Explore providers
Domination
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
etoileVega
BDSM, Coach & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Pro kinkster. Sensual switch, impact is my specialty.
maeling
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Los Angeles CA US
The Adorable Domme: a schoolgirl bully with a tiger Asian Mommy Domme twist.
sophiadomina
BDSM, Workshop & Writer
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Los Angeles CA US
Mommy Domme and Performanatrix
benrussell
Content creator & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
Vienna AT
Queering sex is what I do. You wanna join?
binataverna
Coach, Retreat & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bicurious
Zürich CH
Bina Taverna (she/her) With over 8 years of immersive experience in the realms of Shibari, Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, and Bodywork, Bina is an experienced guide in the journey of personal transformation. Bina internationally facilitates Tantra & Shibari retreats and workshops, offering profound experiences for seekers all around the globe. She offers private sessions in Shibari, Tantric Massage, conscious kink and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples. Her work is deeply rooted in empowerment, shadow work, and personal development, drawing inspiration from modalities such as sexological bodywork, trauma-sensitive tools and relationship coaching, and the yogic path. Bina encourages seekers to explore the depths of their being, navigating the shadow realms with courage and compassion. Each encounter with Bina becomes a sacred exploration, where the integration of polarities leads to profound pleasure and newfound wholeness. IG: @binataverna www.binataverna.com
sapieha
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
Dresden DE
Sensual Rope witch creating unique experiences that interweave through artistic pleasure.
Xodyc
BDSM, Kinkster & Companion
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Atlanta GA US
Looking for something great.
PreciousLillith
Dancer, BDSM & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Demisexual
Portland OR US
Succubae
FINdomQueen
Kinkster, Sugar baby & Educator
Services are Online
Female - Straight
New York NY US
A findom goddess.Ill drain your wallet
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Barcelona ES
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
sandrakinkr
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Dallas TX US
Let me take you deep into the darkest part of the lifestyle
Helina
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Paris FR
I am a conscious kink facilitator and Dominatrix, passionate about creating transformative, empowering spaces for you to explore power dynamics, consent, and authentic self-expression. In our work together, you'll uncover your deepest desires, define clear boundaries, and tap into the liberating power of kink. With a focus on clear communication and mutual respect, I guide you through a journey of self-discovery, where vulnerability becomes strength and personal empowerment is key. Whether you're looking to release old limitations or step into your fullest self, my sessions offer the perfect blend of playfulness, intensity, pleasure, adventure and self-growth, helping you connect more deeply with your desires, your power, and the freedom within surrender. I offer personalized 1-2-1 sessions, group workshops, and interactive/educative talks, centered around exploring power dynamics, consent, and self-expression through conscious kink, sensuality, and energy work.
What is domination?
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.
What makes it hot?
To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.
No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.
Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.
No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.
DO
Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.
Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.
Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.
DON'T
Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.
Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.
Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.
