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Chastity

When refraining is entertaining.

ServeQueenVee Chastity Santa Clara
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ServeQueenVee

Content creator & BDSM

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Queer

Santa Clara CA US

Mean Mommy. Toxic Girlfriend. Supreme Cult Leader.

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galavanting Chastity Sydney
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galavanting

BDSM

Services are  In person

Female - Queer

Sydney AU

I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.

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adinstone

BDSM

Services are  In person

Male - Straight

Berlin DE

Let’s see and find out together what direction were going

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goddexxgrey Chastity New York
3

goddexxgrey

BDSM

Services are  In person

Gender fluid - Pansexual

New York NY US

FinDom, Sensual Dom, can be your mommy or daddy Dom.

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MsZoe

Content creator & BDSM

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Bisexual

Las Vegas NV US

Retired Pornstar living the 24/7 BDSM lifestyle as a true Switchy witch. Im a Mommy Domme and sensual Goddess. Spoiled slut to my one & only Daddy + Mistress to my good boys and girls.

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Cleo08

Content creator & BDSM

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Queer

Jakarta ID

A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤

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patdonato

BDSM

Services are  In person

Male - Bicurious

Providence RI US

Love to explore psychological domination. Chastity and denial.

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DiscoMama Chastity Palma
5

DiscoMama

BDSM

Services are  In person

Female - Bisexual

Palma ES

I am a playful, big hearted and open minded experienced kinkster with strong switch energy.

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MistressAsherah Chastity Wilmington
5

MistressAsherah

Content creator & BDSM

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Queer

Wilmington NC US

~Let me make art from your Surrender~ 🌷Sensual ProDomme, Repro Health Coach, Eros Embodiment Facilitator, Writer🌷

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Bloody_Marria91

BDSM

Services are  In person

Female - Sapiosexual

Bucharest RO

Huge fan of art (photography, classical music, theatre, movies, sculpture and paintings). Big animal lover. I'm a citizen of the world therefore i don't believe in labels (like straight/gay, race, political inclination, religion...they make us different by choice not by DNA). I'm an admirer and a wild nature addict. I'm not tamable, i'm not a prize, i love challenges. I'm excited by bright minds not by muscles. Cameleonic, dual, tough but also sensitive, empathic, serious but also with a developed sense of humor, calm, sincerely brutal but also an expert liar. The sea and the sky are my antidepressants. Photo is a passion. Art is a drug. Music is food for my soul.

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What is chastity?

What is chastity?

When refraining is entertaining.

Chastity typically refers to the state of refraining from sexual activity, often associated with abstinence or self-imposed restrictions. In a BDSM context, chastity can also involve the use of a physical device called a chastity cage or belt, which restricts access to and stimulation of the genitals. This device is often used as part of a power dynamic where one partner (the key holder) controls the other's sexual activity. Chastity play may involve elements of erotic teasing, denial, or delayed gratification. 

What makes it hot?

Chastity play captivates through the power dynamics of submission and control. By employing chastity devices, a key holder assumes authority over a partner's sexual pleasure, fostering anticipation and desire through denial. To have your own sexual action controlled by somebody else is thought by some to be one of the most submissive things a person can do. This consensual power exchange intensifies emotional intimacy, as couples navigate shared experiences of arousal, teasing, and abstinence.

While some people engage in extended wear, it's crucial to prioritise hygiene, comfort, and regular check-ins for safety.

No, chastity play can involve various dynamics, including power exchange, erotic teasing, and emotional intimacy beyond simple denial.

Absolutely, women can engage in chastity play, either as the wearer or the key holder, exploring similar power dynamics and dynamics found in male chastity play.

DO

Ensure proper fit: Choose a chastity device that fits comfortably and securely. Improper sizing can lead to discomfort or injury.

Regular maintenance: Regularly clean and maintain the chastity device to prevent irritation, chafing, or infection. Follow manufacturer guidelines for care.

Establish communication signals: Establish non-verbal communication signals, such as hand gestures or a safe action, for the wearer to indicate any urgent issues or discomfort, especially if speech is restricted.

Gradual introductions: If new to chastity play, start with shorter periods and gradually extend them based on comfort and mutual agreement.

DON'T

Ignore discomfort: If the wearer experiences prolonged discomfort, pain, or signs of distress, promptly remove the chastity device to address any issues.

Rush key holder responsibilities: The key holder should exercise control responsibly and be attentive to the physical and emotional well-being of the wearer.

Skip check-ins: Regularly check in with the wearer to ensure they are physically and emotionally comfortable. Open communication is crucial for a positive experience.

Neglect mental well-being: Recognise that extended periods of chastity may impact the wearer mentally. Be aware of any signs of emotional strain and be prepared to provide support or reassess the situation.

Overlook removal procedures: Know how to safely and quickly remove the chastity device in case of emergency, and communicate these procedures clearly to all involved parties.

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