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Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
daddyra
BDSM, Companion & Content creator
Trans, 29, Queer
New York NY US (In person & Online)
Submitting to me feels like bathing in sunshine ☀️ let Daddy praise you while you dress up 👗 BDSM 🖤 outbound only
KoreKouture
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 35, Pansexual
Leeds UK (In person & Online)
I'm a very playful Dominant, I adore reactions and helping people to explore to find what they enjoy!
ENM_Martin
Coach & Content creator
Male, 39, Straight
Loughborough UK (In person & Online)
"Learn to build real trust and they will be the freak you want them to be." Martin MacDonald, The Art of D/s Dynamics
ladylilax
Artist, BDSM & Muse
Female, 29, Bisexual
Dublin IE (In person & Online)
$•••𝔐𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔰𝔰 𝔏𝔞𝔡𝔶 𝔏𝔦𝔩𝔞𝔠•••$ -Welcome submissives and curious seekers of surrender... I Am a Professional Mistress, cultured, intelligent, and sophisticated. Experienced and elegant, I am a true Alpha Female. My first love is power. It thrills me, fills my soul, brings more pleasure than orgasm. The moment you step into my space, the time is no longer yours. Your body no longer belongs to you, your will begins to bend to my whims, longing desperately to fulfill my every command. You will be taken in by My sexual prowess the moment we meet. My eyes alone are enough to have you under My spell. Kiss My feet before you enter the room. While My fetishes and perverse proclivities are many, My primary interests - and My greatest turn ons - lie in genuine and total power exchange, Goddess worship, and service training. Be it within the container of a singular rendezvous or an ongoing dynamic, these core kinks are the foundations upon which I build experiences and connections with My playmates and submissives. I delight in receiving your willing and earnest surrender, molding your submissive psyche, training you to My standards of excellence, and witnessing the beautiful unfolding of your subjugation as you grow and evolve under My strict guidance and Divine Feminine authority. I am the quintessential Alpha Female who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in my presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before me and serve me. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects
MistressEtta
BDSM
Female, 35, Bicurious
Glasgow UK (In person)
The mean Mother you have always wanted.
Juicy_Jynxxx
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 26, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Not your average gym bunny! 🥵 Come find out why...
mariesauvage
Artist, BDSM & Workshop
Female, 69, Bisexual
Paris FR (In person)
Bound the body to free the soul.
maragenesis
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Female, 69, Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US (In person & Online)
Los Angeles Demonatrix ❖ Priestess of Pain ❖ Succubitch
XCallxMexSirX
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 29, Pansexual
Boston MA US (In person & Online)
Let Me Take Control And Transform You.
bellabird
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 24, Pansexual
Glasgow UK (In person & Online)
Hello kinksters. I am a Glasgow based switch with 6 years experience under my belt. I have done all different types of sex work but I find my forte is in domination as well as being submissive on film. Corporal punishment, bondage, shibari and pegging are amongst my favourites. Contact me if you’d like to come play!
alicelovegood
Coach & Content creator
Female, 29, Bisexual
Bristol UK (In person & Online)
Knowledge is pleasure
binataverna
Coach, Retreat & Workshop
Female, 28, Bicurious
Zürich CH (In person & Online)
Bina Taverna (she/her) With over 8 years of immersive experience in the realms of Shibari, Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, and Bodywork, Bina is an experienced guide in the journey of personal transformation. Bina internationally facilitates Tantra & Shibari retreats and workshops, offering profound experiences for seekers all around the globe. She offers private sessions in Shibari, Tantric Massage, conscious kink and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples. Her work is deeply rooted in empowerment, shadow work, and personal development, drawing inspiration from modalities such as sexological bodywork, trauma-sensitive tools and relationship coaching, and the yogic path. Bina encourages seekers to explore the depths of their being, navigating the shadow realms with courage and compassion. Each encounter with Bina becomes a sacred exploration, where the integration of polarities leads to profound pleasure and newfound wholeness. IG: @binataverna www.binataverna.com
What is domination?
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.
What makes it hot?
To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.
No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.
Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.
No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Sophia Domina
Tuesday 17 September 2024
'I've learned that though my specific kinks may change, I am kinky as a sexual orientation.' Meet Sophia Domina, the LA-based Dominatrix, writer, director and producer.
Introducing Philadelphia Dominatrix: Mistress Hellga
Sunday 15 September 2024
From the religious connotations of blood play, to the innate human craving for fear; this was our thrilling chat with the enchanting Philadelphia-based Dominatrix, Mistress Hellga.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Miss Mae Ling
Sunday 8 September 2024
'Her playfully sweet side makes things all the more twisted.' We chatted with the adorable Mae Ling, the Domme next door you've been having dreams (or nightmares) about.
Introducing Berlin-based Dominatrix: Mistress Beate
Sunday 18 August 2024
Despite the whips and chains, Domination is anything but skin deep. That's especially true for Mistress Beate, the Berlin-based psychological Dominatrix.
Meet international Dominatrix, Mistress Gemma Li
Friday 12 July 2024
Meet the femme fatale you've always dreamed of. We chatted to international Dominatrix Gemma Li, who is taking over the world one whip at a time.
In conversation with the queen of kink: Dominatrix Eva Oh
Friday 3 May 2024
All hail the queen of kink. Sensuali had the honour of chatting to the world famous Dominatrix, Eva Oh about her trailblazing journey so far as a BDSM icon.
The kinds of control: 5 common styles of femdom
Tuesday 27 February 2024
Looking to be dominated by a formidable femme but have no idea where to start? These are 5 main styles of femdom. Which one works for you?
Inside the life of a femdom fatale: meet Miss Vera Violette
Friday 23 February 2024
Femdom (femme domination) is taking over. Here to tell us everything we need to know is professional Dominatrix Miss Vera Violette.
The UK’s brattiest humiliatrix: meet Princess Aurora
Friday 15 December 2023
Meet award winning mistress and humiliatrix, Princess Aurora. She's generally amused by abusing losers, and she does it very well.
Mixed wrestling sessions: meet WrestleTanya
Friday 14 July 2023
We caught up with Sensuali Ambassador WrestleTanya, the mixed wrestling extraordinaire. We spoke about the importance of authenticity in her sessions, the excitement of mixed wrestling, and why people shouldn't be shy about paying for professional services.
DO
Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.
Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.
Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.
DON'T
Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.
Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.
Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.
