Explore sensualists
Domination
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
HentaiMistressKoto
BDSM, Photographer & Sugar baby
Female, Sapiosexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
I could never get bored of playing Hentai, Shibari, and BDSM. It's my life.
daddypersephone
Writer, BDSM & Coach
Non Binary, Demisexual, New York NY US
In person & Online
Obedience is earned. Tribute is expected. Submit and be shaped, or seek expert advice about kink, polyamory/ENM, etc.
scarlettseverin
Muse, BDSM & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Your Sensual, Dominant Muse
MirabaiBerlin
BDSM, Massage & Dancer
Female, Bisexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Tantric and Kinky
Relectrix
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Demisexual, Philadelphia PA US
In person & Online
A sensual Domme with a mean streak
evaoh
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Pansexual, Zürich CH
In person & Online
Award-winning Dominatrix and Mentor
MistressGemmaLi
BDSM
Female, Sapiosexual, Denver CO US
In person
Femme Fatale Dominatrix | Lifestyle ↔ Pro
jamiejoy
BDSM, Educator & Workshop
Trans, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Queer & Trans sex and kink educator spreading joy and pleasure through community orgynizing
intentionalkink
Content creator & BDSM
Non Binary, Bisexual, Austin TX US
In person & Online
Be the kink you want to see in the world.
saararei
Artist, BDSM & Educator
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Saara Rei is a workshop facilitator and performance artist with a background in music, dance, education, and public speaking. Saara's work generally centers around the exploration of suffering, both physical and emotional. Through their kink practice, Saara has come to understand that suffering comes from the comparison of what has been or could be to the present moment. And with that, Saara enjoys teaching about how to use suffering as a path to presence and enjoyment in life. Having a Ph.D. in mathematics, Saara’s academic experience adds an intellectual flair to complement their performative approach to bodywork. Playfulness and humor make up a big chunk of Saara's personality and approach to life, giving their workshops a very exploitative and light atmosphere, even while approaching some of the heaviest of topics.
mistressseren
BDSM, Coach & Educator
Female, Sapiosexual, New York NY US
In person
For the Discerning and Depraved
CamilleakaVixen
BDSM, Massage & Workshop
Female, Bisexual, Singapore SG
In person
Invitation to receive, be adored and worshipped through a tantric massage or a sensual yet firm domination session 😈✨
What is domination?
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.
What makes it hot?
To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.
No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.
Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.
No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.
Meet international lifestyle Dominatrix: Thea X
Monday 27 January 2025
'It’s not just my work, it’s my community. I found so much love and joy. So much connection. My heart expanded.' Meet international lifestyle dominatrix, Thea X.
Meet conscious kink facilitator & Dominatrix: Helina
Friday 22 November 2024
Must be the season of the witch? This is Helina, conscious kink facilitator, Dominatrix, Reiki Witch and more, who uses various spiritual and sensual practices to help others step into their wholeness.
Mommy Knows Best: a Mommy-Domme BDSM tale
Monday 28 October 2024
'Bend over Mommy’s knees. It is time I teach you a lesson.' Berlin/Amsterdam-based Vita Volition takes the stage this week with a short BDSM story: 'Mommy Knows Best'.
Storytime: My Hypno Shibari experience with Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
I recently had the chance to do a private session with the wonderful Hypno Shibari artist, Emmanuel aka Hands of Eros. Here's everything that happened.
Introducing LA & NYC Dominatrix: Mistress Rozz
Thursday 3 October 2024
'I get to initiate degrees of ego death.' Meet the epic Mistress Rozz, LA and NYC-based Domme who also travels internationally.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Sophia Domina
Tuesday 17 September 2024
'I've learned that though my specific kinks may change, I am kinky as a sexual orientation.' Meet Sophia Domina, the LA-based Dominatrix, writer, director and producer.
Introducing Philadelphia Dominatrix: Mistress Hellga
Sunday 15 September 2024
From the religious connotations of blood play, to the innate human craving for fear; this was our thrilling chat with the enchanting Philadelphia-based Dominatrix, Mistress Hellga.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Miss Mae Ling
Sunday 8 September 2024
'Her playfully sweet side makes things all the more twisted.' We chatted with the adorable Mae Ling, the Domme next door you've been having dreams (or nightmares) about.
Introducing Berlin-based Dominatrix: Mistress Beate
Sunday 18 August 2024
Despite the whips and chains, Domination is anything but skin deep. That's especially true for Mistress Beate, the Berlin-based psychological Dominatrix.
DO
Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.
Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.
Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.
DON'T
Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.
Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.
Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.
