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Impact play
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rubensabreumt
Content creator & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Stockholm SE
Sensual Yoni Massage for Women and Couples
ericd
Erotic audio, BDSM & Massage
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Male - Straight
Berlin DE
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goddesssage
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US
I’m a bold spirit ready to guide you on an exhilarating journey of exploration and trust. I believe in the power of connection—every command comes from a place of care to ensure your experience is not only thrilling but also deeply fulfilling. As a companion, I’m down-to-earth. I connect easily with others and make every encounter feel natural. I’m dedicated to creating a space where you can truly be yourself. Whether we’re sharing a quiet dinner or enjoying a night out, I bring delightful conversation and an air of sophistication that ensures each moment is special. As a Dominatrix, I have a deep understanding of the mind-body connection. When I’m in charge, safety and consent come first. I thrive on creating spaces where you can fully surrender and connect with your true self. Together, we’ll navigate the delicious tension between discipline and affection, pain and pleasure, and control. We'll craft a unique dynamic that resonates with your deepest dreams and desires.
BxSassy
Content creator & Photographer
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual
Paris FR
Your fave hairy Sassy babe encouraging you to come out and play 💋
GoddessM
BDSM & Muse
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Female - Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Sensually sadistic Deity👑Dominatrix/Pro&Lifestyle
joyenjoyen
Dancer, Muse & BDSM
Services are Online
Female - Pansexual
Manila PH
JOYEN (Pronouns: Perceived) is a Sadistic Rope Bondage Dominatrix and Burlesque Stripper, with expertise in the art of macabre and seduction. Her favorite style is aesthetically-pleasing and acrobatic tormenting rope, and Her interest lies in the realm of elegant fetish and erotica. Nothing delights Her Infernal Majesty more than those willing to completely surrender their darkest and most vulnerable selves (and wallets) in the dangerous embrace of Her rope.
etoileVega
BDSM, Coach & Companion
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Pro kinkster. Sensual switch, impact is my specialty.
ElixaMoon
BDSM, Coach & Massage
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Female - Bisexual
Dallas TX US
How big is your Eros, wanna find out? ✨
sophiadomina
BDSM, Workshop & Writer
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Female - Bisexual
Los Angeles CA US
Mommy Domme and Performanatrix
MistrixHooks
BDSM, Companion & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
Nuremberg DE
Artist, Domme, Romantic Hedonist, & Sensuous Pervert ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚
carlyjorve
Erotic audio, Muse & BDSM
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Female - Queer
Amsterdam NL
Hot philosophers should be paid. Your greatest purpose is serving your goddess.
PreciousLillith
Dancer, BDSM & Sugar baby
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Female - Demisexual
Portland OR US
Succubae
What is impact play?
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Impact play is an activity in the world of BDSM and kink. It involves one person (the 'top' or 'dominant') delivering various forms of physical impact to another person (the 'bottom' or 'submissive'). The purpose of impact play is typically to create sensations of pain for the sub, which in turn creates pleasure for both partners. Impact play can take many forms, such as spanking, whipping or caning.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of impact play is often rooted in punishment. It's about those fulfilling those fantasies surrounding people in positions of power like school teachers. Many people love impact play purely for the rush of endorphins they receive from the pain. Others like the idea of being branded because the connotations it carries of being owned by somebody.
Safety is paramount. Communicate openly with your partner about limits, use safe words, and establish clear signals to indicate comfort levels. Start slowly, especially if you're new to impact play, and avoid sensitive areas like the kidneys and spine. Regularly check in with your partner to ensure their well-being.
While there is specialised BDSM equipment available, you can start with everyday items like hands, belts, or wooden spoons for lighter impact play. If you progress to more intense activities, consider investing in purpose-built tools like floggers or paddles. Always prioritise the cleanliness and safety of any items used.
Absolutely. Many people find pleasure in both giving and receiving sensations from impact play. It can be a way to explore power dynamics, experience different sensations, and enhance intimacy. Open communication ensures that both partners derive enjoyment and satisfaction from the experience.
DO
Communication: Have an open discussion about why you are both into impact play and what you want to get out of it.
Research: Whether you're spanking or being spanked, it's important to know the right parts of the body which are safe to hit.
Aftercare: No matter how soft or heavy the play, spending close time together afterwards is imperative.
DON'T
Rush: Don't hurry into the hardcore stuff. A slow build of impact play is always sexier, anyway.
Danger zones: Don't go near the lower back. This can cause permanent damage and is a hard no-go area.
No Communication: Don't begin without discussing a safe word. This is crucial to all BDSM play.