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Findom
Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.
galavanting
BDSM
Female, Queer, Sydney AU
In person
I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.
krystaljennings
Content creator & Sugar baby
Female, Pansexual, Knoxville TN US
In person & Online
The girl of your dreams... Yes, I'm married. But we can still use your money and have fun.
adinstone
BDSM
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
In person
Let’s see and find out together what direction were going
OsitoLatino69
Content creator & Companion
Male, Gay, San Francisco CA US
In person & Online
Se habla español.
goddexxgrey
BDSM
Gender fluid, Pansexual, New York NY US
In person
FinDom, Sensual Dom, can be your mommy or daddy Dom.
Light_Switch
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Demisexual, Tallahassee FL US
In person & Online
Im a BDSM educator and professional looking to share my skills and my knowledge with others. I have been a part of the BDSM scene and my local community for my entire adult life. Its important staying humble, you may think you know everything but there will always be more to learn.
MsZoe
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Bisexual, Las Vegas NV US
In person & Online
Retired Pornstar living the 24/7 BDSM lifestyle as a true Switchy witch. Im a Mommy Domme and sensual Goddess. Spoiled slut to my one & only Daddy + Mistress to my good boys and girls.
Cleo08
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Queer, Jakarta ID
In person & Online
A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤
MommyThea
BDSM & Content creator
Female, Straight, Austin TX US
In person & Online
Nurturing mommy-Domme for good boys. Photos and audio JOIs on my Patreon 🙇♂️
luckybunny
Sugar baby
Female, Pansexual, Lexington VA US
In person
living my princess life and need more royal subjects 💖 i’m a findom that specializes in humiliation with 4 years of experience. can’t wait to talk to you 😘
Bloody_Marria91
BDSM
Female, Sapiosexual, Bucharest RO
In person
Huge fan of art (photography, classical music, theatre, movies, sculpture and paintings). Big animal lover. I'm a citizen of the world therefore i don't believe in labels (like straight/gay, race, political inclination, religion...they make us different by choice not by DNA). I'm an admirer and a wild nature addict. I'm not tamable, i'm not a prize, i love challenges. I'm excited by bright minds not by muscles. Cameleonic, dual, tough but also sensitive, empathic, serious but also with a developed sense of humor, calm, sincerely brutal but also an expert liar. The sea and the sky are my antidepressants. Photo is a passion. Art is a drug. Music is food for my soul.
What is Findom?
Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.
Findom is short for 'Financial Domination', which is a sub-fetish within the world of BDSM and kink. In findom, the financial dominatrix (often referred to as a 'findomme' or 'money domme'), has control over the financial submissive's (aka the pay pig's) money.
The pay pig is often required to spend their finances on the domme in the form of gifts or by covering their expenses. Both partners derive sexual pleasure from this power dynamic.
What makes it hot?
What could be more submissive than handing over your entire finances to somebody else? Our money and how we spend it is a very private thing, and so many submissives find findom to be a very intimate activity. The ultra-subs revel in the idea of being a human ATM, something that makes them seem more and object than a human, especially when their domme spends copious amounts of money on themselves with no shame.
Safety in findom, like any BDSM-related activity, relies on clear communication, mutual consent, and setting boundaries. It's essential for participants to discuss limits and expectations beforehand.
While some participants may enjoy the financial aspect, findom is more about power dynamics and control. It's not solely reserved for the wealthy, and individuals can explore within their means.
Yes, findom dynamics can be integrated into long-term relationships if both partners are interested and consensually agree on the terms. Open communication is crucial to ensure the well-being and satisfaction of all involved parties.
How to findom 101: setting financial foundations
Wednesday 20 December 2023
Want someone to surrender their savings to you? Welcome to the world of findom. These are the common aspects of a findom relationship that you might want to get to know.
DO
Explore safely: Explore with a professional or a trusted partner.
Start small: Nothing bad every came from taking things gradually.
Have financial knowledge: Money ain't nothing to play around with.
DON'T
Go too hard: Don't get carried away with your fetish in the moment. Take rational pauses.
Irresponsible play: Don't give away anything you can't afford to.
Pressure: Don't pressure anyone to give or take more money than they're comfortable with.
