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davidmarius
BDSM, Therapist & Workshop
Male, 33, Bicurious
Ibiza ES (In person & Online)
I am a Hypnotherapist, Coach and Pleasure Artist / Activist from France living in Ibiza. My occupation as a Hypnotist and Shibari artist is to create erotic experiences for my clients and allow them to fully surrender into pleasure. For the past few years, I've been travelling the world leading workshops and talks around the Neuroscience of orgasms and the psychology of arousal. As the founder of the Orgasmic Hypnosis method, I teach people how to give and receive pleasure through their mind alone, also training women for orgasmic birthing. I am also a performer, director and writer involved in various artistic projects from conscious porn, art films to fashion show choregraphie. With my partner Katarsis, we have created our own brand BoundxBeyond, through which we act as a duo, organizing workshops, parties and sensual events / experiences.
ServeQueenVee
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 26, Queer
Santa Clara CA US (In person & Online)
Mean Mommy. Toxic Girlfriend. Supreme Cult Leader.
belste
BDSM
Male, 49, Straight
Hemel Hempstead UK (In person)
Crop-wielding rigger Dom. Consent and communication important.
galavanting
BDSM
Female, 40, Queer
Sydney AU (In person)
I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.
Goddess_A
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 32, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
I am London’s most statuesque Dominatrix, here to make your fantasies come true. I am a beautiful and strong Amazonian Mistress. Standing at a powerful 6’1” tall before I put on my high heels, I revel in making men feel inferior. I must be worshipped and obeyed. Some of my favourite activities include CP, humiliation and pegging. I also thoroughly enjoy beat downs; any excuse to practise my Muay Thai and show off my strength. I am available for in person sessions at Dungeons and Hotels based in London and Hertfordshire.
elenoreofmay
Erotic audio & Content creator
Female, 31, Straight
New Hartford NY US (In person & Online)
Comfort? Or Erotica ? Personalized or degradation? What’s your preference ?
mistressmay
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 26, Queer
London UK (In person & Online)
Professional Dominatrix, dungeon owner and content creator
Roel
BDSM
Male, 48, Straight
Antwerp BE (In person)
Discover your boundries. Set your soul free. Reach core orgasms and let yourself go.
PorcelainVictoria
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 25, Bisexual
Edinburgh UK (In person & Online)
Hi I'm Mistress Victoria Since I can remember I have always been fascinated by the subversive sexual culture, the psychology behind power exchange and the practice of dark arts. I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle community for the past years and have since then dedicated my time to sharpening my skills and perfecting the art of punishment, rewards, and the paradox of pain and pleasure. Today I am a well established fetish artist, dominatrix and Alpha female If I will allow you to serve Me, you will be soon captivated by my aura and presence. I am really one of a kind type of woman – Beautiful, fierce, alluring, demanding, sexually dominant and independent. I have been blessed with natural beauty – my feline face, porcelain skin and Goddess body will be the perfect canvas for you to worship. My feminine power and deviant mind will make you surrender and give up your thoughts of control – you will be stripped of your ego and be ready to be mould into my perfect plaything. I get the greatest satisfaction when taking you to places you have never been before, where pain is just a memory, problems disappears and your sole focus is on me. Once there, in your subspace, the possibilities will be limited only by our imagination. If your new to BDSM, you wanna try something new let's do it ! Il take it at your pace, talk things through and make sure your fully comfortable. If your happy I'm happy. All kinks are welcomed ! I'm very open-minded this is not just a job but a lifestyle I enjoy it outside of work too. LOCATIONs I can session from Abstrakt Studios Dungeon in Glasgow Edinburgh Dungeon As well as hotels or even your place DINNER DATES We can have a outcall dinner date or even an incall whichever you prefer. Let's get to know each other Incall £120 per HR Outcall £120 per HR STORE These items can be picked up in person or posted, customised to the fullest ! Watersports giving + £20 Others + £100 Cummy gummies (have been inserted into my ass or pussy) Pussy/ass lollipops (have been inserted into my ass or pussy) Cum filled Condom (male cum) Heels Converse Slip on shoes Panties (however you like them) Socks Public hair clippings Nail trimmings Ear wax buds Leggings CONSULTATION Book a consultation with me If you are nervous about meeting me or your new to this we can sit down and talk. For new clients I offer consultations at a discounted rate, we get to know each other and get to know what exactly you want to achieve by seeing me. £80 half hr £120 1hr £240 2hrs These consultations can take place at my flat, or even at a cafe. This will not include any dominating just a talk. If you wish to book a session after the consultation you may do so.
