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Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
LokoSokol
BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby
Non Binary, 26, Queer
Seattle WA US (In person & Online)
Worship me and I may grant you a boon; shower me with riches and you will see Heaven on Earth đź’‹
QoV
BDSM, Companion & Erotic audio
Female, 45, Straight
Richmond VA US (In person & Online)
I enjoy dominating males, what else is there to say 👸🏻
SpookyDukeyy
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Gender fluid, 29, Queer
Seattle WA US (In person & Online)
Ready to fulfill your dreams & nightmares?
tsmistresspapi
BDSM, Muse & Content creator
Trans, 29, Pansexual
New York NY US (Online)
Spiritual mentor, kink provider, scholar of religion & Classical languages, mystic, & artist. My mind, body, & energy will leave you captivated. The experiences available are as expansive as my talents: Virtual dates for those of you craving companionship or feeling intellectually under-stimulated. Photos & worship sessions for the foot enthusiasts. Your personal muse if you know only I possess the inspiration you yearn for.
mistressseren
BDSM
Female, 31, Sapiosexual
New York NY US (In person)
Prepare to be tantalized + tormented. I'm a mindful menace and a sadistic trickster. I'm the force to guide you on a journey of self-discovery through pain and pleasure. I will push you to your edges, but I do it from the heart. I chose to be a Domina after spending my career in the art world, tech, fashion, and finance. Now my unique ability to master new things is turned on you. My scenes are meticulously tailored experiences, based on the unique D/s connection I have with you. This is why my subs always come back, the authenticity, emotional depth, and artistry of my scenes are what make me a luxury Domina. If you’re seeking quick sexual gratification or a fleeting thrill, I am not the one for you. My scenes are built to create pleasure, catharsis, and expansion. My approach is inspired by Mother Nature and Carl Jung. Raised in the Rocky Mountains, I experienced nature as my Domme. I believe kink can bring you to individuation, Carl Jung’s theory of becoming oneself. BDSM is the perfect method to explore the hidden and neglected aspects of your psyche. Let’s make your subconscious conscious. There is nothing more beautiful or powerful than that. I will domme you emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Being in a scene with me is to experience a surreal nightmare. I am a high-protocol Domina. My standards are high, and I invite you to meet them. I adore humiliation, corporal punishment, foot worship, sissification, degradation, and impact play. I am a true sadist and nothing pleases me more than your groans and moans. When I am not in the dungeon, I am learning. I read books on philosophy, psychology, and BDSM. I spend my free time at museums, hot yoga, and the theatre. Curiosity is what drives me and I love to travel. Last year, I spent time in Italy, Bali, Vietnam, Mexico City, Berlin, Japan, and Morocco. I spend my free time daydreaming about new ways to make my submissives suffer for me.
evaoh
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 38, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Award-winning Dominatrix and Mentor
thefunnydom
BDSM & Content creator
Male, 44, Straight
Melbourne AU (In person & Online)
A pro Daddy Dominant driven to share and explore both sadism and care, and to teach and train those in need or curious
moirdiv
Artist, BDSM & Muse
Gender fluid, 26, Pansexual
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
My aim, your surrender
PleasureToyQueen
Coach, BDSM & Content creator
Female, 36, Pansexual
Brisbane AU (Online)
đź‘‘ Get ready to indulge in the ultimate pleasure experience! đź’‹
MistressSin
BDSM
Female, 48, Queer
London UK (In person)
I am a British Femdom based in London. Although I have been naturally dominant since coming of age, I decided to turn My lust for overpowering men into a profession at the age of 25. I have been a professional Dominatrix for 23yrs and find new excitement and love for BDSM with every year that goes by. For Me, there is nothing quite like the feeling of a man, at My feet, relinquishing all control to Me. I have an insatiable lust for the erotic constraints of latex and leather and the sensuality of stockings and heels. I adore every level of kink, but I particularly thrive with the unusual and extreme. Your embarrassment and shame give Me amusement and excitement. The space that I will give to you is completely safe, so you can truly submit, give in, and become the sub that you have always yearned for but hidden... until now.
