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Pauline
Artist, Retreat & Workshop
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person
Whatever sex or genderOur hearts know no border
Moku
Coach, Massage & Therapist
Male, Straight, Hilo HI US
In person
Healing Handz Massage
mirandahouston
Content creator, Educator & Therapist
Female, Pansexual, Winnipeg MB CA
In person & Online
Hi, I’m Miranda, a somatic sex therapist with over seven years of experience helping women reconnect with their bodies, heal emotional wounds, and rediscover pleasure. My journey began as a massage therapist, where I specialized in fascial and structural work. It was during this time that I truly saw how deeply our bodies store emotions and how physical tension often reflects emotional blockages. Over time, I transitioned into somatic sex therapy, with a focus on how we carry emotions in the body and how these stored feelings can block our ability to experience pleasure, self-awareness, and confidence. I also specialize in nervous system regulation, guiding clients in managing stress and feeling more grounded within their bodies. How I Can Help You Explore Your Sensuality Sensuality is all about feeling fully connected to your body, allowing yourself to experience deeper pleasure, joy, and intimacy. Life can sometimes pull us away from this part of ourselves due to stress, trauma, or societal pressure, but the beautiful truth is that it’s possible to reconnect and rediscover this powerful sense of embodiment. In our work together, I’ll gently guide you through tools and techniques designed to help you safely explore and expand your sensuality. Together, we’ll tap into what feels empowering and exciting for you. Here’s how: Embodiment Practices: I’ll help you slow down and become more aware of your body’s sensations, teaching you how to truly feel through practices like breathwork, mindful movement, or focused touch. Self-Pleasure Techniques: We’ll approach self-pleasure as a healing tool, free from judgment. I’ll help you find the right rhythms, techniques, and pressure points that feel good, making these experiences more meaningful and enjoyable. Breathwork: Breath is one of the most powerful tools for connecting with your sensuality. I’ll show you how to use breathing techniques to release tension, calm your nervous system, and deepen your connection to pleasure. Movement & Touch: By guiding you through simple yet powerful movements, we’ll release trapped emotions and open up pathways to more organic, flowing sensual expression. Using the Right Products: I’ll introduce you to products like oils, toys, or relaxation tools that can enhance your sensual journey, nurturing and supporting the connection you’re rebuilding with your body. Why Work With Me? If you feel disconnected from your body and your sensual self—whether you’ve never experienced an orgasm, are dealing with numbness, or you’re seeking to rebuild confidence—I am here to help. With a gentle, trauma-informed approach, I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for you to explore and expand your sensuality, guiding you toward reclaiming the pleasure that is your birthright. As a practitioner, I’m also on my own journey of learning and growth, which means I’ll be continuously bringing in new tools, insights, and techniques to support your healing. I believe deeply in the wisdom of Buddha’s teaching that we are always students, learning and evolving together. This philosophy keeps my work fresh, adaptable, and open to the latest insights that can further your personal growth. Let’s Work Together! If you’re ready to reconnect with your body, reclaim your sensuality, and rediscover the pleasure you deserve, I’d love to work with you. Together, we can explore the depths of your body and mind in a way that feels safe, empowering, and truly transformative.
