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Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
Serena
BDSM
Female, 29, Pansexual
Brighton and Hove UK (In person)
I am interested in pursuing work as a sex worker because I am passionate about exploring and expressing my own sensuality and sexuality in a professional context. I value the opportunity to connect with clients in a meaningful way and to contribute positively to their experiences. I am committed to maintaining a respectful and safe environment for all involved and am eager to learn more about the industry from experienced professionals. Passionate, Mediterranean and horny
Araneae
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 36, Straight
Farnham UK (In person & Online)
Your next Domination experience awaits here. Come and submit to your cruel redhead fantasies.
lolajean
BDSM, Workshop & Content creator
Female, 35, Queer
New York NY US (Online)
No Frills Sex Education
MissMoon
BDSM
Female, 31, Bicurious
Cape Town ZA (In person)
Step into the Moons shadow & serve me
SirLifts
BDSM, Workshop & Content creator
Male, 33, Pansexual
Sherwood Park AB CA (In person & Online)
I work/play in and around health and wellness as a trainer, speaker, author, safe kink/sex educator, professional Dominant and content creator! Coffee? Cannabis? Gym? Walks? Mountains? Adventures? Music? Kink? I'm/we're phucking doooown! Side Note: if you and yours are looking for a safe place to learn, lab, practice and/or explore Kink and BDSM, PLEASE reach out and let's chat. I love educating and working with people as they find spicier more confident and playful versions of themselves. Will add more when I get a chance!
countessodelia
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 25, Queer
Manchester UK (In person & Online)
Kinky, Queer, Perverted, and Personal
EightBuddhas
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 53, Bisexual
Louisville KY US (In person & Online)
When choosing between two evils, I'll pick the one I haven't tried.
handsoferos
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 33, Straight
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
As a Hypno-Shibari Artist and Soft Dom, I weave the art of Shibari with the depth of hypnosis to create transformative, kinky and healing experiences. I spend my time exploring the delicate balance of power, impact and tenderness, always seeking new ways to connect deeply with others. Friends describe me as an "iron glove in a velvet glove"—firm yet tender. Passionate about unlocking inner potential and fostering self-discovery, I am on a journey of constant learning and profound connection.
mistressbeate
BDSM
Female, 33, Pansexual
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
Psychological Domination
marcusquillan
Companion & Content creator
Male, 35, Bicurious
London UK (In person & Online)
New to the platform, excited to explore with you 😌
venuscuffs
BDSM, Coach & Therapist
Female, 99, Pansexual
New York NY US (In person & Online)
What is your dirty confession?
RedSonia
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 32, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Mature and experienced English Dominatrix with a Lens
What is domination?
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.
What makes it hot?
To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.
No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.
Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.
No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.
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DO
Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.
Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.
Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.
DON'T
Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.
Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.
Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.
