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Chastity
When refraining is entertaining.
MistressEtta
BDSM
Female, 35, Bicurious
Glasgow UK (In person)
The mean Mother you have always wanted.
maragenesis
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Female, 69, Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US (In person & Online)
Los Angeles Demonatrix ❖ Priestess of Pain ❖ Succubitch
XCallxMexSirX
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 29, Pansexual
Boston MA US (In person & Online)
Let Me Take Control And Transform You.
bellabird
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 24, Pansexual
Glasgow UK (In person & Online)
Hello kinksters. I am a Glasgow based switch with 6 years experience under my belt. I have done all different types of sex work but I find my forte is in domination as well as being submissive on film. Corporal punishment, bondage, shibari and pegging are amongst my favourites. Contact me if you’d like to come play!
tealRevel
BDSM
Female, 38, Bicurious
London UK (In person & Online)
Leave what's acceptable at the door. You need Me. Come on in.
JordanDax
BDSM & Erotic audio
Trans, 36, Bisexual
New York NY US (Online)
Black trans Domme. Available for online Domination, humiliation, cuckholding, chastity/cbt play and more.
BallistaTheBoss
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 43, Straight
Costa Mesa CA US (In person & Online)
Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy
mistressrose
BDSM
Female, 25, Bisexual
Peterborough UK (In person)
I have a lot of upset, let me take it out on you pathetic subs, be my toy. 🧸
MFemmeFatale
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 43, Straight
Portsmouth UK (In person & Online)
I am kind but arsh, generous but demanding! I'm a Dominatrix Submit to Your Mistress Kneel Down Kiss my Feet And Serve!
chrispennington
BDSM, Coach & Muse
Trans, 30, Pansexual
San Marcos TX US (In person & Online)
I’m a goddess and feminine focused body-worker who helps people heal from shame and disconnection from their bodies and get in touch with their connection to the divine.
Lisa
BDSM & Content creator
Trans, 55, Bisexual
Cheltenham UK (In person & Online)
Blonde in Cheltenham. Kneel before me and worship my beautiful cock. Couples and ladies welcome .
mistressrozz
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 35, Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US (In person)
I am Mistress Rozz, and I tend the gateway of an amazing experience you are on the threshold of. If you're reading this you probably have submissive tenancies and fantasies. If you are a submissive; no matter your experience level, there are things that you need training in. There is no one-size-fits-all perfect sub. I will shape you thoughtfully, relentlessly and sadistically into what I prefer. When you come and serve me you turn yourself over to me, and throughout the course of our session I will test that. My interests include: Leather and Latex fetish, Bondage, Suspension, Predicament Bondage, Mummification, Corporal Punishment, Obedience Training, Objectification, Spitting, Human Ashtray, Sissification, Role Play, Humiliation, Chastity Training, Sensory Deprivation and Sensory Play, CBT, Ballbusting, Shoe, Stocking and Foot Worship, Trampling.
What is chastity?
When refraining is entertaining.
Chastity typically refers to the state of refraining from sexual activity, often associated with abstinence or self-imposed restrictions. In a BDSM context, chastity can also involve the use of a physical device called a chastity cage or belt, which restricts access to and stimulation of the genitals. This device is often used as part of a power dynamic where one partner (the key holder) controls the other's sexual activity. Chastity play may involve elements of erotic teasing, denial, or delayed gratification.
What makes it hot?
Chastity play captivates through the power dynamics of submission and control. By employing chastity devices, a key holder assumes authority over a partner's sexual pleasure, fostering anticipation and desire through denial. To have your own sexual action controlled by somebody else is thought by some to be one of the most submissive things a person can do. This consensual power exchange intensifies emotional intimacy, as couples navigate shared experiences of arousal, teasing, and abstinence.
While some people engage in extended wear, it's crucial to prioritise hygiene, comfort, and regular check-ins for safety.
No, chastity play can involve various dynamics, including power exchange, erotic teasing, and emotional intimacy beyond simple denial.
Absolutely, women can engage in chastity play, either as the wearer or the key holder, exploring similar power dynamics and dynamics found in male chastity play.
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DO
Ensure proper fit: Choose a chastity device that fits comfortably and securely. Improper sizing can lead to discomfort or injury.
Regular maintenance: Regularly clean and maintain the chastity device to prevent irritation, chafing, or infection. Follow manufacturer guidelines for care.
Establish communication signals: Establish non-verbal communication signals, such as hand gestures or a safe action, for the wearer to indicate any urgent issues or discomfort, especially if speech is restricted.
Gradual introductions: If new to chastity play, start with shorter periods and gradually extend them based on comfort and mutual agreement.
DON'T
Ignore discomfort: If the wearer experiences prolonged discomfort, pain, or signs of distress, promptly remove the chastity device to address any issues.
Rush key holder responsibilities: The key holder should exercise control responsibly and be attentive to the physical and emotional well-being of the wearer.
Skip check-ins: Regularly check in with the wearer to ensure they are physically and emotionally comfortable. Open communication is crucial for a positive experience.
Neglect mental well-being: Recognise that extended periods of chastity may impact the wearer mentally. Be aware of any signs of emotional strain and be prepared to provide support or reassess the situation.
Overlook removal procedures: Know how to safely and quickly remove the chastity device in case of emergency, and communicate these procedures clearly to all involved parties.
