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Tara
Coach, Massage & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person
My vision is that everyone can show up empowered and authentic in their erotic expression , therefore in life itself.
jasonking
Educator, Retreat & Workshop
Male, Queer, Berlin DE
In person
I am a gay & queer tantra teacher, coach and sacred sexuality facilitator. I open spaces for GBTQ+ men and masc-identified folks to explore their eroticism, intimacy, spirituality, and more. I support individuals to meet themselves on deep levels, connect with their spirit, and relate to other men* with consciousness, intentionality, and love. Through tantra and sacred sexuality, I invite queer men into deep personal transformation processes, radically opening to new experiences of sex, pleasure, and relationships. My intention is to create a space where men can integrate their spirituality and sexuality, find a greater sense of wholeness, and discover a community of fellow queer travelers. Embodied Eros is a space for you to embrace your freedom, be yourself, and meet other men in authenticity. I'm certified in Sexological Bodywork, and as a Tantra Teacher & Coach through Tantra4GayMen in the UK. I run group workshops and retreats throughout Europe and North America.
laylarain
Photographer, Sugar baby & Massage
Female, Straight, Las Vegas NV US
Online
Real sexy , Sweet and straight to it I’m ready to talk
destingerek
Artist, Coach & Workshop
Male, Demisexual, San Diego CA US
In person & Online
Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, & personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American Board of Sexology, he’s the author of the bestselling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, & The One She Craves”. His innovative lens is the result of more than 20yrs of academic rigor & direct study - including 7 formative years traveling the world living & teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. Destin is host of the podcast: Diving Deep w/Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution & director of the award winning short film "Seductive Devotion". Through his flagship program, Sexual Self-Mastery, he’s trained over 2000 men to master their sexual energy & become attuned, evolved lovers. Destin’s taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation & integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, & themselves
JanelleMarie
BDSM, Companion & Educator
Female, Queer, Denver CO US
In person
Radiant Goddess, Tantra Companion, Pro-domme
autumnlefay
Companion, Massage & Muse
Female, Pansexual, Oakland CA US
In person & Online
I want to know you. Your desires, wishes, and your body. Pleasure has infinite expressions: it can be hot, it can be deep, or just really fun. My photos will tell you part of the story: not an inch over 5 feet, I am petite, whimsical, and like to dress up. The sexy side is inherently a part of me and is not a show. I am a performance art pole dancer and crave expressing my raw sensuality through movement and creativity. A mix of familiar sweetness and tantalizing edginess, I have a handful of elegant body piercings and tasteful tattoos though my long, honey-colored hair and love of all things feminine, soft, and lacy are just as much of my aesthetic. There is another side to me, too: with a postgraduate degree from a Southern Ivy, my mind is as dynamic as my body. I am trained in holistic health and sacred intimacy and I see people for who they are as entire beings: the parts that are easy to love and the parts that like to stay in the shadows. I welcome explorations around all things body and soul and am delighted to be your guide in giving and receiving pleasure. I am sweet, playful, and take pride in my unique attunement skills. The service that I offer is my genuine presence. When you are with me, you are getting the real me-my own desires, curiosities, and quirks. I want to get the real you, too. I show up as my full self and I reserve my time for other curious, kind souls who appreciate what an authentic connection feels like. My innate curiosity has led me to have many adventures in the realm of self discovery and pleasure, blessing me with the ability to offer a variety of experiences that I truly enjoy sharing with you. Some energies and practices we can explore during our time together: *Genuine, affectionate girlfriend experience *FBSM and bodywork *Tantra & sacred sexuality, including breathwork, eyegazing, and full body orgasm *Role play *Sensual domination *Erotic dance and movement, including pole dance performance and sensual wrestling (Oakland incall only) *Erotic skill building And so much more... Please note: I largely abstain from substances, including alcohol. I kindly ask that you are mindful of your use during our time together so we can both be fully present with each other. Please disclose any usage. Couples & moresomes: as a proud bisexual woman, I would love to help you explore new (or familiar!) facets of your relationship. I am honored to be your special guest, no matter how new or experienced you are with group dynamics. Women & AFAB folks: if you are looking for a sensual femme to connect with, look no further! Queer curious? I am a safe and attuned companion to explore with at your own pace. I am most attracted to intuitive chemistry-I connect with a wide range of body types, genders, and abilities. I will only respond to messages with the following information: -Which of my offerings you're interested in -Your legal name, phone number, and email -A link to your professional LinkedIn profile or company/academic website with a photo and bio
nikitafernandes
Educator, Kinkster & Therapist
Female, Queer, New York NY US
Online
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I graduated with my Master’s in Counseling in Mental Health and Wellness and a dual degree in LGBT Health, Education, and Social Services from New York University. I also hold a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with a background in Women and Gender Studies from George Mason University. I identify as a queer South Asian immigrant woman. I’m also neurodivergent and non-monogamous. Aside from being a therapist, I have volunteered as a crisis counselor for the Trevor Project, worked as a graduate assistant for the New York University LGBTQ+ Center, and helped in the planning of social justice conferences. I approach therapy with the intention to understand and connect with my clients as fellow humans. My own journey as a queer South Asian neurodivergent woman, along with the experiences of those close to me, deeply shape my approach. Building a genuine relationship with my clients is my top priority, as I believe it is the biggest predictor of therapeutic success. As a person of color, I actively challenge oppressive structures that have long been dominated by Western white culture. Jiddu Krishnamurti said that it is no measure of health to be adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and I do not see therapy as a way to numb the pain that is caused by systemic oppression but rather a way to empower clients to have compassion for themselves.
