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Chastity
When refraining is entertaining.
FuckingOriginal
BDSM
Female, 25, Bisexual
Birmingham UK (In person)
Sensual Sadist and Domina. Experience the power of intimacy in my fully equipped cosy play room.
goddexxgrey
BDSM
Gender fluid, 99, Pansexual
New York NY US (In person)
FinDom, Sensual Dom, can be your mommy or daddy Dom.
MsZoe
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 31, Bisexual
Las Vegas NV US (In person & Online)
Retired Pornstar living the 24/7 BDSM lifestyle as a true Switchy witch. Im a Mommy Domme and sensual Goddess. Spoiled slut to my one & only Daddy + Mistress to my good boys and girls.
Cleo08
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 36, Queer
Jakarta ID (In person & Online)
A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤
patdonato
BDSM
Male, 50, Bicurious
Providence RI US (In person)
Love to explore psychological domination. Chastity and denial.
MistressGemmaLi
BDSM
Female, 33, Sapiosexual
Denver CO US (In person)
Femme Fatale Dominatrix | Lifestyle ↔ Pro
LadyVogel
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 23, Sapiosexual
London UK (In person & Online)
GODDESS/FEMME FATALE, Lady Vogel
MissSkylaGold
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 32, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
As soon as I could speak, I could bend those around me to my will. I’m charismatic, charming and disarming - a dangerous combination, and one you will not forget. To me, Domination is an art, as well as my natural disposition. I’ve been practicing Domination for almost a decade, which has given me ample time to turn my innate way of being into a deadly weapon. A weapon I use to bring men to their knees. My words have authority, my touch has purpose and my gaze leaves you pliable for my needs. Building a connection with those I play with is integral, and each session I conduct differs. I curate and create sessions around the skills, experience and preferences of the submissive, this way I get the best out of you. For example, your time in my presence may be spent appreciating the scent of my dainty feet and ensuring that each and every toe is cleaned by your mouth. Or, your desires may lead you to spend hours consuming my waste. I will know what’s best for you, and how best you can please me, and in turn be proud of yourself. I relish in your weakness for me. I will create a space for you to safely explore the corners of your mind, a place where you can have ultimate freedom to be yourself, unapologetically with no judgement. Give yourself over, know yourself better. As well as being a Pro-Domme, I am a well-established fetish photographer, educator, creator of One Night Parties and pleasure professional. I’m a foodie, lover of high end lingerie and all-round indulgence. I enjoy social dates and shopping trips, I’m very good at both.
QueenIvy
BDSM
Female, 24, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
I know you can't help getting hard knowing my husband gets to enjoy the lingerie I bought with your money 😏 😘
DiscoMama
BDSM
Female, 56, Bisexual
Palma ES (In person)
I am a playful, big hearted and open minded experienced kinkster with strong switch energy.
MistressAsherah
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 31, Queer
Wilmington NC US (In person & Online)
~Let me make art from your Surrender~ 🌷Sensual ProDomme, Repro Health Coach, Eros Embodiment Facilitator, Writer🌷
Lianaunicorn
Sugar baby
Trans, 26, Pansexual
Reading UK (In person)
Brining “Pillow Princess” a whole new meaning
What is chastity?
When refraining is entertaining.
Chastity typically refers to the state of refraining from sexual activity, often associated with abstinence or self-imposed restrictions. In a BDSM context, chastity can also involve the use of a physical device called a chastity cage or belt, which restricts access to and stimulation of the genitals. This device is often used as part of a power dynamic where one partner (the key holder) controls the other's sexual activity. Chastity play may involve elements of erotic teasing, denial, or delayed gratification.
What makes it hot?
Chastity play captivates through the power dynamics of submission and control. By employing chastity devices, a key holder assumes authority over a partner's sexual pleasure, fostering anticipation and desire through denial. To have your own sexual action controlled by somebody else is thought by some to be one of the most submissive things a person can do. This consensual power exchange intensifies emotional intimacy, as couples navigate shared experiences of arousal, teasing, and abstinence.
While some people engage in extended wear, it's crucial to prioritise hygiene, comfort, and regular check-ins for safety.
No, chastity play can involve various dynamics, including power exchange, erotic teasing, and emotional intimacy beyond simple denial.
Absolutely, women can engage in chastity play, either as the wearer or the key holder, exploring similar power dynamics and dynamics found in male chastity play.
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DO
Ensure proper fit: Choose a chastity device that fits comfortably and securely. Improper sizing can lead to discomfort or injury.
Regular maintenance: Regularly clean and maintain the chastity device to prevent irritation, chafing, or infection. Follow manufacturer guidelines for care.
Establish communication signals: Establish non-verbal communication signals, such as hand gestures or a safe action, for the wearer to indicate any urgent issues or discomfort, especially if speech is restricted.
Gradual introductions: If new to chastity play, start with shorter periods and gradually extend them based on comfort and mutual agreement.
DON'T
Ignore discomfort: If the wearer experiences prolonged discomfort, pain, or signs of distress, promptly remove the chastity device to address any issues.
Rush key holder responsibilities: The key holder should exercise control responsibly and be attentive to the physical and emotional well-being of the wearer.
Skip check-ins: Regularly check in with the wearer to ensure they are physically and emotionally comfortable. Open communication is crucial for a positive experience.
Neglect mental well-being: Recognise that extended periods of chastity may impact the wearer mentally. Be aware of any signs of emotional strain and be prepared to provide support or reassess the situation.
Overlook removal procedures: Know how to safely and quickly remove the chastity device in case of emergency, and communicate these procedures clearly to all involved parties.
