etoileVega BDSM New York

etoileVega

Non Binary , Queer
In person & Online

Pro kinkster. Sensual switch, impact is my specialty.

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About me

They/them. 5’7 queer, poly, kinky. Switch.

Mature and thoughtful dominant with a passion for intellectual and emotional stimulation. I will take control of you, guide you and transform you into an aching, brainwashed object. I’ll captivate you with my sensual body, hypnotic voice, creative mind, and innovative ethos. Your submission will be earned. My specialties are psychological manipulation, impact play, power exchange, and roleplay.

I offer a range of experiences to find fulfillment, whether you want to talk, play, submit or learn. Here’s some ideas for what I’d like to do with you…
- Discipline, impact, and punishment
- Brainwashing, manipulation, hypno, and psychological play
- Sensory deprivation, sensation play, and sensory sharps
- Tease and denial, orgasm control, and edging
- Sweet and gentle paired with increasingly intense play
- Nurturing, rules and goal setting
- Heavy bondage, leather, latex
- Body and foot worship
- Sub training and high protocol
- Ballbusting and CBT
- Cuckolding, exploiting, degrading and humiliating

Your honest vulnerability intoxicates me. Share your desires with me and make them reality. Together we will explore the deepest parts of yourself and give you inner peace like you’ve never experienced before. I enjoy watching you melt in the palm of my hand.

I am queer, mixed, and of other intersectional identies, and I take pleasure in meeting clients of all backgrounds. I strive to ensure you feel accepted and secure with me no matter your religion, ability, etc. I am very understanding and non-judgmental person, especially if you're new to meeting a provider.

I play at all levels, and enjoy the finesse and skill it requires to tailor experiences to all levels of stamina, endurance, and risk profiles. I adore working with people who are new to BDSM, and pride myself on my caring, thoughtful approach. I enjoy being a strict but fair disciplinarian, a cruel and sadistic villain, a teasing and playful top, an aloof and uncaring Goddess, or a gentle and patient guide. My scenes are meticulously detailed one-of-a-kind experiences. Your satisfaction is my pride.

I value clear, respectful communication, those who can self-advocate, and those who have done the work to begin exploring their desires.

My rate reflects my experience and the value of my time. Any Incall will require a booking fee. Last minute bookings incur a proportional rush fee. Rates increase with scene complexity and intensity. Nervous about your first time? Book a phone consult or casual coffee chat to soothe your fears.

I’m an active player in my local scene and I care about building community, belonging, and mutual aid, values I bring to kink. I’m trauma informed, I prioritize boundaries and consent, and I care deeply about challenging oppressive systems around me and inside me. I bring unprecedented levels of nuance to the boudoir.

Send me a message to get our adventure started.

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My Location

New York, NY, US

Experiences I offer

FAQs

Message me politely. Messages with multiple typos and robotic tone will be ignored.

Please don’t! I’m still a person, and it’s creepy to call people by titles without establishing that expectation. I don’t enjoy the pressure that creates to perform. Let’s talk first and see what feels organic.

Come prepared. Ask questions. Reflect on everything. Dress smart. Create an ambiance. Lean into the thrill of our adventure together. Be generous, be creative, be kind.

More about Vega

etoileVega
Queer Non Binary (Tey)
My experiences are for Everyone, Couple, Female, Gender fluid, Intersex, Male, Non Binary, Trans
23 years old
I speak English, French, Spanish
5'7 ft
Curvy
No
No
Party Sometimes
No Tattoos
No Piercings

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