HouseOfVF
BDSM
Female, 21, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
Please note all applications are to be made through my website. I am Mistress Vera V.F. - a strict, yet caring, dominatrix. Classic, yes, but with something of a contemporary twist. I adore protocol and discipline, which I bring a uniquely personal approach to. I will remain strict and poised looking down at you, but I will also put you at ease. You are in safe hands with me. I will dominate you with a smile on my face. Passionate about kink and BDSM, I truly adore exploring and facilitating fantasies - I strive to learn what makes you tick, and use it to bring you pleasure, pain and ultimate subspace. I offer real-time dungeon sessions, social dates, shopping trips and cashpoint meets in London. You can apply via my website. Occasionally, I might consider online sessions. Note you should be deposit ready at the time of your application. I have seen people of all types, from devoted submissives to those with specific fetishes. Whether you're an obedient and experienced sub or a complete beginner, if you are lucky together we will explore your deepest, darkest desires. I have a wide range of interests, but some of my favourites are: Protocol Corporal punishment Bondage CBT Key holding Slave training I am a BDSM chameleon, and love exploring many types of play. Feel free to still fill out my form if what you are looking for isn't mentioned above and we can discuss. I am not interested in the following kinks at this time. Requests for any of these will be ignored. -Hardsports -Wrestling -Needles -Electrics
davidmarius
BDSM, Therapist & Workshop
Male, 33, Bicurious
Ibiza ES (In person & Online)
I am a Hypnotherapist, Coach and Pleasure Artist / Activist from France living in Ibiza. My occupation as a Hypnotist and Shibari artist is to create erotic experiences for my clients and allow them to fully surrender into pleasure. For the past few years, I've been travelling the world leading workshops and talks around the Neuroscience of orgasms and the psychology of arousal. As the founder of the Orgasmic Hypnosis method, I teach people how to give and receive pleasure through their mind alone, also training women for orgasmic birthing. I am also a performer, director and writer involved in various artistic projects from conscious porn, art films to fashion show choregraphie. With my partner Katarsis, we have created our own brand BoundxBeyond, through which we act as a duo, organizing workshops, parties and sensual events / experiences.
What is domination?
Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.
Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.
What makes it hot?
To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.
No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.
Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.
No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.
Introducing Philadelphia Dominatrix: Mistress Hellga
Sunday 15 September 2024
From the religious connotations of blood play, to the innate human craving for fear; this was our thrilling chat with the enchanting Philadelphia-based Dominatrix, Mistress Hellga.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Miss Mae Ling
Sunday 8 September 2024
'Her playfully sweet side makes things all the more twisted.' We chatted with the adorable Mae Ling, the Domme next door you've been having dreams (or nightmares) about.
Introducing Berlin-based Dominatrix: Mistress Beate
Sunday 18 August 2024
Despite the whips and chains, Domination is anything but skin deep. That's especially true for Mistress Beate, the Berlin-based psychological Dominatrix.
Meet international Dominatrix, Mistress Gemma Li
Friday 12 July 2024
Meet the femme fatale you've always dreamed of. We chatted to international Dominatrix Gemma Li, who is taking over the world one whip at a time.
In conversation with the queen of kink: Dominatrix Eva Oh
Friday 3 May 2024
All hail the queen of kink. Sensuali had the honour of chatting to the world famous Dominatrix, Eva Oh about her trailblazing journey so far as a BDSM icon.
The kinds of control: 5 common styles of femdom
Tuesday 27 February 2024
Looking to be dominated by a formidable femme but have no idea where to start? These are 5 main styles of femdom. Which one works for you?
Inside the life of a femdom fatale: meet Miss Vera Violette
Friday 23 February 2024
Femdom (femme domination) is taking over. Here to tell us everything we need to know is professional Dominatrix Miss Vera Violette.
The UK’s brattiest humiliatrix: meet Princess Aurora
Friday 15 December 2023
Meet award winning mistress and humiliatrix, Princess Aurora. She's generally amused by abusing losers, and she does it very well.
Mixed wrestling sessions: meet WrestleTanya
Friday 14 July 2023
We caught up with Sensuali Ambassador WrestleTanya, the mixed wrestling extraordinaire. We spoke about the importance of authenticity in her sessions, the excitement of mixed wrestling, and why people shouldn't be shy about paying for professional services.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
DO
Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.
Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.
Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.
DON'T
Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.
Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.
Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.
