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Findom
Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.
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Content creator, BDSM & Sugar baby
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A findom goddess.Ill drain your wallet
Helina
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Paris FR
I am a conscious kink facilitator and Dominatrix, passionate about creating transformative, empowering spaces for you to explore power dynamics, consent, and authentic self-expression. In our work together, you'll uncover your deepest desires, define clear boundaries, and tap into the liberating power of kink. With a focus on clear communication and mutual respect, I guide you through a journey of self-discovery, where vulnerability becomes strength and personal empowerment is key. Whether you're looking to release old limitations or step into your fullest self, my sessions offer the perfect blend of playfulness, intensity, pleasure, adventure and self-growth, helping you connect more deeply with your desires, your power, and the freedom within surrender. I offer personalized 1-2-1 sessions, group workshops, and interactive/educative talks, centered around exploring power dynamics, consent, and self-expression through conscious kink, sensuality, and energy work.
maragenesis
Content creator, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US
Los Angeles Demonatrix ❖ Priestess of Pain ❖ Succubitch
What is Findom?
Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.
Findom is short for 'Financial Domination', which is a sub-fetish within the world of BDSM and kink. In findom, the financial dominatrix (often referred to as a 'findomme' or 'money domme'), has control over the financial submissive's (aka the pay pig's) money.
The pay pig is often required to spend their finances on the domme in the form of gifts or by covering their expenses. Both partners derive sexual pleasure from this power dynamic.
What makes it hot?
What could be more submissive than handing over your entire finances to somebody else? Our money and how we spend it is a very private thing, and so many submissives find findom to be a very intimate activity. The ultra-subs revel in the idea of being a human ATM, something that makes them seem more and object than a human, especially when their domme spends copious amounts of money on themselves with no shame.
Safety in findom, like any BDSM-related activity, relies on clear communication, mutual consent, and setting boundaries. It's essential for participants to discuss limits and expectations beforehand.
While some participants may enjoy the financial aspect, findom is more about power dynamics and control. It's not solely reserved for the wealthy, and individuals can explore within their means.
Yes, findom dynamics can be integrated into long-term relationships if both partners are interested and consensually agree on the terms. Open communication is crucial to ensure the well-being and satisfaction of all involved parties.
DO
Explore safely: Explore with a professional or a trusted partner.
Start small: Nothing bad every came from taking things gradually.
Have financial knowledge: Money ain't nothing to play around with.
DON'T
Go too hard: Don't get carried away with your fetish in the moment. Take rational pauses.
Irresponsible play: Don't give away anything you can't afford to.
Pressure: Don't pressure anyone to give or take more money than they're comfortable with.
