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Bondage
All tied up with nowhere to go?
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Barcelona ES
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
sandrakinkr
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Dallas TX US
Let me take you deep into the darkest part of the lifestyle
Helina
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Paris FR
I am a conscious kink facilitator and Dominatrix, passionate about creating transformative, empowering spaces for you to explore power dynamics, consent, and authentic self-expression. In our work together, you'll uncover your deepest desires, define clear boundaries, and tap into the liberating power of kink. With a focus on clear communication and mutual respect, I guide you through a journey of self-discovery, where vulnerability becomes strength and personal empowerment is key. Whether you're looking to release old limitations or step into your fullest self, my sessions offer the perfect blend of playfulness, intensity, pleasure, adventure and self-growth, helping you connect more deeply with your desires, your power, and the freedom within surrender. I offer personalized 1-2-1 sessions, group workshops, and interactive/educative talks, centered around exploring power dynamics, consent, and self-expression through conscious kink, sensuality, and energy work.
Ende_J
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Male - Bisexual
Los Angeles CA US
Welcome^_^. I hold sex and sexuality as brushes and view the people who submit to my care as canvas. By making use of a D/S dynamic, I aim to turn my subs into art objects and refelct and amplifiiy the beauty they show me. Through a sereis of sessions, my subs and I build a relationship founded on trust and comfort, allowing for a release of repressive anxieties. My approach combines conversation with artistic expression. Using photography, mirrors and rope as my primary media, I capture your essence in a way that reveals an unfiltered you: its gorgeous. Additionally, I find rope work can evoke sensations of being held and supported, further enhancing your experience of safety and relaxation. When you work with me, you are not just a sub—you become a living masterpiece.
maragenesis
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US
Los Angeles Demonatrix ❖ Priestess of Pain ❖ Succubitch
Dabih
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Services are Online
Male - Demisexual
Portimão PT
Hello, I'm Luis, here to have fun and a good time 😊
Papablo_iva
Writer
Services are In person
Male - Queer
Lima PE
Redescubriendo el mundo a través de un cuerpo no hegemónico y de las experiencias con las que me cruzo.
yesanansi
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
Entranced by my gaze. You want to go deeper into your fantasies and make them real. You’re a filthy slut who wants to be owned. Or maybe you’re a puppy boy who needs some fine-tuned training. Or better yet, you just need to submit to a divine Black power. You’ve arrived at the right corner of the Internet and found me, Sir Anansi. Down into my web you go. With over 8 years of experience in the lifestyle I have particular expertise in creating fantastical scenes. Let's explore your depths. My expertise lies within pet/creature play, plant play, trampling, foot fetish, smothering, sensory play & deprivation, strap-on play, and so much more. Follow me on the apps at yes.anansi
elemental_subtlety
Muse, BDSM & Massage
Services are In person
Male - Queer
Oakland CA US
As I see it, massage therapy is about holding space. My clients allow me to meet them in a place of incredible vulnerability, and it is my job to meet them there with compassion, respect, and a desire to see them thrive. Without this, I would just be pushing muscle tissue around. While this might be helpful, it would fall short of having a deep impact. Massage has the potential to help people find equilibrium, physically and emotionally. I seek to help that process along by continuously working to improve myself. I’ve taken to describing my style of topping as a sort of sensation domming. Between the years of martial arts training, massage work, and skilled labor jobs, my hands are my favorite tools… and toys. I like to play with connection, space, and anticipation. My goal is to have my scene partner on the edge of her/their seat, tugging at her/their restraints, holding her/their breath and waiting for the moment my hand touches her/them, caresses her/them, my nails drag across her/their skin, with exclamations punctuating every slap, and protests filling the moments in between contact. I take a particular pleasure in taming brats and molding them into well-behaved, eager submissives. My approach is kind, firm, mindful, and as brutal or gentle as each moment requires. I also have an extensive collection of sex toys for you to sample.
zoeybelladonna
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Services are In person
Female - Bisexual
New York NY US
Experienced, professional kinkster and Gentle FemDom.
AgentIda
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Straight
Berlin DE
Ready to punish you and use you as my plaything
What is bondage?
All tied up with nowhere to go?
Bondage (the B in BDSM) is a sexual practice that involves the consensual use of restraints or ties for the purpose of erotic pleasure, power exchange, or aesthetic stimulation. It falls under the broader category of BDSM which encompasses a variety of consensual activities exploring power dynamics and different forms of sensory experiences.
What makes it hot?
Restraining a partner creates an intimate dance of control and surrender, where the bound individual willingly embraces vulnerability. The physical sensation of being bound intensifies touch, fostering a heightened erotic response. The aesthetic appeal, whether in the artistry of knots or the visual impact of restraint, adds another layer of arousal. Emotionally, the trust required for bondage deepens the connection between partners. Ultimately, the allure of bondage lies in its ability to transcend physicality.
Bondage is often associated with physical sensations, but it also involves a deep emotional connection between partners. The trust, vulnerability, and communication required in bondage activities can contribute to a stronger emotional bond between individuals.
Some individuals who practice bondage have described it as a meditative and mindful experience. The focused attention on the sensations, the connection between partners, and the careful execution of ties or restraints can create a unique state of mindfulness.
Many practitioners view the aesthetics of bondage as an art form, appreciating the beauty and skill involved in tying intricate knots or creating visually striking scenes.
Educational
DO
Use proper restraints: Invest in high-quality, body-safe restraints specifically designed for bondage play. This includes cuffs, ropes, or other materials that are less likely to cause skin irritation or injury.
Educate yourself on knots: Learn and practice basic knot-tying techniques. Understanding how to tie and release knots safely is crucial to avoid unintentional discomfort or difficulty in removing restraints.
Establish quick-release mechanisms: Have quick-release mechanisms readily available, such as safety shears or specially designed clips. This ensures that restraints can be easily and quickly removed in case of an emergency or if the bound partner needs to be released swiftly.
Maintain circulation awareness: Regularly check the bound partner's extremities for proper circulation. Ensure that restraints are not too tight and that the bound individual doesn't experience numbness or tingling, which could indicate restricted blood flow.
DON'T
Forget consent: Make sure both parties fully consent and make sure to have regular check-ins throughout play.
Use improper materials: Use materials that can cause harm or injury. Avoid rough or abrasive textures that may chafe the skin. Opt for materials that are smooth, non-allergenic, and designed for bondage play.
Leave bound partner unattended: Leave a bound partner unattended, especially if they are in a vulnerable position. Continuous supervision is important to respond quickly to any issues or discomfort that may arise during the bondage session.
Tie knots too tightly: Tie knots too tightly. While restraint is part of the experience, it's crucial to avoid excessive pressure on joints or delicate areas. Knots should be snug but not so tight as to cause pain or impair circulation.
Ignore safety shears: Neglect to have safety shears or scissors within reach. In case of an emergency or if the bound partner needs to be quickly released, having the means to cut restraints swiftly is essential for safety.
