BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
maragenesis
BDSM, Content creator & Coach
Female, Pansexual, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
Los Angeles Demonatrix ❖ Priestess of Pain ❖ Succubitch
olivia
BDSM, Content creator & Muse
Female, Bicurious, Vancouver BC CA
In person & Online
Sensualist with a hunger for devotion
Dabih
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Male, Demisexual, Portimão PT
Online
Hello, I'm Luis, here to have fun and a good time 😊
welcome2sarahdise
BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Bisexual, Boston MA US
In person & Online
Sweet Sadist 🍭
yesanansi
BDSM & Content creator
Trans, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Entranced by my gaze. You want to go deeper into your fantasies and make them real. You’re a filthy slut who wants to be owned. Or maybe you’re a puppy boy who needs some fine-tuned training. Or better yet, you just need to submit to a divine Black power. You’ve arrived at the right corner of the Internet and found me, Sir Anansi. Down into my web you go. With over 8 years of experience in the lifestyle I have particular expertise in creating fantastical scenes. Let's explore your depths. My expertise lies within pet/creature play, plant play, trampling, foot fetish, smothering, sensory play & deprivation, strap-on play, and so much more. Follow me on the apps at yes.anansi
elemental_subtlety
BDSM, Muse & Massage
Male, Queer, Oakland CA US
In person
As I see it, massage therapy is about holding space. My clients allow me to meet them in a place of incredible vulnerability, and it is my job to meet them there with compassion, respect, and a desire to see them thrive. Without this, I would just be pushing muscle tissue around. While this might be helpful, it would fall short of having a deep impact. Massage has the potential to help people find equilibrium, physically and emotionally. I seek to help that process along by continuously working to improve myself. I’ve taken to describing my style of topping as a sort of sensation domming. Between the years of martial arts training, massage work, and skilled labor jobs, my hands are my favorite tools… and toys. I like to play with connection, space, and anticipation. My goal is to have my scene partner on the edge of her/their seat, tugging at her/their restraints, holding her/their breath and waiting for the moment my hand touches her/them, caresses her/them, my nails drag across her/their skin, with exclamations punctuating every slap, and protests filling the moments in between contact. I take a particular pleasure in taming brats and molding them into well-behaved, eager submissives. My approach is kind, firm, mindful, and as brutal or gentle as each moment requires. I also have an extensive collection of sex toys for you to sample.
zoeybelladonna
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Female, Bisexual, New York NY US
In person
Experienced, professional kinkster and Gentle FemDom.
mistressrozz
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Pansexual, Los Angeles CA US
In person
I am Mistress Rozz, and I tend the gateway of an amazing experience you are on the threshold of. If you're reading this you probably have submissive tenancies and fantasies. If you are a submissive; no matter your experience level, there are things that you need training in. There is no one-size-fits-all perfect sub. I will shape you thoughtfully, relentlessly and sadistically into what I prefer. When you come and serve me you turn yourself over to me, and throughout the course of our session I will test that. My interests include: Leather and Latex fetish, Bondage, Suspension, Predicament Bondage, Mummification, Corporal Punishment, Obedience Training, Objectification, Spitting, Human Ashtray, Sissification, Role Play, Humiliation, Chastity Training, Sensory Deprivation and Sensory Play, CBT, Ballbusting, Shoe, Stocking and Foot Worship, Trampling.
AgentIda
BDSM
Female, Straight, Berlin DE
In person
Ready to punish you and use you as my plaything
mvpblack
BDSM, Artist & Coach
Gender fluid, Queer, Zagreb HR
In person & Online
Light, Life, Love, and Liberty
marcosmangani
BDSM, Artist & Educator
Male, Queer, Berlin DE
In person
- It's all about trust - Exploring and facilitating experiences through ropes
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully will still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Meet Lisbon-based Shibari artist: Pedro Cordas
Tuesday 5 November 2024
With 21 years of experience, this is the legendary Lisbon-based Shibari artist, Pedro Cordas, who offers tuition, sessions, as well as public and private performances.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Sophia Domina
Tuesday 17 September 2024
'I've learned that though my specific kinks may change, I am kinky as a sexual orientation.' Meet Sophia Domina, the LA-based Dominatrix, writer, director and producer.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
