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Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
saararei
Artist, BDSM & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Berlin DE
Saara Rei is a workshop facilitator and performance artist with a background in music, dance, education, and public speaking. Saara's work generally centers around the exploration of suffering, both physical and emotional. Through their kink practice, Saara has come to understand that suffering comes from the comparison of what has been or could be to the present moment. And with that, Saara enjoys teaching about how to use suffering as a path to presence and enjoyment in life. Having a Ph.D. in mathematics, Saara’s academic experience adds an intellectual flair to complement their performative approach to bodywork. Playfulness and humor make up a big chunk of Saara's personality and approach to life, giving their workshops a very exploitative and light atmosphere, even while approaching some of the heaviest of topics.
mistressseren
BDSM, Coach & Educator
Services are In person
Female - Sapiosexual
New York NY US
For the Discerning and Depraved
CamilleakaVixen
BDSM, Massage & Workshop
Services are In person
Female - Bisexual
Singapore SG
Invitation to receive, be adored and worshipped through a tantric massage or a sensual yet firm domination session 😈✨
welcome2sarahdise
BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Boston MA US
Sweet Sadist 🍭
Pielobyte
BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Aurora CO US
Highly sadistic Dominatrix Inquire via PM
MisterBeardman
Content creator & Photographer
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Omak WA US
Primal Pleasure Dom with a degree in photography. Erotic, BDSM, and Boudoir photography is my passion.
handsoferos
BDSM & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Berlin DE
As a Hypno-Shibari Artist and Soft Dom, I weave the art of Shibari with the depth of hypnosis to create transformative, kinky and healing experiences. I spend my time exploring the delicate balance of power, impact and tenderness, always seeking new ways to connect deeply with others. Friends describe me as an "iron glove in a velvet glove"—firm yet tender. Passionate about unlocking inner potential and fostering self-discovery, I am on a journey of constant learning and profound connection.
janalud
BDSM, Massage & Therapist
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Prague CZ
“Only dead fish go with the flow.”
GoddessM
BDSM & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Sensually sadistic Deity👑Dominatrix/Pro&Lifestyle
MsGeminex
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Demisexual
Phoenix AZ US
Seductive in My ways to tease, torment and train submissive little pets. Traveling often. FMTY & in-calls.
MxLila
BDSM, Muse & Therapist
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
Landskrona SE
Purple to the people 💜
GoddessVenusia
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Miami FL US
Ethereal Goddess possessed by a Sadistic Succubus ~
What is domination?
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.
What makes it hot?
To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.
No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.
Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.
No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.
DO
Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.
Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.
Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.
DON'T
Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.
Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.
Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.
