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missangelafromhell
•BDSM, Companion & Therapist
Female, Demisexual, Mexico City MX
In person & Online
Nothing youve ever imagine
arika
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
CURRENTLY OFFERING SESSIONS ON IBIZA 15.2-07.3 Berlin-Based Tantrika & Sexuality Coach Female, 32 Years Old With years of experience in sexuality work, from starting out as a sex educator and researching sexual violence to embracing embodied practices through tantra, I am dedicated to helping individuals and couples connect deeply with themselves and each other. I am certified as a systemic sex counselor and couples coach with trauma expertise, I bring both a compassionate heart and extensive knowledge to every session. Working Together In our work together, expect a safe, open environment where you can explore both sensuality and sexuality. My approach integrates meditation, touch, and personalized coaching. Clients often describe my tantric sessions as gentle, profound, and nourishing – and many return to dive deeper into their journey of intimacy and self-discovery. All Genders & Relationship Styles Welcome Individual & Couples Counseling Topics: Desire, Fetishes & Kinks: Understanding, expressing, and living with what excites you Pain & Discomfort During Sex: Moving past discomfort and finding ease Navigating Desire & Displeasure in relationships (marriage or partnership) Sexual Dissatisfaction & Low Libido Sexually Compulsive or Addictive Behavior Consequences of Sexual Trauma: From verbal abuse to physical assaults Chemsex and Related Challenges Difficulty Reaching Orgasm Managing Non-Consensual Affairs & Infidelity Exploring Sexual Preferences & BDSM Sexual Dysfunction such as: Premature ejaculation Erectile challenges Orgasm inhibition Vaginismus Managing STIs: Information and guidance Topics We Can Address in Couples Counseling New Relationships: "We just got together and want to do things differently this time." Communication Issues: "We have nothing more to say to each other." / "We always talk past each other." Trust Issues: "An affair has affected our trust." Sexual Challenges: "Our sexual tempos don’t match." / "I have a fetish I don’t know how to explain to my partner." Conflict Resolution: "We argue too much." / "Everyday life brings challenges for us." Future Planning: "We have different views on children, career, or where to live." Separation Questions: "Do we need to separate?" Control & Perception: "One of us feels controlled or undervalued." Relationship Models: "We’re not sure what relationship model fits us – monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, or swinging." Loss of Infatuation: "The spark has faded… Now what?" ****Open to Sugar Baby Arrangements For those interested in exploring genuine sugar baby connections, I am open if there is a mutual, respectful bond. On a personal note: Sexuality is a passion for me, and I am continually discovering new depths within BDSM and tantra , which enriches my practice and insights. And funn is such an important part to ittt
HentaiMistressKoto
BDSM, Photographer & Sugar baby
Female, Sapiosexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
I could never get bored of playing Hentai, Shibari, and BDSM. It's my life.
mistrixcleokali
Artist, BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Queer, Sydney AU
In person & Online
The best way to book a session with Me is directly through My website : www.cleokali.com/submit Welcome, kindred kinksters and curious creatures, I am Mistrix Cleo Kali - Kink Witch, Ritualist and Eco-Eroticist. Tall, tattooed, and ornamented in leather, My arresting aesthetic compels absolute surrender, though it is My incisive imagination and conceptual finesse that ensures your enduring enrapture. My style is intuitive, intentional and artistic, one of softly spoken sadism and exquisitely creative cruelty. I value poetry, potency; I craft catharsis elegantly. Experienced and eloquent in the erotic outer-edges with a sophisticated palate for pain, Mine is a spectral seduction, wrought with a kaleidoscopic command of mediums. More than once, My sessions have been described with the word ‘gesamtkunstwerk’, a German term translating to ‘all encompassing artwork.’ Scenes with Me span the spectrum from conceptual and symbolic to gestural and asemic - the violet iodine-staining of semantic space the true synthesis of My Dominance style. Meaning may indeed be fluid, obscured, but it will always be centered in My sessions. Expect to breathe properly. Expect to explore the contents of your consciousness with Me. I do not use the term "Kink Witch" lightly. I am not a Dominatrix one should chose to simply sate their still-latent fantasies, I am a Dominatrix who will expand and interrogate every desire that shivers from seed, evolving, eroding and corroding according to My vision. I am not interested in your orgasm, I am interested in your awakening. With an almost-decade of sessions under my well-flexed leather belt, and an influence now crossing three continents and counting, I am highly skilled, fluent in fetish and exceptionally adept at coaxing devotion. I work only within the limits of RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink,) and I am open to all cultures, genders, sexualities and ability levels - a statement meant not as an empty platitude, but as a genuine ongoing commitment to inclusiveness, education and awareness in My practice. I completed the Touching Base Professional Disability Awareness Training for Sex Workers in December 2019, and make ongoing efforts to educate myself about the intersections of disability and kink, however I recognise that I am unlikely to consistently and reliably identify where I may be lacking without input from those with lived experience. I encourage and appreciate suggestions on how to ensure My offerings are more accessible.