adinstone
BDSM
Male, 25, Straight
Berlin DE (In person)
Let’s see and find out together what direction were going
AvaSheridon
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 43, Sapiosexual
London UK (In person & Online)
The only elite disciplinarian you'll ever need.
DaliaDestrange
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 32, Pansexual
Bellingham WA US (In person & Online)
"Pleasure is a measure of freedom." - Adrienne Maree Brown
What is bondage?
All tied up with nowhere to go?
Bondage (the B in BDSM) is a sexual practice that involves the consensual use of restraints or ties for the purpose of erotic pleasure, power exchange, or aesthetic stimulation. It falls under the broader category of BDSM which encompasses a variety of consensual activities exploring power dynamics and different forms of sensory experiences.
What makes it hot?
Restraining a partner creates an intimate dance of control and surrender, where the bound individual willingly embraces vulnerability. The physical sensation of being bound intensifies touch, fostering a heightened erotic response. The aesthetic appeal, whether in the artistry of knots or the visual impact of restraint, adds another layer of arousal. Emotionally, the trust required for bondage deepens the connection between partners. Ultimately, the allure of bondage lies in its ability to transcend physicality.
Bondage is often associated with physical sensations, but it also involves a deep emotional connection between partners. The trust, vulnerability, and communication required in bondage activities can contribute to a stronger emotional bond between individuals.
Some individuals who practice bondage have described it as a meditative and mindful experience. The focused attention on the sensations, the connection between partners, and the careful execution of ties or restraints can create a unique state of mindfulness.
Many practitioners view the aesthetics of bondage as an art form, appreciating the beauty and skill involved in tying intricate knots or creating visually striking scenes.
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DO
Use proper restraints: Invest in high-quality, body-safe restraints specifically designed for bondage play. This includes cuffs, ropes, or other materials that are less likely to cause skin irritation or injury.
Educate yourself on knots: Learn and practice basic knot-tying techniques. Understanding how to tie and release knots safely is crucial to avoid unintentional discomfort or difficulty in removing restraints.
Establish quick-release mechanisms: Have quick-release mechanisms readily available, such as safety shears or specially designed clips. This ensures that restraints can be easily and quickly removed in case of an emergency or if the bound partner needs to be released swiftly.
Maintain circulation awareness: Regularly check the bound partner's extremities for proper circulation. Ensure that restraints are not too tight and that the bound individual doesn't experience numbness or tingling, which could indicate restricted blood flow.
DON'T
Forget consent: Make sure both parties fully consent and make sure to have regular check-ins throughout play.
Use improper materials: Use materials that can cause harm or injury. Avoid rough or abrasive textures that may chafe the skin. Opt for materials that are smooth, non-allergenic, and designed for bondage play.
Leave bound partner unattended: Leave a bound partner unattended, especially if they are in a vulnerable position. Continuous supervision is important to respond quickly to any issues or discomfort that may arise during the bondage session.
Tie knots too tightly: Tie knots too tightly. While restraint is part of the experience, it's crucial to avoid excessive pressure on joints or delicate areas. Knots should be snug but not so tight as to cause pain or impair circulation.
Ignore safety shears: Neglect to have safety shears or scissors within reach. In case of an emergency or if the bound partner needs to be quickly released, having the means to cut restraints swiftly is essential for safety.
