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ozthorn
BDSM, Photographer & Content creator
Male, 40, Demisexual
Bridgend UK (In person)
I shoot adult photography and video and am a shibari (Japanese rope bondage) practitioner.
countessodelia
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 25, Queer
Manchester UK (In person & Online)
Kinky, Queer, Perverted, and Personal
EightBuddhas
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 53, Bisexual
Louisville KY US (In person & Online)
When choosing between two evils, I'll pick the one I haven't tried.
handsoferos
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 33, Straight
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
As a Hypno-Shibari Artist and Soft Dom, I weave the art of Shibari with the depth of hypnosis to create transformative, kinky and healing experiences. I spend my time exploring the delicate balance of power, impact and tenderness, always seeking new ways to connect deeply with others. Friends describe me as an "iron glove in a velvet glove"—firm yet tender. Passionate about unlocking inner potential and fostering self-discovery, I am on a journey of constant learning and profound connection.
mistressbeate
BDSM
Female, 33, Pansexual
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
Psychological Domination
Otto
BDSM & Sugar baby
Male, 30, Gay
London UK (In person)
God gave me an experience beyond limits. Your pain is my pleasure.
Papablo_iva
Writer
Male, 38, Queer
Lima PE (In person)
Redescubriendo el mundo a través de un cuerpo no hegemónico y de las experiencias con las que me cruzo.
RedSonia
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 32, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Mature and experienced English Dominatrix with a Lens
KoreKouture
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 35, Pansexual
Leeds UK (In person & Online)
I'm a very playful Dominant, I adore reactions and helping people to explore to find what they enjoy!
ladylilax
Artist, BDSM & Muse
Female, 29, Bisexual
Dublin IE (In person & Online)
$•••𝔐𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔰 𝔏𝔞𝔡𝔶 𝔏𝔦𝔩𝔞𝔠•••$ -Welcome submissives and curious seekers of surrender... I Am a Professional Mistress, cultured, intelligent, and sophisticated. Experienced and elegant, I am a true Alpha Female. My first love is power. It thrills me, fills my soul, brings more pleasure than orgasm. The moment you step into my space, the time is no longer yours. Your body no longer belongs to you, your will begins to bend to my whims, longing desperately to fulfill my every command. You will be taken in by My sexual prowess the moment we meet. My eyes alone are enough to have you under My spell. Kiss My feet before you enter the room. While My fetishes and perverse proclivities are many, My primary interests - and My greatest turn ons - lie in genuine and total power exchange, Goddess worship, and service training. Be it within the container of a singular rendezvous or an ongoing dynamic, these core kinks are the foundations upon which I build experiences and connections with My playmates and submissives. I delight in receiving your willing and earnest surrender, molding your submissive psyche, training you to My standards of excellence, and witnessing the beautiful unfolding of your subjugation as you grow and evolve under My strict guidance and Divine Feminine authority. I am the quintessential Alpha Female who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in my presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before me and serve me. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects
MistressEtta
BDSM
Female, 35, Bicurious
Glasgow UK (In person)
The mean Mother you have always wanted.
Juicy_Jynxxx
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 26, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Not your average gym bunny! 🥵 Come find out why...
What is bondage?
All tied up with nowhere to go?
Bondage (the B in BDSM) is a sexual practice that involves the consensual use of restraints or ties for the purpose of erotic pleasure, power exchange, or aesthetic stimulation. It falls under the broader category of BDSM which encompasses a variety of consensual activities exploring power dynamics and different forms of sensory experiences.
What makes it hot?
Restraining a partner creates an intimate dance of control and surrender, where the bound individual willingly embraces vulnerability. The physical sensation of being bound intensifies touch, fostering a heightened erotic response. The aesthetic appeal, whether in the artistry of knots or the visual impact of restraint, adds another layer of arousal. Emotionally, the trust required for bondage deepens the connection between partners. Ultimately, the allure of bondage lies in its ability to transcend physicality.
Bondage is often associated with physical sensations, but it also involves a deep emotional connection between partners. The trust, vulnerability, and communication required in bondage activities can contribute to a stronger emotional bond between individuals.
