BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
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MsGeminex
BDSM & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Demisexual
Phoenix AZ US
Seductive in My ways to tease, torment and train submissive little pets. Traveling often. FMTY & in-calls.
mistresscara
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Denver CO US
Love breaking in newbies and first timers with a gentle but firm hand.
joyenjoyen
BDSM, Dancer & Muse
Services are Online
Female - Pansexual
Manila PH
JOYEN (Pronouns: Perceived) is a Sadistic Rope Bondage Dominatrix and Burlesque Stripper, with expertise in the art of macabre and seduction. Her favorite style is aesthetically-pleasing and acrobatic tormenting rope, and Her interest lies in the realm of elegant fetish and erotica. Nothing delights Her Infernal Majesty more than those willing to completely surrender their darkest and most vulnerable selves (and wallets) in the dangerous embrace of Her rope.
MxLila
BDSM, Muse & Therapist
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
Landskrona SE
Purple to the people 💜
GoddessVenusia
BDSM & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Miami FL US
Ethereal Goddess possessed by a Sadistic Succubus ~
etoileVega
BDSM, Coach & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Pro kinkster. Sensual switch, impact is my specialty.
ElixaMoon
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Dallas TX US
How big is your Eros, wanna find out? ✨
Arvidht
BDSM, Kinkster & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Värnamo SE
Jag gillar allt typ och kink
Fixated0_ral
BDSM, Content creator & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Pansexual
El Paso TX US
I want to provide an open casual space for adults to admit they don’t know anything about sex except how to stick it in! I want to freely speak and educate them on the various way to fuck and be fucked. How to discover themselves with others. How to battle their internalized slut shame. How to be confident in their sensuality. I’m also wanting to meet others and possibly navigate a D/s dynamic. I Dominant regularly but as a switch my submissive side is often not cared for as I wish it was. So hopefully that’s something can also navigate here.
maeling
BDSM & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Los Angeles CA US
The Adorable Domme: a schoolgirl bully with a tiger Asian Mommy Domme twist.
sophiadomina
BDSM, Workshop & Writer
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Los Angeles CA US
Mommy Domme and Performanatrix
rinatrevi
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Austin TX US
My name is Rina Trevi, and I'm a vulnerability and intimacy coach. I create safe spaces for healing, self-discovery, and spiritual exploration. I'm a former professional Dominatrix, and now I focus on Shibari—the Japanese art of tying—as well as tantric bodywork, specifically the Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony. I'm based in Austin, TX, but I travel extensively. I love to offer both educational and ceremonial journeys, as well as tuitions, workshops and retreats: - Empowered Surrender Journeys (Shibari, Power Exchange, Sensation Play) - Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony (Yoni/Lingam Massage, Tantric Bodywork, Ceremonial Journey) - Experiential Retreats & Certification Trainings for Women (https://suhai.world) - Intimacy Coaching (https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com) - Intimately Tied—Shibari Retreats (https://www.intimatelytied.com) - Underline World—Tantric BDSM online course (https://underline.world) - I create safe spaces for people to fall apart. It's in the falling apart, in the messiness, that we find our way to healing and wholeness. I know this because I've lived it and witnessed this transformation in countless humans I've worked with. But it wasn’t always this way for me. I grew up in post-Soviet Russia, where secrets and silence defined my childhood. I felt completely out of place, like a misfit. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t conform to my family’s culture, and my body let me know it. I felt sick, depressed, and utterly alone. I wasn’t going to live that way, so I jumped. I knew I needed an entirely different kind of existence, so—just like in The Matrix—I became a 'Matrix Jumper.' My first 'matrix' after leaving Russia was the American Dream. I lived in DC, earned an MBA, and worked my way into a corporate finance job. But after a while, my body let me know it was time for another change, when I would fall asleep in the middle of the day and cry all night. I knew there were options. I could numb myself into accepting that this was my life, like my alcoholic father and countless others, or I could jump again. So I jumped. This time, I embraced the unknown. I traveled throughout the U.S., then to Thailand and India, learning about alternative ways of healing. I connected with myself and found a kind of freedom I never knew existed. I wanted to share it with the world, and now I do. After many years as a professional dominatrix in NYC and learning the sacred art of Shibari, I am now focused on coaching others toward transformation and healing through various modalities of vulnerability. Though my body loudly led the way for me, we can all find our path to healing, wellness, and bliss.
What is a BDSM practitioner?
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A BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practitioner is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
