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MistressGemmaLi Impact play Denver
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MistressGemmaLi

BDSM

Services are  In person

Female - Sapiosexual

Denver CO US

Femme Fatale Dominatrix | Lifestyle ↔ Pro

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jamiejoy Impact play New York
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jamiejoy

BDSM, Educator & Workshop

Services are  In person & Online

Trans - Queer

New York NY US

Queer & Trans sex and kink educator spreading joy and pleasure through community orgynizing

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goddesskeileigh Impact play New York
5 1 1 4

goddesskeileigh

Photographer, BDSM & Sugar baby

Services are  Online

Female - Pansexual

New York NY US

Your Wallets worst nightmare

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mistressseren Impact play New York
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mistressseren

BDSM, Coach & Educator

Services are  In person

Female - Sapiosexual

New York NY US

For the Discerning and Depraved

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CamilleakaVixen Impact play Singapore
10 1 8

CamilleakaVixen

BDSM, Massage & Workshop

Services are  In person

Female - Bisexual

Singapore SG

Invitation to receive, be adored and worshipped through a tantric massage or a sensual yet firm domination session 😈✨

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welcome2sarahdise Impact play Boston
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welcome2sarahdise

BDSM & Kinkster

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Bisexual

Boston MA US

Sweet Sadist 🍭

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GoddessM Impact play New York
11

GoddessM

BDSM & Muse

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Sapiosexual

New York NY US

Sensually sadistic Deity👑Dominatrix/Pro&Lifestyle

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joyenjoyen

Dancer, Muse & BDSM

Services are  Online

Female - Pansexual

Manila PH

JOYEN (Pronouns: Perceived) is a Sadistic Rope Bondage Dominatrix and Burlesque Stripper, with expertise in the art of macabre and seduction. Her favorite style is aesthetically-pleasing and acrobatic tormenting rope, and Her interest lies in the realm of elegant fetish and erotica. Nothing delights Her Infernal Majesty more than those willing to completely surrender their darkest and most vulnerable selves (and wallets) in the dangerous embrace of Her rope.

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etoileVega Impact play New York
5 9

etoileVega

BDSM, Coach & Companion

Services are  In person & Online

Non Binary - Queer

New York NY US

Pro kinkster. Sensual switch, impact is my specialty.

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ElixaMoon Impact play Dallas
5 1 2

ElixaMoon

BDSM, Coach & Massage

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Bisexual

Dallas TX US

How big is your Eros, wanna find out? ✨

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sophiadomina Impact play Los Angeles
11 2

sophiadomina

BDSM, Workshop & Writer

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Bisexual

Los Angeles CA US

Mommy Domme and Performanatrix

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MistrixHooks Impact play Nuremberg
2

MistrixHooks

BDSM, Companion & Coach

Services are  In person & Online

Non Binary - Queer

Nuremberg DE

Artist, Domme, Romantic Hedonist, & Sensuous Pervert ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

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What is impact play?

What is impact play?

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Impact play is an activity in the world of BDSM and kink. It involves one person (the 'top' or 'dominant') delivering various forms of physical impact to another person (the 'bottom' or 'submissive'). The purpose of impact play is typically to create sensations of pain for the sub, which in turn creates pleasure for both partners. Impact play can take many forms, such as spanking, whipping or caning.

What makes it hot?

The appeal of impact play is often rooted in punishment. It's about those fulfilling those fantasies surrounding people in positions of power like school teachers. Many people love impact play purely for the rush of endorphins they receive from the pain. Others like the idea of being branded because the connotations it carries of being owned by somebody.

Safety is paramount. Communicate openly with your partner about limits, use safe words, and establish clear signals to indicate comfort levels. Start slowly, especially if you're new to impact play, and avoid sensitive areas like the kidneys and spine. Regularly check in with your partner to ensure their well-being.

While there is specialised BDSM equipment available, you can start with everyday items like hands, belts, or wooden spoons for lighter impact play. If you progress to more intense activities, consider investing in purpose-built tools like floggers or paddles. Always prioritise the cleanliness and safety of any items used.

Absolutely. Many people find pleasure in both giving and receiving sensations from impact play. It can be a way to explore power dynamics, experience different sensations, and enhance intimacy. Open communication ensures that both partners derive enjoyment and satisfaction from the experience.

DO

Communication: Have an open discussion about why you are both into impact play and what you want to get out of it.

Research: Whether you're spanking or being spanked, it's important to know the right parts of the body which are safe to hit.

Aftercare: No matter how soft or heavy the play, spending close time together afterwards is imperative.

DON'T

Rush: Don't hurry into the hardcore stuff. A slow build of impact play is always sexier, anyway.

Danger zones: Don't go near the lower back. This can cause permanent damage and is a hard no-go area.

No Communication: Don't begin without discussing a safe word. This is crucial to all BDSM play.