elemental_subtlety Muse Oakland

elemental_subtlety

Male , Queer
In person

About me

As I see it, massage therapy is about holding space. My clients allow me to meet them in a place of incredible vulnerability, and it is my job to meet them there with compassion, respect, and a desire to see them thrive. Without this, I would just be pushing muscle tissue around. While this might be helpful, it would fall short of having a deep impact. Massage has the potential to help people find equilibrium, physically and emotionally. I seek to help that process along by continuously working to improve myself.

I’ve taken to describing my style of topping as a sort of sensation domming. Between the years of martial arts training, massage work, and skilled labor jobs, my hands are my favorite tools… and toys. I like to play with connection, space, and anticipation. My goal is to have my scene partner on the edge of her/their seat, tugging at her/their restraints, holding her/their breath and waiting for the moment my hand touches her/them, caresses her/them, my nails drag across her/their skin, with exclamations punctuating every slap, and protests filling the moments in between contact. I take a particular pleasure in taming brats and molding them into well-behaved, eager submissives. My approach is kind, firm, mindful, and as brutal or gentle as each moment requires.

I also have an extensive collection of sex toys for you to sample.

I interact

My Location

Oakland, CA, US

Experiences I offer

More about elemental_subtlety

elemental_subtlety
Queer Male (He/Him)
31 years old
Hispanic/Latino
I speak English, Spanish
Undergrad
5'9 ft
Athletic, Average
Sometimes
No
No Party
A few Tattoos
A few Piercings

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