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XCallxMexSirX
BDSM & Content creator
Non Binary, 29, Pansexual
Boston MA US (In person & Online)
Let Me Take Control And Transform You.
BallistaTheBoss
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 43, Straight
Costa Mesa CA US (In person & Online)
Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy
BxSassy
Photographer & Content creator
Gender fluid, 33, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Your fave hairy Sassy babe encouraging you to come out and play 💋
vitavolition
BDSM, Writer & Content creator
Female, 32, Queer
Amsterdam NL (In person & Online)
Your pain is my pleasure 😈⛓️🖤
JDLumbersnack
BDSM
Male, 36, Pansexual
Poole UK (In person)
I'm the big guy
BadCarob
BDSM
Male, 55, Demisexual
Ontario CA US (In person)
I am a kink educator,, pro and lifestyle dominant with 30+ years experience. I also blend and incorporate Tantra and energy with my play. I love creating unique and transformative experiences with others. I love understanding and connecting with people through play.
rubensabreumt
Massage & Content creator
Male, 31, Straight
London UK (In person & Online)
Sensual Yoni Massage for Women and Couples
SpookyDukeyy
BDSM, Coach & Content creator
Gender fluid, 29, Queer
Seattle WA US (In person & Online)
Ready to fulfill your dreams & nightmares?
MistressElleQui
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 34, Bisexual
Seattle WA US (In person & Online)
I am Mistress Elle, a sensual sadist and meticulous Professional Dominatrix. I meld your fantasies with reality and craft an experience that will stay with you for a lifetime. When I'm not using my canes, whips, and ropes to turn submissives into art, you can find me in the ballet studio or out in the wilderness with my 2 dogs. My long-term goals include opening a commercial dungeon and possessing a personal library akin to the one from Beauty and the Beast. Well equipped. I am not a FS provider, be sure you read the rules on my website before sending an inquiry. Kinks I love: Rope Bondage (technical, contortion, and predicament) Impact Play / Pain Training / Bastinado Whipping CBT Foot / Heel / Boot Worship Leather Worship MedFet Pet Play Feminization / Maid Training Spitting Bird Feeding Chastity /Keyholding Pegging Needle Play Sounding Electric Play Vacuum Beds/Mummification Wax Play
mistressseren
BDSM
Female, 31, Sapiosexual
New York NY US (In person)
Prepare to be tantalized + tormented. I'm a mindful menace and a sadistic trickster. I'm the force to guide you on a journey of self-discovery through pain and pleasure. I will push you to your edges, but I do it from the heart. I chose to be a Domina after spending my career in the art world, tech, fashion, and finance. Now my unique ability to master new things is turned on you. My scenes are meticulously tailored experiences, based on the unique D/s connection I have with you. This is why my subs always come back, the authenticity, emotional depth, and artistry of my scenes are what make me a luxury Domina. If you’re seeking quick sexual gratification or a fleeting thrill, I am not the one for you. My scenes are built to create pleasure, catharsis, and expansion. My approach is inspired by Mother Nature and Carl Jung. Raised in the Rocky Mountains, I experienced nature as my Domme. I believe kink can bring you to individuation, Carl Jung’s theory of becoming oneself. BDSM is the perfect method to explore the hidden and neglected aspects of your psyche. Let’s make your subconscious conscious. There is nothing more beautiful or powerful than that. I will domme you emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Being in a scene with me is to experience a surreal nightmare. I am a high-protocol Domina. My standards are high, and I invite you to meet them. I adore humiliation, corporal punishment, foot worship, sissification, degradation, and impact play. I am a true sadist and nothing pleases me more than your groans and moans. When I am not in the dungeon, I am learning. I read books on philosophy, psychology, and BDSM. I spend my free time at museums, hot yoga, and the theatre. Curiosity is what drives me and I love to travel. Last year, I spent time in Italy, Bali, Vietnam, Mexico City, Berlin, Japan, and Morocco. I spend my free time daydreaming about new ways to make my submissives suffer for me.
galavanting
BDSM
Female, 40, Queer
Sydney AU (In person)
I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.
adinstone
BDSM
Male, 25, Straight
Berlin DE (In person)
Let’s see and find out together what direction were going
What is impact play?
Thanks for the spanks.
Impact play is an activity in the world of BDSM and kink. It involves one person (the 'top' or 'dominant') delivering various forms of physical impact to another person (the 'bottom' or 'submissive'). The purpose of impact play is typically to create sensations of pain for the sub, which in turn creates pleasure for both partners. Impact play can take many forms, such as spanking, whipping or caning.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of impact play is often rooted in punishment. It's about those fulfilling those fantasies surrounding people in positions of power like school teachers. Many people love impact play purely for the rush of endorphins they receive from the pain. Others like the idea of being branded because the connotations it carries of being owned by somebody.
Safety is paramount. Communicate openly with your partner about limits, use safe words, and establish clear signals to indicate comfort levels. Start slowly, especially if you're new to impact play, and avoid sensitive areas like the kidneys and spine. Regularly check in with your partner to ensure their well-being.
While there is specialised BDSM equipment available, you can start with everyday items like hands, belts, or wooden spoons for lighter impact play. If you progress to more intense activities, consider investing in purpose-built tools like floggers or paddles. Always prioritise the cleanliness and safety of any items used.
Absolutely. Many people find pleasure in both giving and receiving sensations from impact play. It can be a way to explore power dynamics, experience different sensations, and enhance intimacy. Open communication ensures that both partners derive enjoyment and satisfaction from the experience.
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DO
Communication: Have an open discussion about why you are both into impact play and what you want to get out of it.
Research: Whether you're spanking or being spanked, it's important to know the right parts of the body which are safe to hit.
Aftercare: No matter how soft or heavy the play, spending close time together afterwards is imperative.
DON'T
Rush: Don't hurry into the hardcore stuff. A slow build of impact play is always sexier, anyway.
Danger zones: Don't go near the lower back. This can cause permanent damage and is a hard no-go area.
No Communication: Don't begin without discussing a safe word. This is crucial to all BDSM play.