mvpblack
Artist, BDSM & Coach
Gender fluid, Queer, Zagreb HR
In person & Online
Light, Life, Love, and Liberty
MistressGemmaLi
BDSM
Female, Sapiosexual, Denver CO US
In person
Femme Fatale Dominatrix | Lifestyle ↔ Pro
nadirah_khalisa
BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person
Berlin-based & FMTY Pro Dominant | Ready to serve Me? >>> https://www.nadirahkhalisa.com
Mae
Artist, BDSM & Muse
Female, Pansexual, Amsterdam NL
In person & Online
Sensual BDSM or Medical Play?
Enanna
Coach, Content creator & Workshop
Female, Pansexual, Berlin DE
In person & Online
Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink educator & sensuality coach, shibari artist, bodyworker and author
dawnchorus
Muse, BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, New Orleans LA US
In person & Online
⛓️ Chew up your love then swallow ⛓️
jamiejoy
BDSM, Educator & Workshop
Trans, Queer, New York NY US
In person & Online
Queer & Trans sex and kink educator spreading joy and pleasure through community orgynizing
mistresssade
Muse, BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Pansexual, Auckland NZ
In person & Online
Have you ever met a Real Dominatrix?
What is impact play?
Thanks for the spanks.
Impact play is an activity in the world of BDSM and kink. It involves one person (the 'top' or 'dominant') delivering various forms of physical impact to another person (the 'bottom' or 'submissive'). The purpose of impact play is typically to create sensations of pain for the sub, which in turn creates pleasure for both partners. Impact play can take many forms, such as spanking, whipping or caning.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of impact play is often rooted in punishment. It's about those fulfilling those fantasies surrounding people in positions of power like school teachers. Many people love impact play purely for the rush of endorphins they receive from the pain. Others like the idea of being branded because the connotations it carries of being owned by somebody.
Safety is paramount. Communicate openly with your partner about limits, use safe words, and establish clear signals to indicate comfort levels. Start slowly, especially if you're new to impact play, and avoid sensitive areas like the kidneys and spine. Regularly check in with your partner to ensure their well-being.
While there is specialised BDSM equipment available, you can start with everyday items like hands, belts, or wooden spoons for lighter impact play. If you progress to more intense activities, consider investing in purpose-built tools like floggers or paddles. Always prioritise the cleanliness and safety of any items used.
Absolutely. Many people find pleasure in both giving and receiving sensations from impact play. It can be a way to explore power dynamics, experience different sensations, and enhance intimacy. Open communication ensures that both partners derive enjoyment and satisfaction from the experience.
Storytime: My Hypno Shibari experience with Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
I recently had the chance to do a private session with the wonderful Hypno Shibari artist, Emmanuel aka Hands of Eros. Here's everything that happened.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
Sensual kink experiences: the top 10
Tuesday 11 July 2023
Welcome to the wonderful world of kink. Sensuali looks beyond taboos and provides a space for us to understand our desires better. Whether you’re seeking or offering, it’s all about exploration for everyone. Here’s our top 10 crème de la kink experiences.
DO
Communication: Have an open discussion about why you are both into impact play and what you want to get out of it.
Research: Whether you're spanking or being spanked, it's important to know the right parts of the body which are safe to hit.
Aftercare: No matter how soft or heavy the play, spending close time together afterwards is imperative.
DON'T
Rush: Don't hurry into the hardcore stuff. A slow build of impact play is always sexier, anyway.
Danger zones: Don't go near the lower back. This can cause permanent damage and is a hard no-go area.
No Communication: Don't begin without discussing a safe word. This is crucial to all BDSM play.