BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
eliasgoldmund
BDSM, Companion & Massage
Male, Bicurious, Berlin DE
In person
I'll meet you in sensual tantric heavens, on golden shiny Earth or in dark hell.
sapieha
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, Queer, Dresden DE
In person & Online
Sensual Rope witch creating unique experiences that interweave through artistic pleasure.
Jenjen52982
BDSM, Writer & Sugar baby
Female, Sapiosexual, Herkimer NY US
Online
"I can be your fantasy, and baby you can be mine."
sunkissed615
BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, San Jose CA US
In person & Online
I’m the very wholesome looking neighbor or stranger you’ve been waiting to meet 🥰 come find out the opposite 🥵
naughtynymph89
BDSM, Content creator & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Los Angeles CA US
Online
Like all Geminis I’m versatile 💕 See my bio for more 😈
Sweetdominatrix
BDSM, Artist & Educator
Female, Bisexual, Neuchâtel CH
In person & Online
What makes you rise in love is a subtle mix in between strengh and vulnerability. I find the key of your cage.
redmorninglight
BDSM, Muse & Writer
Female, Pansexual, Silver Point TN US
In person
An artist, hidden in plain sight. A wall flower, filled with warm passion. A gentle soul that finds beauty in soft pain. Particularly searching for Sapphic souls wanting to learn more about their dominant, kinky, or top tendencies in ways that are sensual yet still satisfying. I have a background in ethics and safety, from the bedroom to the film world, and talk on making consent sexy all day, but I also adore being fully explored. When I rarely have spare time, I write smut that I never publish and paint the muses my mind creates, just to get them out and throw them away.
Xodyc
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Male, Straight, Atlanta GA US
In person
Looking for something great.
carlyjorve
BDSM, Erotic audio & Muse
Female, Queer, Amsterdam NL
In person & Online
Hot philosophers should be paid. Your greatest purpose is serving your goddess.
princeroro
BDSM, Artist & Photographer
Non Binary, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Kink + Queer photographer
PreciousLillith
BDSM, Dancer & Sugar baby
Female, Demisexual, Portland OR US
In person & Online
Succubae
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Male, Straight, Barcelona ES
In person
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
