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nadirah_khalisa
Photographer, BDSM & Companion
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
From €400 - In person
Professional siren 🐍
GoddessM
BDSM & Muse
Female, Straight, New York NY US
In person & Online
Sensually sadistic Deity👑Dominatrix/Pro&Lifestyle
handsoferos
BDSM & Content creator
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person & Online
As a Hypno-Shibari Artist and Soft Dom, I weave the art of Shibari with the depth of hypnosis to create transformative, kinky and healing experiences. I spend my time exploring the delicate balance of power, impact and tenderness, always seeking new ways to connect deeply with others. Friends describe me as an "iron glove in a velvet glove"—firm yet tender. Passionate about unlocking inner potential and fostering self-discovery, I am on a journey of constant learning and profound connection.
vitavolition
Content creator, BDSM & Writer
Female, Queer, Amsterdam NL
From €125 - In person & Online
Your pain is my pleasure 😈⛓️🖤
RedSonia
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
From £400 - In person & Online
Mature and experienced English Dominatrix with a Lens
sandrakinkr
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Female, Straight, Dallas TX US
From £200 - In person & Online
Let me take you deep into the darkest part of the lifestyle
Chatouille
BDSM, Retreat & Workshop
Female, Demisexual, Asheville NC US
From $80 - In person
Transformative FemDom disciplinarian. Headmistress & curator of Lair Derriere, a private FemDom society.
MissA
BDSM, Companion & Muse
Female, Bisexual, Philadelphia PA US
From $1 - In person & Online
Travel the world that exists inside you 🖤 Sensualist, hedonist, earth mother domme. Specializing in newbies. Imagine sliding into a deep grotto of relaxation, only to adventure into the realms of deep human experience and expressive impact play ... or more. Magic hands. Also seeking submissives/service subs with hopes of finding at least one in-person intimate sub to be enmeshed in my life. Also seeking rope bunnies to help me progress my rigging skills. Will occasionally switch with friends, especially for leather and latex bondage.
thefunnydom
Content creator & BDSM
Male, Straight, Melbourne AU
In person & Online
A pro Daddy Dominant driven to share and explore both sadism and care, and to teach and train those in need or curious
papipistacchio
BDSM
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person
Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
venuscuffs
BDSM, Coach & Therapist
Female, Pansexual, New York NY US
From $500 - In person & Online
What is your dirty confession?
moirdiv
Artist, BDSM & Muse
Gender fluid, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
My aim, your surrender
What is domination?
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.
What makes it hot?
To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.
No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.
Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.
No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Storytime: My Hypno Shibari experience with Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
I recently had the chance to do a private session with the wonderful Hypno Shibari artist, Emmanuel aka Hands of Eros. Here's everything that happened.
Introducing LA & NYC Dominatrix: Mistress Rozz
Thursday 3 October 2024
'I get to initiate degrees of ego death.' Meet the epic Mistress Rozz, LA and NYC-based Domme who also travels internationally.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Sophia Domina
Tuesday 17 September 2024
'I've learned that though my specific kinks may change, I am kinky as a sexual orientation.' Meet Sophia Domina, the LA-based Dominatrix, writer, director and producer.
Introducing Philadelphia Dominatrix: Mistress Hellga
Sunday 15 September 2024
From the religious connotations of blood play, to the innate human craving for fear; this was our thrilling chat with the enchanting Philadelphia-based Dominatrix, Mistress Hellga.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Miss Mae Ling
Sunday 8 September 2024
'Her playfully sweet side makes things all the more twisted.' We chatted with the adorable Mae Ling, the Domme next door you've been having dreams (or nightmares) about.
Introducing Berlin-based Dominatrix: Mistress Beate
Sunday 18 August 2024
Despite the whips and chains, Domination is anything but skin deep. That's especially true for Mistress Beate, the Berlin-based psychological Dominatrix.
Meet international Dominatrix, Mistress Gemma Li
Friday 12 July 2024
Meet the femme fatale you've always dreamed of. We chatted to international Dominatrix Gemma Li, who is taking over the world one whip at a time.
In conversation with the queen of kink: Dominatrix Eva Oh
Friday 3 May 2024
All hail the queen of kink. Sensuali had the honour of chatting to the world famous Dominatrix, Eva Oh about her trailblazing journey so far as a BDSM icon.
DO
Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.
Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.
Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.
DON'T
Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.
Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.
Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.
