BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
AgentIda
BDSM
Female, Straight, Berlin DE
In person
Ready to punish you and use you as my plaything
mvpblack
BDSM, Artist & Coach
Gender fluid, Queer, Zagreb HR
In person & Online
Light, Life, Love, and Liberty
marcosmangani
BDSM, Artist & Educator
Male, Queer, Berlin DE
In person
- It's all about trust - Exploring and facilitating experiences through ropes
vitavolition
BDSM, Content creator & Writer
Female, Queer, Amsterdam NL
In person & Online
Your pain is my pleasure 😈⛓️🖤
RedSonia
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Mature and experienced English Dominatrix with a Lens
MissAria
BDSM, Erotic audio & Companion
Female, Pansexual, Stockholm SE
In person & Online
Sensual, sapiosexual (and horny), luxury dominatrix type. Travel for civi job so catch me in Stockholm, Munich, London
soma_rose
BDSM, Dancer & Massage
Female, Queer, Providence RI US
In person & Online
i am a priestess of deep, present and sensual embodiment. i am a sensual movement artist // performer with a focus on pole dance and contemporary movement. i am a midwifery student devoted to expanding sovereignty and freedom with pregnant folx in our community. i am a professional massage therapist with a focus on trauma-informed support in expanding pleasure and sensation. i am a practicing somatic astrologer and tarot reader as well. i am also a doctoral student writing a dissertation on mysticism and sexual ethics. i have been practicing and teaching around trauma-transforming BDSM practice as a submissive // gentle switch for many years now.
MissA
BDSM, Companion & Muse
Female, Bisexual, Philadelphia PA US
In person & Online
Travel the world that exists inside you 🖤 Sensualist, hedonist, earth mother domme. Specializing in newbies. Imagine sliding into a deep grotto of relaxation, only to adventure into the realms of deep human experience and expressive impact play ... or more. Magic hands. Also seeking submissives/service subs with hopes of finding at least one in-person intimate sub to be enmeshed in my life. Also seeking rope bunnies to help me progress my rigging skills. Will occasionally switch with friends, especially for leather and latex bondage.
thefunnydom
BDSM & Content creator
Male, Straight, Melbourne AU
In person & Online
A pro Daddy Dominant driven to share and explore both sadism and care, and to teach and train those in need or curious
misslycoronel
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Palm Desert CA US
Online
I’m drawn to energy that’s authentic and a little mysterious—someone who knows how to laugh deeply and isn’t afraid of thoughtful silences, too. Let’s get to know each other through shared stories, unexpected conversations, and maybe a bit of playful banter.
moirdiv
BDSM, Artist & Muse
Gender fluid, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
My aim, your surrender
MorganneKing
BDSM, Muse & Coach
Female, Pansexual, San Francisco CA US
In person & Online
Lifestyle FemDom and FLR. Goddess and Muse for those in service to Divine Feminine Power.
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
5 essential books about BDSM
Wednesday 12 February 2025
These books go beyond all too obvious BDSM clichés and capture the more authentic essence of power, pleasure, and surrender. The perfect Valentine's gift to someone who truly understands the thrill of control, or lack of.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Celebrating Diversity and Exploration on International Fetish Day
Friday 17 January 2025
Today is International Fetish Day a day to explore, appreciate, and embrace the myriad of desires that exist within human sexuality.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Breaking Down Myths About BDSM
Wednesday 27 November 2024
If you've ever wondered what BDSM is really about or how it can enhance relationships, let's separate fact from fiction.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Meet Berlin Hypno Shibari artist: Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
Meet Berlin's favourite Hypno Shibari artist, Hands of Eros aka Emmanuel. His work centres around Shibari, Hypnosis and impact play, helping women connect to their subconscious, discover themselves, and find new paths to sexual empowerment and healing.
Meet founder of Shibari South Africa: Miss Moon
Friday 25 October 2024
From sensual tickle sessions to healing rope ceremonies, this is the enigmatic founder of Shibari South Africa, Miss Moon.
Her + Him: Two sides of a pegging story
Tuesday 15 October 2024
'I couldn’t believe it was finally happening, after months of fantasizing about it.' Pimenta Cítrica presents a steamy two-sided story of an unforgettable pegging moment.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
