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Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
MistressElleQui
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Seattle WA US
I am Mistress Elle, a sensual sadist and meticulous Professional Dominatrix. I meld your fantasies with reality and craft an experience that will stay with you for a lifetime. When I'm not using my canes, whips, and ropes to turn submissives into art, you can find me in the ballet studio or out in the wilderness with my 2 dogs. My long-term goals include opening a commercial dungeon and possessing a personal library akin to the one from Beauty and the Beast. Well equipped. I am not a FS provider, be sure you read the rules on my website before sending an inquiry. Kinks I love: Rope Bondage (technical, contortion, and predicament) Impact Play / Pain Training / Bastinado Whipping CBT Foot / Heel / Boot Worship Leather Worship MedFet Pet Play Feminization / Maid Training Spitting Bird Feeding Chastity /Keyholding Pegging Needle Play Sounding Electric Play Vacuum Beds/Mummification Wax Play
supernovabunny
Content creator, BDSM & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
New York NY US
Serve me and watch yourself transform.
LadyVyra
BDSM, Massage & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Berlin DE
Surrender To My Touch
ladyvelvetsteel
BDSM, Coach & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Berlin DE
bespoke BDSM experiences
olyv
Content creator, BDSM & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Washington DC US
a delight, a devil, a devotion. more to come.
Missjadesmoke
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Demisexual
Phoenix AZ US
Blending seduction with unwavering control. Come see me at DOIAZ or topless services available. Check out my website
MissMoon
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Bicurious
Cape Town ZA
Step into the Moons shadow & serve me
SirLifts
Content creator, BDSM & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Male - Pansexual
Sherwood Park AB CA
I work/play in and around health and wellness as a trainer, speaker, author, safe kink/sex educator, professional Dominant and content creator! Coffee? Cannabis? Gym? Walks? Mountains? Adventures? Music? Kink? I'm/we're phucking doooown! Side Note: if you and yours are looking for a safe place to learn, lab, practice and/or explore Kink and BDSM, PLEASE reach out and let's chat. I love educating and working with people as they find spicier more confident and playful versions of themselves. Will add more when I get a chance!
BallistaTheBoss
Content creator & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Costa Mesa CA US
Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy
chrispennington
BDSM, Coach & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Trans - Pansexual
San Marcos TX US
I’m a goddess and feminine focused body-worker who helps people heal from shame and disconnection from their bodies and get in touch with their connection to the divine.
BadCarob
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Demisexual
Ontario CA US
I am a kink educator,, pro and lifestyle dominant with 30+ years experience. I also blend and incorporate Tantra and energy with my play. I love creating unique and transformative experiences with others. I love understanding and connecting with people through play.
BlackPantherTO
Content creator, BDSM & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Toronto ON CA
6ft tall East African Athletic🏃♂️ & adventurous✈️🗺️ Airline professional👨✈️ Switch Kinky adventures😈 Hung 🍆 Toy bag filled with lots of fun possibilities ⛓️ 📍 Downtown TO
What is domination?
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.
What makes it hot?
To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.
No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.
Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.
No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.
DO
Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.
Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.
Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.
DON'T
Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.
Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.
Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.