autumnlefay
Companion, Massage & Muse
Female, Pansexual, Oakland CA US
From $250 - In person & Online
I want to know you. Your desires, wishes, and your body. Pleasure has infinite expressions: it can be hot, it can be deep, or just really fun. My photos will tell you part of the story: not an inch over 5 feet, I am petite, whimsical, and like to dress up. The sexy side is inherently a part of me and is not a show. I am a performance art pole dancer and crave expressing my raw sensuality through movement and creativity. A mix of familiar sweetness and tantalizing edginess, I have a handful of elegant body piercings and tasteful tattoos though my long, honey-colored hair and love of all things feminine, soft, and lacy are just as much of my aesthetic. There is another side to me, too: with a postgraduate degree from a Southern Ivy, my mind is as dynamic as my body. I am trained in holistic health and sacred intimacy and I see people for who they are as entire beings: the parts that are easy to love and the parts that like to stay in the shadows. I welcome explorations around all things body and soul and am delighted to be your guide in giving and receiving pleasure. I am sweet, playful, and take pride in my unique attunement skills. The service that I offer is my genuine presence. When you are with me, you are getting the real me-my own desires, curiosities, and quirks. I want to get the real you, too. I show up as my full self and I reserve my time for other curious, kind souls who appreciate what an authentic connection feels like. My innate curiosity has led me to have many adventures in the realm of self discovery and pleasure, blessing me with the ability to offer a variety of experiences that I truly enjoy sharing with you. Some energies and practices we can explore during our time together: *Genuine, affectionate girlfriend experience *FBSM and bodywork *Tantra & sacred sexuality, including breathwork, eyegazing, and full body orgasm *Role play *Sensual domination *Erotic dance and movement, including pole dance performance and sensual wrestling (Oakland incall only) *Erotic skill building And so much more... Please note: I largely abstain from substances, including alcohol. I kindly ask that you are mindful of your use during our time together so we can both be fully present with each other. Please disclose any usage. Couples & moresomes: as a proud bisexual woman, I would love to help you explore new (or familiar!) facets of your relationship. I am honored to be your special guest, no matter how new or experienced you are with group dynamics. Women & AFAB folks: if you are looking for a sensual femme to connect with, look no further! Queer curious? I am a safe and attuned companion to explore with at your own pace. I am most attracted to intuitive chemistry-I connect with a wide range of body types, genders, and abilities. I will only respond to messages with the following information: -Which of my offerings you're interested in -Your legal name, phone number, and email -A link to your professional LinkedIn profile or company/academic website with a photo and bio
Handsyalien
Dancer, Kinkster & Massage
Female, Queer, Oakland CA US
From $300 - In person & Online
Let's get weird
littledove
Companion, Sugar baby & Therapist
Female, Straight, Milford CT US
From $100 - In person & Online
Mommy Knows Best
ElixaMoon
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Dallas TX US
In person & Online
How big is your Eros, wanna find out? ✨
nikitafernandes
Kinkster, Educator & Therapist
Female, Queer, New York NY US
Online
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I graduated with my Master’s in Counseling in Mental Health and Wellness and a dual degree in LGBT Health, Education, and Social Services from New York University. I also hold a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with a background in Women and Gender Studies from George Mason University. I identify as a queer South Asian immigrant woman. I’m also neurodivergent and non-monogamous. Aside from being a therapist, I have volunteered as a crisis counselor for the Trevor Project, worked as a graduate assistant for the New York University LGBTQ+ Center, and helped in the planning of social justice conferences. I approach therapy with the intention to understand and connect with my clients as fellow humans. My own journey as a queer South Asian neurodivergent woman, along with the experiences of those close to me, deeply shape my approach. Building a genuine relationship with my clients is my top priority, as I believe it is the biggest predictor of therapeutic success. As a person of color, I actively challenge oppressive structures that have long been dominated by Western white culture. Jiddu Krishnamurti said that it is no measure of health to be adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and I do not see therapy as a way to numb the pain that is caused by systemic oppression but rather a way to empower clients to have compassion for themselves.
carol
Kinkster, Massage & Therapist
Female, Straight, Neptune Beach FL US
From $110 - In person & Online
Come closer…Let’s move your Blocks to Bliss!
marinmarie
Coach, Educator & Massage
Non Binary, Queer, Berlin DE
In person & Online
I am a transmasculine multitasking artist and sex nerd. I have been working on the topic of sexuality for a decade, through body, desire, sexual orientation and gender identity, with a queer feminist and intersectional approach. I do art and healing practices about sexuality, norms and taboos. As a witch, I work with love. I like to accompany people in their intimacy and sexual empowerment. I work as a sex worker and sacred intimate for women&queers, as well as a sexological bodyworker, intimacy coach, and a facilitator for sex-positive retreats and workshops.
milaminx
Content creator, Kinkster & Companion
Female, Queer, Miami Beach FL US
From $10 - In person & Online
The best things come in small packages 😘
Tara
Coach, Massage & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person
My vision is that everyone can show up empowered and authentic in their erotic expression , therefore in life itself.
