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Chastity
When refraining is entertaining.
MissAria
Erotic audio, BDSM & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Stockholm SE
Sensual, sapiosexual (and horny), luxury dominatrix type. Travel for civi job so catch me in Stockholm, Munich, London
MissA
BDSM, Companion & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Philadelphia PA US
Travel the world that exists inside you 🖤 Sensualist, hedonist, earth mother domme. Specializing in newbies. Imagine sliding into a deep grotto of relaxation, only to adventure into the realms of deep human experience and expressive impact play ... or more. Magic hands. Also seeking submissives/service subs with hopes of finding at least one in-person intimate sub to be enmeshed in my life. Also seeking rope bunnies to help me progress my rigging skills. Will occasionally switch with friends, especially for leather and latex bondage.
MorganneKing
Muse, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
San Francisco CA US
Lifestyle FemDom and FLR. Goddess and Muse for those in service to Divine Feminine Power.
SultanaAisha
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Zürich CH
Lifestyle Femdom Sultana Goddess Aisha Owner of THE HAREM in Zürich Cultivating 24/7 slaves to serve me and my Domme friends Dominatrix and Educatrix Host of FemDom Events with International well known Dommes Goddess of my own belief system THE AISHISM
VioletRollergirl
Content creator & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Trans - Bisexual
New York NY US
Bubbly, subby, kinky, sweet treat. Trans cyberpunk hentai fantasy girlfriend experience with a kinky, submissive twist.
MyloRyn
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Bisexual
Boston MA US
BDSM: Bondage, impact, and degradation. Vanilla: Deep empathy, conversation, and intimacy.
Sonatalicious
BDSM, Coach & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Riga LV
Natalja Sorokina, sex and kink coach, sexeducator, event organizer, safe space facilitator, sex toys connoisseur, holistic BDSM practitioner. Natalja studies sexuality, looking at it not only from the physical, but also from the psychological side. Having graduated from the Moscow Institute of Sexology, she accumulates additional knowledge from various courses and sources, as well as regularly shares it by conducting lectures and master classes, in private consultations for individuals and couples. Natalja is giving lectures at SexyStyle sexual wellness store for 4 years now, in cultural center Lastadija, took part in two Erasmus+ sexeducation projects, was a lecturer in Latvian health ministry organized sexeducation program for schools, speaks at festivals, PRIDE and private events. Have been co-running a BDSM dungeon in Riga for 4 years, organizing workshops, kinky play parties, and conducting individual and couples sessions. Favorite topics: consent culture, communication, kink, BDSM, ENM, developing sensitivity, intimacy and sensuality in relationship with yourself and partners.
GoddessVamp
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Zürich CH
GODDESS VAMP 🥀 Visionary and Co-founder of O A S I S XPERIENCE First of all, I’m a L I F E S T Y L E Mistress. Born to be a Domme
Missmia
Content creator, BDSM & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Vienna AT
Darling just let me know - your knees or mine? Both options (are bent over) on the table. I'm an ice queen (russian) raised under the Bel Paese sun (studied in Italy). Mind (and not only) blowing mix of ice and fire, dominant sadistic goddess or the sweetest cuddly alternative tattoed and pierced girlfriend with a secret pornstar career? Treat yourself with a detour from the daily reality and get lost in my embrace, because you will feel at ease from the moment we meet, till craving for me to never leave. I'm a skillful creator of immersive scenarios and a great partner in crime to get you experiencing what you have on your mind by too long. I'm caring but will be pushing you to please me better than you thought is possible, just to laugh satisfied afterwards. Being a kinky escort makes me particularly apt for newbies as mixing in traditional erotism means an comfortable exoloring of new kinky tastes. Time waits for no man, so make every moment count. You’ve come this far: I want our first contact to be as magical as the last. Normally, my offering is one that is best savoured over longer meetings and the suggestions below reflect this. I’m not adverse to an afternoon quickie but true seduction happens in & out of the sheets.
SarahKirschBitte
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Berlin DE
If the Queen is happy, there is peace in the queendom .
MistressElleQui
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Seattle WA US
I am Mistress Elle, a sensual sadist and meticulous Professional Dominatrix. I meld your fantasies with reality and craft an experience that will stay with you for a lifetime. When I'm not using my canes, whips, and ropes to turn submissives into art, you can find me in the ballet studio or out in the wilderness with my 2 dogs. My long-term goals include opening a commercial dungeon and possessing a personal library akin to the one from Beauty and the Beast. Well equipped. I am not a FS provider, be sure you read the rules on my website before sending an inquiry. Kinks I love: Rope Bondage (technical, contortion, and predicament) Impact Play / Pain Training / Bastinado Whipping CBT Foot / Heel / Boot Worship Leather Worship MedFet Pet Play Feminization / Maid Training Spitting Bird Feeding Chastity /Keyholding Pegging Needle Play Sounding Electric Play Vacuum Beds/Mummification Wax Play
supernovabunny
Content creator, BDSM & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
New York NY US
Serve me and watch yourself transform.
What is chastity?
When refraining is entertaining.
Chastity typically refers to the state of refraining from sexual activity, often associated with abstinence or self-imposed restrictions. In a BDSM context, chastity can also involve the use of a physical device called a chastity cage or belt, which restricts access to and stimulation of the genitals. This device is often used as part of a power dynamic where one partner (the key holder) controls the other's sexual activity. Chastity play may involve elements of erotic teasing, denial, or delayed gratification.
What makes it hot?
Chastity play captivates through the power dynamics of submission and control. By employing chastity devices, a key holder assumes authority over a partner's sexual pleasure, fostering anticipation and desire through denial. To have your own sexual action controlled by somebody else is thought by some to be one of the most submissive things a person can do. This consensual power exchange intensifies emotional intimacy, as couples navigate shared experiences of arousal, teasing, and abstinence.
While some people engage in extended wear, it's crucial to prioritise hygiene, comfort, and regular check-ins for safety.
No, chastity play can involve various dynamics, including power exchange, erotic teasing, and emotional intimacy beyond simple denial.
Absolutely, women can engage in chastity play, either as the wearer or the key holder, exploring similar power dynamics and dynamics found in male chastity play.
DO
Ensure proper fit: Choose a chastity device that fits comfortably and securely. Improper sizing can lead to discomfort or injury.
Regular maintenance: Regularly clean and maintain the chastity device to prevent irritation, chafing, or infection. Follow manufacturer guidelines for care.
Establish communication signals: Establish non-verbal communication signals, such as hand gestures or a safe action, for the wearer to indicate any urgent issues or discomfort, especially if speech is restricted.
Gradual introductions: If new to chastity play, start with shorter periods and gradually extend them based on comfort and mutual agreement.
DON'T
Ignore discomfort: If the wearer experiences prolonged discomfort, pain, or signs of distress, promptly remove the chastity device to address any issues.
Rush key holder responsibilities: The key holder should exercise control responsibly and be attentive to the physical and emotional well-being of the wearer.
Skip check-ins: Regularly check in with the wearer to ensure they are physically and emotionally comfortable. Open communication is crucial for a positive experience.
Neglect mental well-being: Recognise that extended periods of chastity may impact the wearer mentally. Be aware of any signs of emotional strain and be prepared to provide support or reassess the situation.
Overlook removal procedures: Know how to safely and quickly remove the chastity device in case of emergency, and communicate these procedures clearly to all involved parties.