Learning2025
Writer
Male, Straight, San Diego CA US
In person & Online
What can we learn from each other today?
mistresscara
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Female, Pansexual, Denver CO US
In person & Online
Love breaking in newbies and first timers with a gentle but firm hand.
Savannah
Content creator & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Amsterdam NL
In person & Online
Let me raise your standards in-between the sheets.
ElixaMoon
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Bisexual, Dallas TX US
In person & Online
How big is your Eros, wanna find out? ✨
Fixated0_ral
Content creator, BDSM & Educator
Non Binary, Pansexual, El Paso TX US
In person & Online
I want to provide an open casual space for adults to admit they don’t know anything about sex except how to stick it in! I want to freely speak and educate them on the various way to fuck and be fucked. How to discover themselves with others. How to battle their internalized slut shame. How to be confident in their sensuality. I’m also wanting to meet others and possibly navigate a D/s dynamic. I Dominant regularly but as a switch my submissive side is often not cared for as I wish it was. So hopefully that’s something can also navigate here.
What is couples?
3 is a magic number.
'Couples' on a Sensuali profile typically means that the Sensualist also offers their services to couples. Whether they're a sex therapist, a sugar baby or a BDSM dominatrix, having the couples tag on their profile gives the green light that they are comfortable working with couples.
What makes it hot?
Being in a couple means sharing a lot of intimacy with one other person which others don't get to really fully see or understand. This private bubble can make it hard when you're looking for a third opinion or you're stuck in an unhealthy cycle together. Bringing a third person into your intricate dynamic and sharing your intimate thoughts or behaviour with them can be a very constructive and beneficial move.
Absolutely, sex therapists are trained to address a wide range of sexual concerns, and discussing specific issues can contribute to improving intimacy and overall relationship satisfaction.
Yes, respecting the boundaries, consent, and dignity of the sex worker is crucial. Be aware of ethical considerations, and prioritise open communication to ensure a positive experience for all parties involved.
Research professionals, read reviews, and consider recommendations. Look for individuals with relevant credentials for sex therapy or adhere to safe and consensual practices for sex work.
When Desires Don’t Align
Wednesday 11 December 2024
When desires don't align heres how to explore new sexual experiences together respectfully while still staying true to yourself.
Debunking Monogamyths: Unlearning Traditional Relationship Norms
Wednesday 4 December 2024
The monogamyths have been busted. Now the question that remains is: how exactly do we make non-monogamy work?
Understanding the Roots of Jealousy: A Self-Reflection Guide
Wednesday 4 December 2024
Jealousy often gets a bad rap, but it's a completely natural emotion that just needs a little more time to navigate. Here are three ways to start exploring it!
Long-term loving: A sex coach’s playbook for committed couples
Monday 2 December 2024
Sex coach and TEDx Talk speaker, Ruth Ramsay's starter pack for long-term couples looking to explore new sexual experiences together.
Surprising Ways Polyamory Has Changed My Life
Saturday 23 November 2024
While polyamory is still often viewed as socially unacceptable, it has brought me unexpected growth. Here are the biggest way polyamory has changed my life.
Polyamorous relationship coach: meet Open Relating
Friday 15 September 2023
Sensuali had a conversation with Open Relating, aka, Roy Graff, the polyamorous relationship coach. We spoke about his goal to help people relate to one another out of love rather than fear, the male struggle to ask for physical affection from a parter, and the socialisation that has made society terrified of polyamory.
BDSM coaching: meet Sub in the City
Friday 8 September 2023
We sat down with Sarah, aka Sub in the City, who offers bdsm coaching sessions online and in person. We spoke about bdsm as a healing practice, the importance of introspection and communication in bdsm and the need for more mainstream spaces that openly encourage bdsm education.
Can a throuple truly thrive?
Monday 26 June 2023
By now everyone has heard the phrase 'throuple'. But is the rage real? Are people just bored of monogamy, or is there more beauty behind the trend? Let's decode the dynamics of throuples and threesomes.
Hotwife unleashed, why cheat when you can heat?
Sunday 18 June 2023
Which phrase sounds more appealing: 'cheater' or 'hotwife'? Welcome to the 21st century, where wifeys can sleep with other men and everyone involved is cushty. Here's everything you need to know about hotwifing.
Interview with a Gender-Nonconforming Couple
Thursday 24 November 2022
This week I sat down with one of my favorite couples, Bee and Graham, to talk about gender identity and what it's like being in a gender non-conforming relationship.
DO
Communicate openly: Communicate openly and honestly with each other about your desires, expectations, and boundaries. Discuss your motivations for seeking the services and ensure you're both on the same page.
Prioritise consent: Ensure that all activities and engagements are consensual for everyone involved. Clearly communicate boundaries with the professional and each other to create a respectful and enjoyable experience.
Research and respect: Research the professional's expertise, reputation, and any reviews or testimonials. Respect their rules and guidelines, whether it's a sex therapist providing counselling, a dominatrix guiding a BDSM session, or an escort providing companionship.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's services or personal boundaries. Clearly discuss expectations, limits, and any specific requests in advance to prevent misunderstandings.
Disregard safety: Prioritise safety in all aspects. If engaging in physical activities, ensure hygiene, use protection as necessary, and follow any safety guidelines provided by the professional. This is essential for the well-being of everyone involved.
Neglect aftercare: After engaging with a professional, take time for aftercare as needed. This may involve emotional support, communication between partners, or self-care. Acknowledge any emotional or physical aspects of the experience and address them respectfully.