What is couples?
3 is a magic number.
'Couples' on a Sensuali profile typically means that the Sensualist also offers their services to couples. Whether they're a sex therapist, a sugar baby or a BDSM dominatrix, having the couples tag on their profile gives the green light that they are comfortable working with couples.
What makes it hot?
Being in a couple means sharing a lot of intimacy with one other person which others don't get to really fully see or understand. This private bubble can make it hard when you're looking for a third opinion or you're stuck in an unhealthy cycle together. Bringing a third person into your intricate dynamic and sharing your intimate thoughts or behaviour with them can be a very constructive and beneficial move.
Absolutely, sex therapists are trained to address a wide range of sexual concerns, and discussing specific issues can contribute to improving intimacy and overall relationship satisfaction.
Yes, respecting the boundaries, consent, and dignity of the sex worker is crucial. Be aware of ethical considerations, and prioritise open communication to ensure a positive experience for all parties involved.
Research professionals, read reviews, and consider recommendations. Look for individuals with relevant credentials for sex therapy or adhere to safe and consensual practices for sex work.
Polyamorous relationship coach: meet Open Relating
Friday 15 September 2023
Sensuali had a conversation with Open Relating, aka, Roy Graff, the polyamorous relationship coach. We spoke about his goal to help people relate to one another out of love rather than fear, the male struggle to ask for physical affection from a parter, and the socialisation that has made society terrified of polyamory.
BDSM coaching: meet Sub in the City
Friday 8 September 2023
We sat down with Sarah, aka Sub in the City, who offers bdsm coaching sessions online and in person. We spoke about bdsm as a healing practice, the importance of introspection and communication in bdsm and the need for more mainstream spaces that openly encourage bdsm education.
Can a throuple truly thrive?
Monday 26 June 2023
By now everyone has heard the phrase 'throuple'. But is the rage real? Are people just bored of monogamy, or is there more beauty behind the trend? Let's decode the dynamics of throuples and threesomes.
Hotwife unleashed, why cheat when you can heat?
Sunday 18 June 2023
Which phrase sounds more appealing: 'cheater' or 'hotwife'? Welcome to the 21st century, where wifeys can sleep with other men and everyone involved is cushty. Here's everything you need to know about hotwifing.
Interview with a Gender-Nonconforming Couple
Thursday 24 November 2022
This week I sat down with one of my favorite couples, Bee and Graham, to talk about gender identity and what it's like being in a gender non-conforming relationship.
My Experience at Les Chandelles, the Infamous Paris Swingers Club
Tuesday 25 October 2022
Looking back at my first ever sugar baby holiday- an escapade to Paris and a night at its most famous sex club, Les Chandelles.
DO
Communicate openly: Communicate openly and honestly with each other about your desires, expectations, and boundaries. Discuss your motivations for seeking the services and ensure you're both on the same page.
Prioritise consent: Ensure that all activities and engagements are consensual for everyone involved. Clearly communicate boundaries with the professional and each other to create a respectful and enjoyable experience.
Research and respect: Research the professional's expertise, reputation, and any reviews or testimonials. Respect their rules and guidelines, whether it's a sex therapist providing counselling, a dominatrix guiding a BDSM session, or an escort providing companionship.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's services or personal boundaries. Clearly discuss expectations, limits, and any specific requests in advance to prevent misunderstandings.
Disregard safety: Prioritise safety in all aspects. If engaging in physical activities, ensure hygiene, use protection as necessary, and follow any safety guidelines provided by the professional. This is essential for the well-being of everyone involved.
Neglect aftercare: After engaging with a professional, take time for aftercare as needed. This may involve emotional support, communication between partners, or self-care. Acknowledge any emotional or physical aspects of the experience and address them respectfully.
