online

My aim, your surrender

Chastity Domination Findom Latex
MorganneKing Muse San Francisco
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MorganneKing

BDSM, Muse & Coach

Female, Pansexual, San Francisco CA US

In person & Online

Lifestyle FemDom and FLR. Goddess and Muse for those in service to Divine Feminine Power.

Body Worship Chastity Edging
What is BDSM?

What is BDSM?

Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.

BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form. 

What makes it hot?

Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment. 

No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.

Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.

Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.

Breaking Down Myths About BDSM

Breaking Down Myths About BDSM

April Maria
Posted by April Maria

Wednesday 27 November 2024

If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.

Meet Lisbon-based Shibari artist: Pedro Cordas

Meet Lisbon-based Shibari artist: Pedro Cordas

Iso Pedro Cordas
Co-authored by Iso & Pedro Cordas

Tuesday 5 November 2024

With 21 years of experience, this is the legendary Lisbon-based Shibari artist, Pedro Cordas, who offers tuition, sessions, as well as public and private performances.

Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale

Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale

Vita Volition
Posted by Vita Volition

Monday 28 October 2024

'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.

Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros

Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros

Iso Hands of Eros
Co-authored by Iso & Hands of Eros

Monday 28 October 2024

Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.

Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon

Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon

Iso Miss Moon
Co-authored by Iso & Miss Moon

Friday 25 October 2024

From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.

Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story

Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story

Iso Pimenta Cítrica
Co-authored by Iso & Pimenta Cítrica

Tuesday 15 October 2024

'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.

Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May

Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May

Iso Miss May
Co-authored by Iso & Miss May

Monday 30 September 2024

'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.

Meet LA Dominatrix: Sophia Domina

Meet LA Dominatrix: Sophia Domina

Iso Sophia Domina
Co-authored by Iso & Sophia Domina

Tuesday 17 September 2024

'I've learned that though my specific kinks may change, I am kinky as a sexual orientation.' Meet Sophia Domina, the LA-based Dominatrix, writer, director and producer.

Introducing Philadelphia Dominatrix: Mistress Hellga

Introducing Philadelphia Dominatrix: Mistress Hellga

Iso Mistress Hellga
Co-authored by Iso & Mistress Hellga

Sunday 15 September 2024

From the religious connotations of blood play, to the innate human craving for fear; this was our thrilling chat with the enchanting Philadelphia-based Dominatrix, Mistress Hellga.

Meet LA Dominatrix: Miss Mae Ling

Meet LA Dominatrix: Miss Mae Ling

Iso Mae Ling
Co-authored by Iso & Mae Ling

Sunday 8 September 2024

'Her playfully sweet side makes things all the more twisted.' We chatted with the adorable Mae Ling, the Domme next door you've been having dreams (or nightmares) about.

DO

Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.

Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.

Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.

 

DON'T

Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.

Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.

Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.

BDSM related experiences

Bondage

Bondage

Bondage

All tied up with nowhere to go?

CBT

CBT

CBT

Cock and ball torture: the best kind of therapy.

Chastity

Chastity

Chastity

When refraining is entertaining.

Domination

Domination

Domination

Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to dungeons.

FemDom

FemDom

FemDom

Let the matriarchy commence.

Findom

Findom

Findom

Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.

Foot worship

Foot worship

Foot worship

Your feet are my religion.

Latex

Latex

Latex

Want to see my second skin?

Leather

Leather

Leather

Dressed in leather whatever the weather.

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Every control freak's dream kink.

Role Play

Role Play

Role Play

Because sometimes getting arrested is very...liberating.

Shibari

Shibari

Shibari

Tying the knot never sounded better.

Submission

Submission

Submission

My happy place is my sub space.

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Torture and tickle time, all in one.