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goddesskeileigh
Photographer, BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, Pansexual, New York NY US
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mistressseren
BDSM, Coach & Educator
Female, Sapiosexual, New York NY US
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CamilleakaVixen
BDSM, Massage & Workshop
Female, Bisexual, Singapore SG
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welcome2sarahdise
BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Bisexual, Boston MA US
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ronhades
BDSM, Companion & Educator
Non Binary, Pansexual, Berlin DE
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Sensual sadist, Bondage enthusiast
rubensabreumt
Content creator & Massage
Male, Straight, Stockholm SE
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ericd
Erotic audio, BDSM & Massage
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
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goddesssage
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Gender fluid, Pansexual, Los Angeles CA US
In person & Online
Iām a bold spirit ready to guide you on an exhilarating journey of exploration and trust. I believe in the power of connectionāevery command comes from a place of care to ensure your experience is not only thrilling but also deeply fulfilling. As a companion, Iām down-to-earth. I connect easily with others and make every encounter feel natural. Iām dedicated to creating a space where you can truly be yourself. Whether weāre sharing a quiet dinner or enjoying a night out, I bring delightful conversation and an air of sophistication that ensures each moment is special. As a Dominatrix, I have a deep understanding of the mind-body connection. When Iām in charge, safety and consent come first. I thrive on creating spaces where you can fully surrender and connect with your true self. Together, weāll navigate the delicious tension between discipline and affection, pain and pleasure, and control. We'll craft a unique dynamic that resonates with your deepest dreams and desires.
BxSassy
Content creator & Photographer
Gender fluid, Pansexual, Paris FR
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GoddessM
BDSM & Muse
Female, Sapiosexual, New York NY US
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joyenjoyen
Dancer, Muse & BDSM
Female, Pansexual, Manila PH
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JOYEN (Pronouns: Perceived) is a Sadistic Rope Bondage Dominatrix and Burlesque Stripper, with expertise in the art of macabre and seduction. Her favorite style is aesthetically-pleasing and acrobatic tormenting rope, and Her interest lies in the realm of elegant fetish and erotica. Nothing delights Her Infernal Majesty more than those willing to completely surrender their darkest and most vulnerable selves (and wallets) in the dangerous embrace of Her rope.
etoileVega
BDSM, Coach & Companion
Non Binary, Queer, New York NY US
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Pro kinkster. Sensual switch, impact is my specialty.
What is impact play?
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Impact play is an activity in the world of BDSM and kink. It involves one person (the 'top' or 'dominant') delivering various forms of physical impact to another person (the 'bottom' or 'submissive'). The purpose of impact play is typically to create sensations of pain for the sub, which in turn creates pleasure for both partners. Impact play can take many forms, such as spanking, whipping or caning.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of impact play is often rooted in punishment. It's about those fulfilling those fantasies surrounding people in positions of power like school teachers. Many people love impact play purely for the rush of endorphins they receive from the pain. Others like the idea of being branded because the connotations it carries of being owned by somebody.
Safety is paramount. Communicate openly with your partner about limits, use safe words, and establish clear signals to indicate comfort levels. Start slowly, especially if you're new to impact play, and avoid sensitive areas like the kidneys and spine. Regularly check in with your partner to ensure their well-being.
While there is specialised BDSM equipment available, you can start with everyday items like hands, belts, or wooden spoons for lighter impact play. If you progress to more intense activities, consider investing in purpose-built tools like floggers or paddles. Always prioritise the cleanliness and safety of any items used.
Absolutely. Many people find pleasure in both giving and receiving sensations from impact play. It can be a way to explore power dynamics, experience different sensations, and enhance intimacy. Open communication ensures that both partners derive enjoyment and satisfaction from the experience.
Storytime: My Hypno Shibari experience with Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
I recently had the chance to do a private session with the wonderful Hypno Shibari artist, Emmanuel aka Hands of Eros. Here's everything that happened.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta CĆtrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
Sensual kink experiences: the top 10
Tuesday 11 July 2023
Welcome to the wonderful world of kink. Sensuali looks beyond taboos and provides a space for us to understand our desires better. Whether youāre seeking or offering, itās all about exploration for everyone. Hereās our top 10 crĆØme de la kink experiences.Ā
DO
Communication: Have an open discussion about why you are both into impact play and what you want to get out of it.
Research: Whether you're spanking or being spanked, it's important to know the right parts of the body which are safe to hit.
Aftercare: No matter how soft or heavy the play, spending close time together afterwards is imperative.
DON'T
Rush: Don't hurry into the hardcore stuff. A slow build of impact play is always sexier, anyway.
Danger zones: Don't go near the lower back. This can cause permanent damage and is a hard no-go area.
No Communication: Don't begin without discussing a safe word. This is crucial to all BDSM play.