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Hi, you can call me Harlem! My friends and clients used to call me gym dom at work. It stuck for a while sort of as a running gag. A first it wasn't intentional but over time it became natural as i gave in to my authentic self. Over time in my career in personal training I really only had a select group of clients per year that like my attention to detail whether that be in their training or during stretch and massage. I've always been great with anatomy and great with my hands. A friend of mine told me about sensuali and how I could exercise this skill with more people who find it hard to find this experience. What I bring to people is full experience. I'm that handsome black man that you hire for an at home training visit; you feel that certain something and you need me to help you release the tension. For some people its the push and pull of now that I'm worked out lets hit the club and we have a great time while we dance the night away. I travel. I'm a +1. I've had the pleasure or fulfilling the fantasy. Being arm candy or someone to hold you or be held.
I hope to meet whoever you are soon.
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