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welcome2sarahdise
BDSM & Kinkster
Female, Bisexual, Boston MA US
In person & Online
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elemental_subtlety
Muse, BDSM & Massage
Male, Queer, Oakland CA US
In person
As I see it, massage therapy is about holding space. My clients allow me to meet them in a place of incredible vulnerability, and it is my job to meet them there with compassion, respect, and a desire to see them thrive. Without this, I would just be pushing muscle tissue around. While this might be helpful, it would fall short of having a deep impact. Massage has the potential to help people find equilibrium, physically and emotionally. I seek to help that process along by continuously working to improve myself. Iāve taken to describing my style of topping as a sort of sensation domming. Between the years of martial arts training, massage work, and skilled labor jobs, my hands are my favorite toolsā¦ and toys. I like to play with connection, space, and anticipation. My goal is to have my scene partner on the edge of her/their seat, tugging at her/their restraints, holding her/their breath and waiting for the moment my hand touches her/them, caresses her/them, my nails drag across her/their skin, with exclamations punctuating every slap, and protests filling the moments in between contact. I take a particular pleasure in taming brats and molding them into well-behaved, eager submissives. My approach is kind, firm, mindful, and as brutal or gentle as each moment requires. I also have an extensive collection of sex toys for you to sample.
mvpblack
Artist, BDSM & Coach
Gender fluid, Queer, Zagreb HR
In person & Online
Light, Life, Love, and Liberty
vitavolition
Content creator, BDSM & Writer
Female, Queer, Amsterdam NL
In person & Online
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MissAria
Erotic audio, BDSM & Companion
Female, Pansexual, Stockholm SE
In person & Online
Sensual, sapiosexual (and horny), luxury dominatrix type. Travel for civi job so catch me in Stockholm, Munich, London
misslycoronel
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Female, Bisexual, Palm Desert CA US
Online
Iām drawn to energy thatās authentic and a little mysteriousāsomeone who knows how to laugh deeply and isnāt afraid of thoughtful silences, too. Letās get to know each other through shared stories, unexpected conversations, and maybe a bit of playful banter.
TheMominatrix
Content creator, BDSM & Companion
Female, Bisexual, Seattle WA US
In person & Online
Mommy is ready, are you?
pedrocordas
Content creator, BDSM & Educator
Male, Straight, Lisbon PT
In person & Online
My twenty one -year obsession with rope started in Tokyo. I frequently travel to Japan to keep alive my passion for rope, studies, and research. Since there are so many rope salons in Tokyo, with so many talented rope people, if one keeps oneās heart and eyes open, one will learn a lot about Japan and its rope culture. This amazing odyssey in kinbaku has allowed me to meet/see/learn from so many great people. Over the years I have performed and taught in four continents including, Asia, Europe, North America, and Oceania. The topics I teach are vast, I usually adjust my classes to the level of the participants ā from beginner to experienced - with an emphasis on form, intention, and aesthetics.
MistressElleQui
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Bisexual, Seattle WA US
In person & Online
I am Mistress Elle, a sensual sadist and meticulous Professional Dominatrix. I meld your fantasies with reality and craft an experience that will stay with you for a lifetime. When I'm not using my canes, whips, and ropes to turn submissives into art, you can find me in the ballet studio or out in the wilderness with my 2 dogs. My long-term goals include opening a commercial dungeon and possessing a personal library akin to the one from Beauty and the Beast. Well equipped. I am not a FS provider, be sure you read the rules on my website before sending an inquiry. Kinks I love: Rope Bondage (technical, contortion, and predicament) Impact Play / Pain Training / Bastinado Whipping CBT Foot / Heel / Boot Worship Leather Worship MedFet Pet Play Feminization / Maid Training Spitting Bird Feeding Chastity /Keyholding Pegging Needle Play Sounding Electric Play Vacuum Beds/Mummification Wax Play
Missjadesmoke
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Demisexual, Phoenix AZ US
In person & Online
Blending seduction with unwavering control. Come see me at DOIAZ or topless services available. Check out my website
SirLifts
Content creator, BDSM & Workshop
Male, Pansexual, Sherwood Park AB CA
In person & Online
I work/play in and around health and wellness as a trainer, speaker, author, safe kink/sex educator, professional Dominant and content creator! Coffee? Cannabis? Gym? Walks? Mountains? Adventures? Music? Kink? I'm/we're phucking doooown! Side Note: if you and yours are looking for a safe place to learn, lab, practice and/or explore Kink and BDSM, PLEASE reach out and let's chat. I love educating and working with people as they find spicier more confident and playful versions of themselves. Will add more when I get a chance!
BallistaTheBoss
Content creator & BDSM
Female, Straight, Costa Mesa CA US
In person & Online
Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy
What is impact play?
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Impact play is an activity in the world of BDSM and kink. It involves one person (the 'top' or 'dominant') delivering various forms of physical impact to another person (the 'bottom' or 'submissive'). The purpose of impact play is typically to create sensations of pain for the sub, which in turn creates pleasure for both partners. Impact play can take many forms, such as spanking, whipping or caning.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of impact play is often rooted in punishment. It's about those fulfilling those fantasies surrounding people in positions of power like school teachers. Many people love impact play purely for the rush of endorphins they receive from the pain. Others like the idea of being branded because the connotations it carries of being owned by somebody.
Safety is paramount. Communicate openly with your partner about limits, use safe words, and establish clear signals to indicate comfort levels. Start slowly, especially if you're new to impact play, and avoid sensitive areas like the kidneys and spine. Regularly check in with your partner to ensure their well-being.
While there is specialised BDSM equipment available, you can start with everyday items like hands, belts, or wooden spoons for lighter impact play. If you progress to more intense activities, consider investing in purpose-built tools like floggers or paddles. Always prioritise the cleanliness and safety of any items used.
Absolutely. Many people find pleasure in both giving and receiving sensations from impact play. It can be a way to explore power dynamics, experience different sensations, and enhance intimacy. Open communication ensures that both partners derive enjoyment and satisfaction from the experience.
Storytime: My Hypno Shibari experience with Hands of Eros
Monday 28 October 2024
I recently had the chance to do a private session with the wonderful Hypno Shibari artist, Emmanuel aka Hands of Eros. Here's everything that happened.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta CĆtrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
Sensual kink experiences: the top 10
Tuesday 11 July 2023
Welcome to the wonderful world of kink. Sensuali looks beyond taboos and provides a space for us to understand our desires better. Whether youāre seeking or offering, itās all about exploration for everyone. Hereās our top 10 crĆØme de la kink experiences.Ā
DO
Communication: Have an open discussion about why you are both into impact play and what you want to get out of it.
Research: Whether you're spanking or being spanked, it's important to know the right parts of the body which are safe to hit.
Aftercare: No matter how soft or heavy the play, spending close time together afterwards is imperative.
DON'T
Rush: Don't hurry into the hardcore stuff. A slow build of impact play is always sexier, anyway.
Danger zones: Don't go near the lower back. This can cause permanent damage and is a hard no-go area.
No Communication: Don't begin without discussing a safe word. This is crucial to all BDSM play.