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Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
ozthorn
BDSM, Photographer & Content creator
Male, 40, Demisexual
Bridgend UK (In person)
I shoot adult photography and video and am a shibari (Japanese rope bondage) practitioner.
countessodelia
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 25, Queer
Manchester UK (In person & Online)
Kinky, Queer, Perverted, and Personal
EightBuddhas
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 53, Bisexual
Louisville KY US (In person & Online)
When choosing between two evils, I'll pick the one I haven't tried.
handsoferos
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 33, Straight
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
As a Hypno-Shibari Artist and Soft Dom, I weave the art of Shibari with the depth of hypnosis to create transformative, kinky and healing experiences. I spend my time exploring the delicate balance of power, impact and tenderness, always seeking new ways to connect deeply with others. Friends describe me as an "iron glove in a velvet glove"—firm yet tender. Passionate about unlocking inner potential and fostering self-discovery, I am on a journey of constant learning and profound connection.
mistressbeate
BDSM
Female, 33, Pansexual
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
Psychological Domination
Otto
BDSM & Sugar baby
Male, 30, Gay
London UK (In person)
God gave me an experience beyond limits. Your pain is my pleasure.
venuscuffs
BDSM, Coach & Therapist
Female, 99, Pansexual
New York NY US (In person & Online)
What is your dirty confession?
RedSonia
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 32, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Mature and experienced English Dominatrix with a Lens
daddyra
BDSM, Companion & Content creator
Trans, 29, Queer
New York NY US (In person & Online)
Submitting to me feels like bathing in sunshine ☀️ let Daddy praise you while you dress up 👗 BDSM 🖤 outbound only
KoreKouture
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 35, Pansexual
Leeds UK (In person & Online)
I'm a very playful Dominant, I adore reactions and helping people to explore to find what they enjoy!
ladylilax
BDSM, Artist & Muse
Female, 29, Bisexual
Dublin IE (In person & Online)
$•••𝔐𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔰 𝔏𝔞𝔡𝔶 𝔏𝔦𝔩𝔞𝔠•••$ -Welcome submissives and curious seekers of surrender... I Am a Professional Mistress, cultured, intelligent, and sophisticated. Experienced and elegant, I am a true Alpha Female. My first love is power. It thrills me, fills my soul, brings more pleasure than orgasm. The moment you step into my space, the time is no longer yours. Your body no longer belongs to you, your will begins to bend to my whims, longing desperately to fulfill my every command. You will be taken in by My sexual prowess the moment we meet. My eyes alone are enough to have you under My spell. Kiss My feet before you enter the room. While My fetishes and perverse proclivities are many, My primary interests - and My greatest turn ons - lie in genuine and total power exchange, Goddess worship, and service training. Be it within the container of a singular rendezvous or an ongoing dynamic, these core kinks are the foundations upon which I build experiences and connections with My playmates and submissives. I delight in receiving your willing and earnest surrender, molding your submissive psyche, training you to My standards of excellence, and witnessing the beautiful unfolding of your subjugation as you grow and evolve under My strict guidance and Divine Feminine authority. I am the quintessential Alpha Female who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in my presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before me and serve me. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects
MistressEtta
BDSM
Female, 35, Bicurious
Glasgow UK (In person)
The mean Mother you have always wanted.
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Sophia Domina
Tuesday 17 September 2024
'I've learned that though my specific kinks may change, I am kinky as a sexual orientation.' Meet Sophia Domina, the LA-based Dominatrix, writer, director and producer.
Introducing Philadelphia Dominatrix: Mistress Hellga
Sunday 15 September 2024
From the religious connotations of blood play, to the innate human craving for fear; this was our thrilling chat with the enchanting Philadelphia-based Dominatrix, Mistress Hellga.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Miss Mae Ling
Sunday 8 September 2024
'Her playfully sweet side makes things all the more twisted.' We chatted with the adorable Mae Ling, the Domme next door you've been having dreams (or nightmares) about.
Introducing London Dominatrix: Veronica Viper
Monday 2 September 2024
From chastity to counselling, London-based Dominatrix and BDSM wellness specialist, Veronica Viper is the psychological kinkster you've always dreamed of.
3 essential lesbian BDSM films
Tuesday 27 August 2024
It's hard to find nuanced representation of BDSM in film, and we could write a whole thesis on cinematic portrayals of lesbian relationships. So how are we fixed for films that explore lesbians & BDSM all in one? Here are our 3 favourites.
Introducing Berlin-based Dominatrix: Mistress Beate
Sunday 18 August 2024
Despite the whips and chains, Domination is anything but skin deep. That's especially true for Mistress Beate, the Berlin-based psychological Dominatrix.
So you want to try Shibari: featuring Marie Sauvage
Friday 16 August 2024
Episode 4 of the Sensuali podcast features celebrated Shibari artist Marie Sauvage talking with host Emma aka Emmcheeky all about the famous Japanese art form, Shibari.
Meet gym bunny content creator: Juicy Jynx
Saturday 3 August 2024
Looking for some squatting smut? This is Juicy Jynx, the content creator who earned her fame through her gym bunny aesthetic.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
Meet international Dominatrix, Mistress Gemma Li
Friday 12 July 2024
Meet the femme fatale you've always dreamed of. We chatted to international Dominatrix Gemma Li, who is taking over the world one whip at a time.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