Some individuals who practice bondage have described it as a meditative and mindful experience. The focused attention on the sensations, the connection between partners, and the careful execution of ties or restraints can create a unique state of mindfulness.
Many practitioners view the aesthetics of bondage as an art form, appreciating the beauty and skill involved in tying intricate knots or creating visually striking scenes.
So you want to try Shibari: featuring Marie Sauvage
Friday 16 August 2024
Episode 4 of the Sensuali podcast features celebrated Shibari artist Marie Sauvage talking with host Emma aka Emmcheeky all about the famous Japanese art form, Shibari.
Shibari rope tying: when sensuality becomes an art form
Thursday 11 July 2024
Experience the art of Shibari, where ropes and knots transform into a journey of trust, and sensual exploration. Discover how the subtle interplay of pain and pleasure can elevate your understanding of connection and intimacy.
Meet Shibari rigger & educator: Rory Ropes
Friday 17 May 2024
Looking for an inclusive and creative space to try out Shibari? Trust professional rigger and educator, Rory to show you the ropes.
Exploring Shibari: A Journey into Somatic Healing
Thursday 22 February 2024
Shibari is best known as a form of bondage torture as well being recognised as an art form. But this ancient practice is also a surprisingly therapeutic form of somatic healing. Here's how.
Tied up in intimacy: meet Shibari star, Petite Pretzel
Friday 16 February 2024
We caught up with rope switch Petite Pretzel, a performer and teacher at London's top rope bondage institution, Anatomie Studio. We discussed all things Shibari and how the practice has immensely changed her life.
Voices from Sensuali Shibari Practitioners
Tuesday 9 January 2024
Embarking on a captivating exploration into the realm of Shibari, content creator & online adult worker, Sakura recently had the privilege of engaging in insightful conversations with three seasoned practitioners. They generously shared their experiences, perspectives, and wisdom which provides some valuable advice tailored for those eager to embark on their own Shibari odyssey
BDSM myth busting: 5 misconceptions about kink that you need to know
Tuesday 24 October 2023
Professional BDSM coach Sarah at Sub in the City explains some of the most common myths about BDSM and kink.
A beginner’s guide to BDSM
Monday 23 October 2023
What does BDSM really stand for? Read our latest blog from Sarah at Sub in the City for a quick and dirty breakdown of this kinky acronym.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
BDSM coaching: meet Sub in the City
Friday 8 September 2023
We sat down with Sarah, aka Sub in the City, who offers bdsm coaching sessions online and in person. We spoke about bdsm as a healing practice, the importance of introspection and communication in bdsm and the need for more mainstream spaces that openly encourage bdsm education.
DO
Use proper restraints: Invest in high-quality, body-safe restraints specifically designed for bondage play. This includes cuffs, ropes, or other materials that are less likely to cause skin irritation or injury.
Educate yourself on knots: Learn and practice basic knot-tying techniques. Understanding how to tie and release knots safely is crucial to avoid unintentional discomfort or difficulty in removing restraints.
Establish quick-release mechanisms: Have quick-release mechanisms readily available, such as safety shears or specially designed clips. This ensures that restraints can be easily and quickly removed in case of an emergency or if the bound partner needs to be released swiftly.
Maintain circulation awareness: Regularly check the bound partner's extremities for proper circulation. Ensure that restraints are not too tight and that the bound individual doesn't experience numbness or tingling, which could indicate restricted blood flow.
DON'T
Forget consent: Make sure both parties fully consent and make sure to have regular check-ins throughout play.
Use improper materials: Use materials that can cause harm or injury. Avoid rough or abrasive textures that may chafe the skin. Opt for materials that are smooth, non-allergenic, and designed for bondage play.
Leave bound partner unattended: Leave a bound partner unattended, especially if they are in a vulnerable position. Continuous supervision is important to respond quickly to any issues or discomfort that may arise during the bondage session.
Tie knots too tightly: Tie knots too tightly. While restraint is part of the experience, it's crucial to avoid excessive pressure on joints or delicate areas. Knots should be snug but not so tight as to cause pain or impair circulation.
Ignore safety shears: Neglect to have safety shears or scissors within reach. In case of an emergency or if the bound partner needs to be quickly released, having the means to cut restraints swiftly is essential for safety.
