BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
Arvidht
BDSM, Kinkster & Sugar baby
Male, Straight, Värnamo SE
In person & Online
Jag gillar allt typ och kink
Fixated0_ral
BDSM, Content creator & Educator
Non Binary, Pansexual, El Paso TX US
In person & Online
I want to provide an open casual space for adults to admit they don’t know anything about sex except how to stick it in! I want to freely speak and educate them on the various way to fuck and be fucked. How to discover themselves with others. How to battle their internalized slut shame. How to be confident in their sensuality. I’m also wanting to meet others and possibly navigate a D/s dynamic. I Dominant regularly but as a switch my submissive side is often not cared for as I wish it was. So hopefully that’s something can also navigate here.
breeleche
BDSM, Coach & Muse
Female, Queer, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
Trained sexologist and certified sex and relationship coach. I love helping folks safely explore their desires and expand their skills. Warm and friendly BDSM enthusiast excited to play.
maeling
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Queer, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
The Adorable Domme: a schoolgirl bully with a tiger Asian Mommy Domme twist.
Relectrix
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Demisexual, Philadelphia PA US
In person & Online
A sensual Domme with a mean streak
sophiadomina
BDSM, Workshop & Writer
Female, Bisexual, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
Mommy Domme and Performanatrix
rinatrevi
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Austin TX US
In person & Online
My name is Rina Trevi, and I'm a vulnerability and intimacy coach. I create safe spaces for healing, self-discovery, and spiritual exploration. I'm a former professional Dominatrix, and now I focus on Shibari—the Japanese art of tying—as well as tantric bodywork, specifically the Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony. I'm based in Austin, TX, but I travel extensively. I love to offer both educational and ceremonial journeys, as well as tuitions, workshops and retreats: - Empowered Surrender Journeys (Shibari, Power Exchange, Sensation Play) - Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony (Yoni/Lingam Massage, Tantric Bodywork, Ceremonial Journey) - Experiential Retreats & Certification Trainings for Women (https://suhai.world) - Intimacy Coaching (https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com) - Intimately Tied—Shibari Retreats (https://www.intimatelytied.com) - Underline World—Tantric BDSM online course (https://underline.world) - I create safe spaces for people to fall apart. It's in the falling apart, in the messiness, that we find our way to healing and wholeness. I know this because I've lived it and witnessed this transformation in countless humans I've worked with. But it wasn’t always this way for me. I grew up in post-Soviet Russia, where secrets and silence defined my childhood. I felt completely out of place, like a misfit. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t conform to my family’s culture, and my body let me know it. I felt sick, depressed, and utterly alone. I wasn’t going to live that way, so I jumped. I knew I needed an entirely different kind of existence, so—just like in The Matrix—I became a 'Matrix Jumper.' My first 'matrix' after leaving Russia was the American Dream. I lived in DC, earned an MBA, and worked my way into a corporate finance job. But after a while, my body let me know it was time for another change, when I would fall asleep in the middle of the day and cry all night. I knew there were options. I could numb myself into accepting that this was my life, like my alcoholic father and countless others, or I could jump again. So I jumped. This time, I embraced the unknown. I traveled throughout the U.S., then to Thailand and India, learning about alternative ways of healing. I connected with myself and found a kind of freedom I never knew existed. I wanted to share it with the world, and now I do. After many years as a professional dominatrix in NYC and learning the sacred art of Shibari, I am now focused on coaching others toward transformation and healing through various modalities of vulnerability. Though my body loudly led the way for me, we can all find our path to healing, wellness, and bliss.
riversiobhan
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Grass Valley CA US
In person & Online
supporting you to attune to your sensual aliveness
evaoh
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Pansexual, Zürich CH
In person & Online
Award-winning Dominatrix and Mentor
theax
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Pansexual, Prague CZ
In person & Online
Submission through cerebral overstimulation
MistrixHooks
BDSM, Companion & Coach
Non Binary, Queer, Nuremberg DE
In person & Online
Artist, Domme, Romantic Hedonist, & Sensuous Pervert ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚
DaliaDestrange
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, Pansexual, Bellingham WA US
In person & Online
"Pleasure is a measure of freedom." - Adrienne Maree Brown
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
